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To ask what we SHOULD have done during the COVID pandemic

504 replies

tunainatin · 10/11/2024 05:48

So I realise the government made mistakes at the time of COVID. They also acted completely immorally by not following the rules they imposed on everyone else.
However, I suspect any government in this country would have been criticized whatever their response.

I was mulling over the rules and restrictions and trying to work out which ones were actually worthwhile. Some rules seemed so petty (e.g. the one a day walk) but there has to be a line drawn somewhere, otherwise the parks would have been full of people.

Once we were allowed to attend things with restrictions in place, I went to an event which was meant to have masks and social distancing but everyone kind of got carried away and forgot about. Everyone got COVID, including me, badly, and one person was hospitalised.

So if you were the government what would you have done during the pandemic. Which of the bizarre rules we followed do you think saved lives, and which just causes stress or distress?

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Flowerrrr · 10/11/2024 09:55

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 09:53

I agree on schools. They should have been kept open

But borders could not have been closed, this was confirmed at the enquiry

I do think schools should have returned sooner than they did, but keeping them open at that early stage before much was known would have been unfair. Plenty of teachers are clinically vulnerable, plenty of children have family members who are clinically vulnerable, the government did nothing to install filtration devices or anything else that was recommended; I wasn't going into work risking mine and my families health thanks. It would have been easier though, the amount of hours spent setting up online learning and the additional administrative responsibilities whilst as lots of us were juggling everything else was savage AF.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 09:56

Skykidsspy · 10/11/2024 08:02

New Zealand seemed to get it right, didn’t they? Long, strict lockdown initially and then living normally afterwards - with the big exception of a closed border. They have much lower death count. I’m not sure what effect it had on their economy but repeated lockdowns and furlough can’t have been good for ours.

we seemed to react too late and too slowly and then the measures when coming out of lockdowns were really daft.

NZ option wasn't possible here

sleepwouldbenice · 10/11/2024 09:56

Flowerrrr · 10/11/2024 07:10

When anyone calls others sheep you know their opinion isn't worth taking notice of.

Agreed
Or sheeple

AgileMentor · 10/11/2024 09:56

Ohthatsabitshit · 10/11/2024 09:47

Well it’s a different strain, we have better treatments in place that we know work, most of the population have some immunity, and the CV are vaccinated. There are still people dying but not in the high hundreds a day. Did you think it was all a story??? Do you not know anyone hurt or bereaved by covid?

My father in law had cancer and underwent treatment during Covid that he had to pay privately for because the NHS were useless to the point that if he had waited for them to sort appointments it would have spread. He caught Covid during treatment and was fine. I’m classed as CV and have had Covid 3 times and worked the last 2 times I’ve had it. I don’t think it was an elaborate story but why were we all told to stay at home when boris the people implementing the ‘rules’ were throwing parties?

User135644 · 10/11/2024 09:57

The 3 weeks to flatten the curve/help the NHS should have been adhered to. Shielding for the vulnerable if they wanted. Then maybe some restrictions in tge lead up to Christmas.

Once the vaccines were out it should have been back to normal quicker.

sleepwouldbenice · 10/11/2024 09:58

Overpayment · 10/11/2024 07:27

They could have been segregated by staying at home. What an odd question.

Multi generational families?
Carers?
The fact that not all vulnerable are old

What a narrow minded simplistic view

FloofPaws · 10/11/2024 10:01

Sorry. It RTFT but I remember telling my DH a week or so before the closure that we need to stop people coming into the UK.
It would have been much more sensible to get people working from home where possible
Other than closing borders, stopping as much interaction as possible, throwing open all the windows in public places to keep the air circulating

daffodilandtulip · 10/11/2024 10:08

I think it was more what we did do, was done too late. They fannyed about deciding whether to close schools, let massive sorting events go ahead, not to mention the government hypocrites. Anything done after that was irrelevant and too late.

