Im extremely unhappy in my relationship to the point I'm starting to become depressed. Dp and I have being together 16 years and have 3 dc. If i met him today, we wouldn't be a couple. We couldn't be more opposite if we tried. He's still the 23 year old i met 16 years ago. He acts like a teenager and hasn't matured where I have. Even though we are both parents to out DC he acts like he has no responsibilities. Going out when he wants, getting up when he wants, pretty much doing what he wants all the time. He told me leaving a relationship for being unhappy is a stupid reason and i must have mental health issues.