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To ask what we SHOULD have done during the COVID pandemic

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tunainatin · 10/11/2024 05:48

So I realise the government made mistakes at the time of COVID. They also acted completely immorally by not following the rules they imposed on everyone else.
However, I suspect any government in this country would have been criticized whatever their response.

I was mulling over the rules and restrictions and trying to work out which ones were actually worthwhile. Some rules seemed so petty (e.g. the one a day walk) but there has to be a line drawn somewhere, otherwise the parks would have been full of people.

Once we were allowed to attend things with restrictions in place, I went to an event which was meant to have masks and social distancing but everyone kind of got carried away and forgot about. Everyone got COVID, including me, badly, and one person was hospitalised.

So if you were the government what would you have done during the pandemic. Which of the bizarre rules we followed do you think saved lives, and which just causes stress or distress?

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SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:19

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:09

What are lockdowns for? To stop the transmission and contain it. UK modelled few years before a pandemic, Tories decided to get rid of PPE stock despite advice to the contrary. 12th of March mandatory testing of staff has stopped. Nobody knew where the virus was. Government was reactive because it did not have the necessary means in place to successfully curtail it. Had Johnson heeded the science and the WHO advice in time they could have taken advantage of the UK's geographical position. Tories locked down 2 weeks too late, before that they allowed the super spreader Cheltenham event to go ahead because of the gambling lobby, and allowed hundreds of thousands of unchecked people to come in via airports. People were with them at the beginning, heeded the advice etc. later they completely undermined their own messaging for political reasons this is when antivaxxers and Covid deniers piped up. New Zealand handled it well. We had self-interested, inept, incompetent corrupt buffoons. The mantra of we protected the at risk groups is nonsense when PPE for hospital staff was not available and later people couldn't be bothered to wear a mask. Who are the at risk groups? Fact is, Covid did not only target the designated at risk groups. Healthcare workers, economically disadvantaged, ethnic minorities and overweight people disproportionately figured among the dead. 2 million people are disabled by LC to varying degrees. Nobody cares about them. It was impossible to protect the at risk groups by walling them away from society. Many of those have jobs, live with children who were forced to go to school. Many conditions that predispose people to catch it do not count as at risk such as people with ME/CFS.

This doesn't really relate to what I wrote, although I certainly agree on the corrupt, self-interested buffoons part. If you want to talk about at risk groups, that includes those who were placed at risk by the restrictions you advocate for. I've been extremely clear that it was impossible to protect all the vulnerable, because they had different and competing interests.

Also, the UK's geographic position is why we couldn't have done anything like New Zealand did. The frequent reference to them in this thread is bemusing. We have a land border that could not have been both closed and policed. We're on the busiest shipping lane in the world, one that people frequently cross unofficially, and unlike New Zealand we're nowhere close to producing enough food for our whole population. Which is more than twenty times theirs.

nietzscheanvibe · 10/11/2024 18:22

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 12:41

I don't think you get my point.

You've chosen an example where society wouldn't be functioning. It would be anarchy. People often default to this sort of scenario when they're trying to come up with something that involves people being scared enough to behave. But they leave out that people can also be too scared to behave, and to do the work that keeps the lights on, shelves stocked etc. Restrictions, if they existed, would be moot because it would be like something out of Walking Dead. There's a good chance anyone you address this question to would be out looting/being looted.

This is important, because a lot of us, and I know that includes @TheKeatingFive who you quoted a minute ago, are sceptical that a disease exists that would be serious enough to scare a critical mass of the population into observing restrictions whilst also not being scared enough that basic services and order break down. The sweet spot, if you like. That existed in 2020-21, but it doesn't now and we've no way of knowing when it could again. And if it could, a disease that would mean many more than 10% dying of starvation and violence isn't it.

I don't disagree with you, Society is a fragile thing and it wouldn't take much for it to collapse, but that wasn't the point being made by the pp I criticised, who simply seemed to favour a bloody-minded refusal to comply with government in any future crisis, regardless. My 1-in-10 example was simply a rhetorical mechanism to get the pp to think of a situation where non-compliance would unarguably worsen the death toll, what would they do then, still not comply?

