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To ask what we SHOULD have done during the COVID pandemic

504 replies

tunainatin · 10/11/2024 05:48

So I realise the government made mistakes at the time of COVID. They also acted completely immorally by not following the rules they imposed on everyone else.
However, I suspect any government in this country would have been criticized whatever their response.

I was mulling over the rules and restrictions and trying to work out which ones were actually worthwhile. Some rules seemed so petty (e.g. the one a day walk) but there has to be a line drawn somewhere, otherwise the parks would have been full of people.

Once we were allowed to attend things with restrictions in place, I went to an event which was meant to have masks and social distancing but everyone kind of got carried away and forgot about. Everyone got COVID, including me, badly, and one person was hospitalised.

So if you were the government what would you have done during the pandemic. Which of the bizarre rules we followed do you think saved lives, and which just causes stress or distress?

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SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 17:59

cardibach · 11/11/2024 17:57

@SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence the thing is, I can remember pointing out what Labour were saying before and during lockdowns to people defending the Tories’ uselessness. I have actual memories, so saying something different now won’t wash.

I'm not sure what you mean here, or how it relates to my post. Could you do me a favour and clarify?

Notreat · 11/11/2024 18:00

I had no problems about the rules (expect maybe the rule of 6 one which seemed daft as they would be 6 people from 6 different households but you couldn't meet 7 people from 2 different households).
Social distancing was necessary at that time and without making it compulsory it wouldn't have happened.
However I do think everyone should have followed the rules. Not just some people.

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:02

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 17:59

I'm not sure what you mean here, or how it relates to my post. Could you do me a favour and clarify?

I’m saying that what you are saying about what Labour asked for at the time, and crucially why, doesn’t fit with my actual memories. People were saying they wanted longer lockdowns at the time and I was arguing that that was wrong. It’s still wrong. I remember it.

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:03

cardibach · 11/11/2024 17:31

@Everanewbie none of those say what you think they say, so no - they were not great finds @JenniferBooth
When Labour asked for lockdowns to be extended it was because they hadn’t been started early enough or implemented thoroughly, so it still wasn’t safe. As we found out with having to repeatedly go back in.
Labour’s advice was to go earlier and harder to shorten duration. When Tories fucked that up. Obviously they had to point it out.

Starting earlier wouldn't have mattered, a virus like this will always come back once people start mixing again.

Places like NZ which are naturally isolated were able to try this to some extent, but in the end it's become endemic in all of those places.

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:04

Notreat · 11/11/2024 18:00

I had no problems about the rules (expect maybe the rule of 6 one which seemed daft as they would be 6 people from 6 different households but you couldn't meet 7 people from 2 different households).
Social distancing was necessary at that time and without making it compulsory it wouldn't have happened.
However I do think everyone should have followed the rules. Not just some people.

But it's been admitted by authorities everywhere that social distancing rules were totally made up. People who study transmission say they make no sense.

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:05

If we had controlled amounts of virus coming in it might have helped. Plus earlier and harder for the necessary repeats would have helped limit them too. Instead of opening schools, letting everyone mix and then closing them the next day, for eg. When there had been stacks of medical advice not to allow them to open.

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:06

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:04

But it's been admitted by authorities everywhere that social distancing rules were totally made up. People who study transmission say they make no sense.

Citation required.

Flopsythebunny · 11/11/2024 18:11

usererror99 · 10/11/2024 05:58

Anyone in at risk categories - anyone in receipt of old age pension or CEV should have been told to stay home and the rest of us should have got on with it

We were, and we did

EasternStandard · 11/11/2024 18:12

TempestTost · 11/11/2024 18:03

Starting earlier wouldn't have mattered, a virus like this will always come back once people start mixing again.

Places like NZ which are naturally isolated were able to try this to some extent, but in the end it's become endemic in all of those places.

Exactly. All you can do is slow it down a bit for a while but that comes at a HUGE cost as we have seen

The damage and harm wasn't communicated but the risk of the virus was ramped up, this meant the public demanded lockdowns but it was based on a skewed campaign

user1471538283 · 11/11/2024 18:13

Boris was told by Macron that he needed to close the boarders as to wait would be too late. I would have taken his advice. In fact the borders were never properly closed. I would have attended the Cobra meetings and listened to the experts. I would have followed New Zealand's example. I would not have had parties when the rest of the population was dying or giving birth alone.

I would not have had Eat out to help out. I would have made sure that the police and councils were equipped to deal with those having parties, being ridiculously noisy, clubs being open.

But we didn't matter. He was willing to sacrifice us on his altar of being compared to Winston Churchill.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 18:20

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:02

I’m saying that what you are saying about what Labour asked for at the time, and crucially why, doesn’t fit with my actual memories. People were saying they wanted longer lockdowns at the time and I was arguing that that was wrong. It’s still wrong. I remember it.

I think extra restrictions is a better way of putting it than longer lockdowns, as a lot of the statements made relate to things other than lockdown duration. Also Labour were totally rudderless in March 2020, so in practical terms there's not a lot they could have done. But there's no doubt that Labour called for restrictions on top of those the Tories implemented. Whether or not one thinks they were right is a separate point.

BillyCri · 11/11/2024 18:24

Labour would have delayed the successful 2021 summer unlockings

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:24

The West should've learned more from Asian countries like South Korea and Japan, who implemented excellent contact tracing and masking measures. In fact, we still have a lot to learn from them.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 18:28

BillyCri · 11/11/2024 18:24

Labour would have delayed the successful 2021 summer unlockings

They said they would, but I doubt it. They'd have been subject to the same political limitations as the Tories had they been the ones in office, and the public were moving past it by that time. Opposition parties come out with a lot of things that aren't practical, it's the nature of the game. Similarly, whichever Reform politician it was who said they wouldn't have locked down in March 2020 is also wrong. Everyone would've, it was politically unavoidable.

crumblingschools · 11/11/2024 18:32

@IAmNotAMorningPerson so many people on here complained they couldn’t wear masks for a variety of reasons and no way would everyone complied with Asian style track and trace

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 11/11/2024 18:33

They did the best they could. That's it.