Attelina · 10/11/2024 10:10

We knew it was a load of crap and lies from day one and didn't follow any of it expect when they put a stupid five mile travel distance for exercise and actually had police cars positioned in certain places to stop and question people. Foe he most part we did get around it but some days had to divert when we saw a police car.

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:14

TheKeatingFive · 10/11/2024 09:34

The UK has a land boarder with another country. Closing that border was not an option politically.

Also, food distribution in the UK is dependent on trucks entering from the continent and delivering across the country. The UK is not New Zealand.

Politically does not come into it when thousands of lives are at stake. The repercussions of closing the borders would have been problematical and teaks and nuances would have been needed but that does not mean it should not have been done. The things that were done were problematical, but that does not mean they should not have been done.

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:15

tweaks

cheezncrackers · 10/11/2024 10:15

I remember telling my DH a week or so before the closure that we need to stop people coming into the UK.

Those 'people' you were talking about were mainly British citizens. Do you honestly think we should've shut our borders and trapped our citizens overseas, like Australia did? I thought that was an appalling policy. You pretty much assume in life that you can always go home, will always have a right to return to and reside in your country of citizenship. How would you have felt if you'd been on holiday or a business trip and the border had just been closed, trapping you overseas?

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 10:15

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:14

Politically does not come into it when thousands of lives are at stake. The repercussions of closing the borders would have been problematical and teaks and nuances would have been needed but that does not mean it should not have been done. The things that were done were problematical, but that does not mean they should not have been done.

Politics comes into absolutely everything.

New Zealand would not have been able to do what they did if the other countries in the world hadn't agreed to take on the responsibility of hosting their stranded citizens for open ended periods, for example.

umdontdothat · 10/11/2024 10:15

Helloflo · 10/11/2024 07:15

Exactly what we did but without party loving Johnson involved.
My sister is doctor in a major London Hospital. She was broken by it. On the rare times I got to see her during the pandemic I found her laying on the floor of her kitchen crying and unable to move.

She eventually tolde that that night they had been overwhelmed with patients needing beds and so many had died she didn't think she could go back.

She was utterly broken.
My lovely neighbours lost their son who was only 38. He had no pre-existing conditions.
At my friend's work place they lost 5 staff members. All Asian or black men. She said she misses them everyday.

We should have been better prepared.
It will happen again. But more people will die because we've turned into an anti vaccine world of idiots.

^
This.
When your previously fit and well husband is in ITU ventilated , with a tracheotomy, dialysed and comatosed for 5 months and then somehow miraculously survives albeit with lifelong disabilities and has to spend the next 6 months in a different hospital learning to walk again and do basic self-care tasks; please try living that horror while looking after 2 young children.
So yes, schooling etc was disrupted, freedoms curtailed, but do you know what? That was the very least of mine and my children's worries.

LameBorzoi · 10/11/2024 10:17

freedohm · 10/11/2024 09:34

I’m in Sweden and looking back we did well. I worked as a preschool teacher the entire time, my children went to their school and we could go out nearly as usual. There was no big difference to our lives. Also our politicians stepped back and let our state epidemiologist make the calls as he is an expert and they are not. It turned out better than we thought at the time, but next time who knows what the rigjt thing will be.

I’m most happy my children didn’t miss out of school anyway.

You can't take the Swedish approach without the Swedish infrastructure. More financial security, better working rights / sick leave, more living space etc

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:17

NZ option wasn't possible here - it was possible; not easy of course, but then none of the options were easy.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 10:17

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:17

NZ option wasn't possible here - it was possible; not easy of course, but then none of the options were easy.

Ok, how?