People sometimes say that the first duty of a government is to protect its citizens but, really, the first concern of a government is to control it's citizens (broadly speaking, by coercion in dictatorships, and by persuasion in democracies). 🤷‍♂️

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:34

Missamyp · 10/11/2024 08:11

It was pointless to insist on the continuation of work since global supply chains had essentially halted. The government did what it could during that time. Reducing nosocomial transmission was a crucial measure that kept hospitals from becoming overwhelmed. However, a tragic consequence was that vulnerable elderly individuals were effectively confined to other settings, leading to their deaths.
The pandemic was a live trolley dilemma experiment.

They did nothing of the sort. Government's operation Cygnus in 2016 found glaring holes in government readiness for a pandemic yet they got rid of the PPE stockpile. They allowed the Cheltenham race to go ahead before they locked down. UK never had a full lockdown, untested, unchecked passengers were allowed in by the hundreds of thousands bringing in Covid and new strains. They undermined the messaging to get away with their own lockdown rule breaking and to get people to accept "casualties" of Covid and go back to work. Eat out to help out was another super spreader disaster. Besides that they've wasted billions on an app that never worked, on the VIP PPE lanes and the Covid loans. Compared to other island nations such as New Zealand UK fared pitifully. So no, the government "has not done what it could", it consistently made things much worse by ineptitude, greed and corruption. 250,000 dead and over 2 million living with Covid in the UK. I would not call this "they did what they could" when NZ death toll is what could and should have been.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:38

nietzscheanvibe · 10/11/2024 18:22

I don't disagree with you, Society is a fragile thing and it wouldn't take much for it to collapse, but that wasn't the point being made by the pp I criticised, who simply seemed to favour a bloody-minded refusal to comply with government in any future crisis, regardless. My 1-in-10 example was simply a rhetorical mechanism to get the pp to think of a situation where non-compliance would unarguably worsen the death toll, what would they do then, still not comply?

People sometimes say that the first duty of a government is to protect its citizens but, really, the first concern of a government is to control it's citizens (broadly speaking, by coercion in dictatorships, and by persuasion in democracies). 🤷‍♂️

I know it wasn't the point they were making, but the default to the nightmare scenario means you raised it yourself. It's quite a well worn path at this point!

For the people who now refuse to go along with the government as a matter of principle, if there were another pandemic now that put them at greater risk, presumably some of them would choose to modify their behaviour because they felt threatened and others wouldn't. Part of the reason others wouldn't is because of lack of trust. There'd have to be some person or institution that people actually believed. It's not immediately obvious who that would be. I think if another pandemic came along now, half of the internet would say it was down to the covid vaccine.

It does also need to be factored in that some non-compliance wasn't borne of disagreement about medical advice, but rather about who the government had chosen to prioritise. As an example, when my children and others in the family were considered unworthy of school and socialisation whilst others got the whole caboodle with better ratios in 2021, I decided they weren't going to be any more collateral than I could help. So we had playdates, and plenty of them.

Now I agree that the greater the number of contacts that happen, the higher the risk of transmission. That's the science bit. But the question of where my children ought to fall on the priority list isn't science, it's politics. And I disagreed with the great genius scientist Boris Johnson about how much of their welfare ought to be sacrificed. There were plenty like me.

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:41

Lwrenn · 10/11/2024 07:54

The amount of children who died as a result of abuse from parents, stepparetnts, care givers was despicable and many of those children were known to social services.
Abusers would use covid as an excuse to not allow social workers in the home to check on the children.
Domestic violence cases went through the roof and more women died at the hands of their abusers.
I'm not sure what the rise in child sexual abuse was but I imagine significant.
Ultimately we locked victims in with their abusers and that to me should never ever happen again.