Diomi · 11/11/2024 18:35

Makingchocolatecake · 11/11/2024 15:25

Why do you think they shouldn't have closed schools?

They are germ factories! I've had covid multiple times and work in schools. One time it was traced to a child.

Because I think education is essential. Plenty of people had to go to work: nhs, police, supermarket employees etc. I think schools should have remained open as remote learning was pretty useless. I am a teacher so I wouldn’t have been asking anyone to do anything I wasn’t willing to do myself and I don’t think vulnerable teachers should have been asked to go in.

I do realise that plenty of people wouldn’t agree with me.

I can’t imagine ever trying or wanting to trace covid to a particular child. There was so much of it going round!

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 18:35

cardibach · 11/11/2024 16:40

No it wasn’t. It was never an hour a day. That was from a throwaway comment made by Gove. I live in Wales. An hour a day was never the rule.

It was said by Mark Drakeford and the police applied what he said so, in fact, it was a rule.

I think there was never an actual 'no sitting' law, but if the police moves you on if you sit down, the end result is that you can't sit down outside.

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:38

crumblingschools · 11/11/2024 18:32

@IAmNotAMorningPerson so many people on here complained they couldn’t wear masks for a variety of reasons and no way would everyone complied with Asian style track and trace

I think they would've complied, Brits are rule followers. They grumble a lot but they do what they're told. And it's certainly a kinder system to implement track and trace, extensive testing and masking but you're still able to go out of your house, meet other humans, continue your education etc.

crumblingschools · 11/11/2024 18:40

@IAmNotAMorningPerson many people refused to comply with the system we had, and I’m sure they would have been even more suspicious about Asian style one

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 18:41

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:38

I think they would've complied, Brits are rule followers. They grumble a lot but they do what they're told. And it's certainly a kinder system to implement track and trace, extensive testing and masking but you're still able to go out of your house, meet other humans, continue your education etc.

There was significant non-compliance even with the less extensive track and trace scheme we eventually had, so that seems unlikely.

Dr13Hadley · 11/11/2024 18:42

scalt · 10/11/2024 06:51

This is a good thread, because I've been thinking a lot about this.

First and foremost:
Not made it a policy to frighten the public out of their wits. I think this was a very, very bad move indeed, along with infantilising the public with those stupid three-word slogans.

Not pledged to "beat the virus", or to "do whatever it takes". Boris said this to pacify the panicking public, and this made it politically impossible to ease restrictions. I think they should have said "we cannot eliminate the virus; we can only lessen the harms". It is a curse of the modern age that the public expects the government to be able to solve everything. I think that a few decades ago, it was more acceptable for governments to tell the blunt truth, and say "there is only so much we can do in the face of nature; and we risk causing much greater damage if we try to stop the inevitable".

Admitted from the very start that lockdowns would cause great damage, if they went on for too long, and sold them as an extremely regrettable measure, rather than the only thing to do. Because they were sold as the solution to "save lives", "protect the NHS" and "in twelve weeks, send the virus packing", people craved lockdown. Even now, they are still trying to pretend that lockdowns were harmless.

Assured us that lockdowns and other restrictions were temporary. With their use of phrases such as "new normal", and the drip-drop boiling frog method of "just three more weeks, just three more weeks, normalish by Christmas, significant normality by Easter, just until the over 70s are vaccinated, just until the over 60s are vaccinated, just until the over 50s are vaccinated, etc.", it looked very much as if restrictions would become very, very permanent. Even now, there's still the possibility that they might be brought back at the drop of a hat.

If lockdown became inevitable, instead of throwing death figures at us all the time (which showed that lockdown was FAILING its objective), telling us more about the damage lockdown was causing.

If one good thing has come out of what happened, far more of the public will be aware of how easily the government can use the media to distort reality, and to manipulate the public. Hopefully lots of the public will be much less trusting of government from now on, and less likely to believe everything they say.

Hear, hear 👏🏻

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:42

Gwenhwyfar · 11/11/2024 18:35

It was said by Mark Drakeford and the police applied what he said so, in fact, it was a rule.

I think there was never an actual 'no sitting' law, but if the police moves you on if you sit down, the end result is that you can't sit down outside.

An hour was never a rule, and was therefore never enforced. And actually, couldn’t be if you think about it.
I do agree about the sitting down - though that was in England too as I recall.

cardibach · 11/11/2024 18:43

crumblingschools · 11/11/2024 18:40

@IAmNotAMorningPerson many people refused to comply with the system we had, and I’m sure they would have been even more suspicious about Asian style one

A very high percentage complied. Much higher than the government expected - because, yes, we are rule followers as a nation but also because people could see the point of staying away from someone who might give you a disease for which there was no treatment or cure.

IAmNotAMorningPerson · 11/11/2024 18:45

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 11/11/2024 18:41

There was significant non-compliance even with the less extensive track and trace scheme we eventually had, so that seems unlikely.

Actually the British public was very compliant with lockdown rules in the first wave, even though official rules in the UK were much less strict than in other European countries (e.g. Italy). There will always be some non-compliance because people are not robots, but there was definitely widespread compliance with little dissent. Some data here:
theconversation.com/lockdown-mobile-data-suggests-europeans-may-not-have-followed-rules-as-strictly-in-the-second-wave-154815