I recently told my mum I'm pregnant with my second. She's very happy and supportive. But she's also immediately started making comments about my weight. Examples:
After I threw up while visiting she said "it's so funny that you throw up so much and yet you're putting on so much weight!"
She came round one afternoon and one of her first questions was "how's everything, how much weight have you put on?" (I answered that I didn't know because I don't weight myself)
She's a bit of an almond mum, obsessed with diets and fitness. I'm pretty cool mostly but this is getting to me a bit. Yes, I'm gaining. I have no idea how much but I'd guess a few kilos at this point.
Am I being overly sensitive because of pregnancy hormones? I seriously don't know.
If you think it is out of order, can anyone suggest ways of shutting her down without upsetting her? I think she's been very sensitive about her weight her whole life so I think this is just concern manifesting itself in rudeness.