I think covid was very tough to navigate because it was unknown and people, healthy young people died due to covid so I do think there needed to be a shield of protection for the elderly and vulnerable. But it was catastrophic in the way it was handled. Instead of politicians trying to help their pals profit, money should have been used wisely and advice from people who had some answers taken.

I think any child known to social services, even prehistoric cases should have had to have attended school as a bare minimum but I'd have had the schools opened and only vulnerable students or those with vulnerable parents battling illness or themselves really vulnerable should have had been allowed to home school.

Don't mix social issues with Covid. UK has very high incidence of DV and child abuse anyway. Covid exacerbated already existing issues everywhere around the world not just in the UK. Had the UK listened to the WHO advice in time and locked down when it should have and completely, it could have been like in NZ. Short lockdown, testing and isolating new cases straight away. Life could have returned to normal sooner.

Everanewbie · 10/11/2024 18:41

Anonym00se · 10/11/2024 08:09

And who would have looked after these vulnerable elderly and ill people? It would have been impossible to keep them segregated if they need care multiple times a day. Those saying they should have stayed at home are basically saying ‘They’re worthless and should have been culled’ because that would have been the end result if we’d have allowed everyone else to go about their business.

I knew two perfectly healthy people who died of Covid in their 30s. It wasn’t just elderly or CEV people dying back in 2020/21.

I don’t believe you. Around 2500 under 40s in UK died, and that includes serious co-morbidities. Statistically, the probability of you personally knowing two previously entirely well individuals in their 30s who died of Covid, not with, is virtually nil.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:43

Aggie15 · 10/11/2024 18:41

Don't mix social issues with Covid. UK has very high incidence of DV and child abuse anyway. Covid exacerbated already existing issues everywhere around the world not just in the UK. Had the UK listened to the WHO advice in time and locked down when it should have and completely, it could have been like in NZ. Short lockdown, testing and isolating new cases straight away. Life could have returned to normal sooner.

Um, human beings mixed social issues with covid. It's completely batshit to think pandemic policy can stand aloof from established social problems.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:49

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:02

From Heathrow/London airports? Mostly onto the tube. I remember people talking about it at the time.

You mentioned testing people at airports

I meant what did you want to happen to those who were a positive? Not the tube I assume. How many could you accommodate a day in quarantine v how many arrive at all airports in the UK?

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:51

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 17:43

Why was it feasible for Aus and NZ then?

They don't have on road access with supplies arriving daily. Remember the lorry queues when things go wrong, there are hundreds a day bringing food to medical supplies

Covid would be transmitted that way and you'd not be able to quarantine and get the same results as NZ or Aus.

Although Melbourne had incredibly long lockdowns because 1 or 2 cases would get in and they'd have to shut things down. We'd have those 1 or 2 cases multiple times a day via lorries

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:58

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:49

You mentioned testing people at airports

I meant what did you want to happen to those who were a positive? Not the tube I assume. How many could you accommodate a day in quarantine v how many arrive at all airports in the UK?

Quarantine. Like 8n every other country.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

cardibach · 10/11/2024 18:58

Quarantine. Like 8n every other country.

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

cardibach · 10/11/2024 19:00

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

You don’t stop a disease spreading be stopping people with the disease from spreading it?

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 18:59

Chris Whitty confirmed at the enquiry it wasn't possible to do as Aus and NZ did.

You'd not stop the spreading with quarantine

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 19:04

cardibach · 10/11/2024 19:00

You don’t stop a disease spreading be stopping people with the disease from spreading it?

As in pp you have entry by lorries, which are necessary for the UK to function.

Aus and NZ did not have the same number of people entering daily. You'd still have multiple cases entering a day and spreading.

You don't think Chris Whitty has got it wrong though? As stated closing the borders was not feasible, do you think he has the information and insight?

EasternStandard · 10/11/2024 19:06

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Do you not think he was told to say that?

No definitely not, although I'm not sure why it was only at the enquiry it was said. I think people thought it was possible during the pandemic, but it really wasn't and that was confirmed.