Cynic17 · 10/11/2024 10:22

Possibly a very short (4 week?) initial lockdown, by which time we would have realised that it was unnecessary.
A push to get the vaccine programme up and running - which we actually did.
Nothing else - no masks, no restrictions, no stupid rules. They were all pointless. We should have been prioritising keeping children in school.
The Government were not "immoral" - they were pragmatic, because they knew the restrictions were stupid, but sadly couldn't find a way to get out of them.

sashh · 10/11/2024 10:23

We should have started lock down earlier. We had about 2 weeks where it was in mainland Europe.

In Spain people were in lockdown, but the UK allowed Spaniards to travel unrestricted to a football match in Liverpool. I don't blame the Spanish fans, they had tickets and had paid for travel that probably cost a fortune.

Even if we had not gone in to lockdown there are things that could have been done. Atletico Madrid's fans are probably mostly located near Madrid. A charter flight (or more likely a fleet) from Madrid to Liverpool would have kept people off trains and ferries.

That was mistake one.

Ytcsghisn · 10/11/2024 10:25

None of the rules were necessary. The only people that should have been in lockdown were the elderly or the ones with core morbidities. And there is nothing discriminatory about it. The lockdowns destroyed the economy and people’s well being which have caused more excess deaths because of the restrictions than Covid itself.

But we all know why the policies were adopted. So that corrupt government officials and leeching civil servants could funnel public money to their cronies and back into their own pockets.

Lesson? Never ever trust the government when they tell you to follow the science.

NomenNudum · 10/11/2024 10:30

First of all, they should have seen it coming since a pandemic had been right at the top of the national risk register for years. Then they should have followed the experience of the pandemic planning operations held in the 2010s.

itsgettingweird · 10/11/2024 10:33

I agree that I don't think anyone could have got it "right".
It was a novel virus so guess work will always be part of planning.

However the fact we didn't have readiness planning was a mistake.

The fact the government has wanton disregard for the rules we all had to follow is unforgivable.

What I think should have happened was more meeting and planning and making rules with clear indication of why rather than this making rules up because of media pressure of because Johnson just thought it sounded good and gave him more tv time.

Also government clarifying the rules more clearly. Johnson's inability to communicate effectively was a major issue with covid. There never was a rule about 1 hour a day exercise.

If pubs could open they should have had rules in place and there was no need to food to be involved and clarifying what constituted a meal.

The government allowed the media to use covid as click bait far too readily.

This was a pandemic. Measures needed to be in place. I don't disagree with the original lockdown whilst we figured out how to manage the pandemic.

But the complete lack or clarity and consistency was unacceptable.

LameBorzoi · 10/11/2024 10:35

Ytcsghisn · 10/11/2024 10:25

None of the rules were necessary. The only people that should have been in lockdown were the elderly or the ones with core morbidities. And there is nothing discriminatory about it. The lockdowns destroyed the economy and people’s well being which have caused more excess deaths because of the restrictions than Covid itself.

But we all know why the policies were adopted. So that corrupt government officials and leeching civil servants could funnel public money to their cronies and back into their own pockets.

Lesson? Never ever trust the government when they tell you to follow the science.

Actually, that's wrong. The economies that fared the best were those with the fewest covid deaths.

Parker231 · 10/11/2024 10:35

Ytcsghisn · 10/11/2024 10:25

None of the rules were necessary. The only people that should have been in lockdown were the elderly or the ones with core morbidities. And there is nothing discriminatory about it. The lockdowns destroyed the economy and people’s well being which have caused more excess deaths because of the restrictions than Covid itself.

But we all know why the policies were adopted. So that corrupt government officials and leeching civil servants could funnel public money to their cronies and back into their own pockets.

Lesson? Never ever trust the government when they tell you to follow the science.

And the hospitals would have been unable to admit the number of patients needing inpatient treatment if Covid had been allowed a free for all in communities. Inpatients weren’t just the elderly and CEV.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 10:39

Mischance · 10/11/2024 10:17

NZ option wasn't possible here - it was possible; not easy of course, but then none of the options were easy.

No it was confirmed at the enquiry by Whitty

If you think about the difference in borders you can see the issue

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