See pp on entry of food goods, supplies etc and the people who are required to bring them in

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:06

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Just to be clear, is this an actual suggestion that Whitty isn't giving his genuine truthful view to the enquiry, but rather has been put up to it?

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:08

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:06

Just to be clear, is this an actual suggestion that Whitty isn't giving his genuine truthful view to the enquiry, but rather has been put up to it?

Is that impossible?

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:13

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:08

Is that impossible?

You can answer my question first.

Once you've clarified what you mean and set out the reasons why, I'm ready to be persuaded. Though asking why the UK couldn't be like a group of pretty geographically isolated, hard to access islands isn't going to do it.

crumblingschools · 10/11/2024 19:13

We have more transport and food supplies going through our country so would have been very difficult to close borders or have full quarantine

R053 · 10/11/2024 19:16

TheKeatingFive · 10/11/2024 13:19

I'm not sure any Western country pulled off Track and Trace. It was much more suited to Asian societies with different attitudes to data privacy.

Australia and NZ did track and trace very well up until Omicron came along.

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:02

You said this in reply to me earlier. Do you not think he was told to say that? How come Aus and NZ could do it but we couldn’t? Genuinely asking btw.

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:23

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 19:13

You can answer my question first.

Once you've clarified what you mean and set out the reasons why, I'm ready to be persuaded. Though asking why the UK couldn't be like a group of pretty geographically isolated, hard to access islands isn't going to do it.

Fine - lying is possible seeing as there was such corruption in the operation. However, I respect Chris Whitty; it doesn’t mean he is right about that though. There would have been ways to make it work, we just didn’t take it seriously until it was too late.

User79853257976 · 10/11/2024 19:24

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

Couldn’t the food continue to move and the drivers stay in quarantine hotels?

R053 · 10/11/2024 19:26

SnakesAndArrows · 10/11/2024 19:17

Good lord. You’re suggesting Whitty lied to the enquiry? Seems highly unlikely.

And it’s been explained many times why Aus/NZ could close their borders and the U.K., with a land border with the EU and dependency on the movement of lorries of food across the channel, could not. Not without starving the population anyway.

What about high density Asian countries that have land borders such as South Korea, Thailand, China? They were still able to close their borders and introduce quarantine rules like Australia and NZ. South Korea didn’t even need to have lockdowns as their track and track and testing system was so good. China had a lockdown early and then lived normally for a long time before their extreme one at the end, which was a waste of time because it was omicron.

nietzscheanvibe · 10/11/2024 19:26

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 10/11/2024 18:38

I know it wasn't the point they were making, but the default to the nightmare scenario means you raised it yourself. It's quite a well worn path at this point!

For the people who now refuse to go along with the government as a matter of principle, if there were another pandemic now that put them at greater risk, presumably some of them would choose to modify their behaviour because they felt threatened and others wouldn't. Part of the reason others wouldn't is because of lack of trust. There'd have to be some person or institution that people actually believed. It's not immediately obvious who that would be. I think if another pandemic came along now, half of the internet would say it was down to the covid vaccine.

It does also need to be factored in that some non-compliance wasn't borne of disagreement about medical advice, but rather about who the government had chosen to prioritise. As an example, when my children and others in the family were considered unworthy of school and socialisation whilst others got the whole caboodle with better ratios in 2021, I decided they weren't going to be any more collateral than I could help. So we had playdates, and plenty of them.

Now I agree that the greater the number of contacts that happen, the higher the risk of transmission. That's the science bit. But the question of where my children ought to fall on the priority list isn't science, it's politics. And I disagreed with the great genius scientist Boris Johnson about how much of their welfare ought to be sacrificed. There were plenty like me.

Again, not arguing, there is a debate to be had about the merits of decisions made (and I'm most definitely not an apologist for Johnson, Hancock, et al). But, again, my point to the pp was that their comment was borne purely of bloody-mindedness and ignorance, whilst they imagine that they are somehow more informed than others because they are not "a mindless sheep". The refusal to comply because many others are complying seems pretty mindless - and no other justification was given, other than that the majority were "mindless". I stand by my initial criticism.