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To hate the trend for adding no to the end of sentences?

96 replies

O6bftdff · 09/11/2024 20:09

Why do people do it?!

‘Eggs don’t need to be kept in the fridge, no?’

’It’s hot in here, no?’

Why? Why is it a trend? Makes no sense whatsoever.

OP posts:
Yoehxn · 09/11/2024 22:01

@pikkumyy77 I am a non-native speaker and in my mother tongue, we use “no?” at the end of our sentences a lot - but I’ve since been told off for doing so in English. I cannot tell you how tempted I am sometimes to use “innit!?” instead - it just makes so much sense to me! But I don’t think I can pull it off! 😂

Gowlett · 09/11/2024 22:05

USA / right? At the end of a sentence.

UK / yeah or no at the end of a sentence.

UK / no “it” at the end of a sentence.
Eg. “I made a cake with raisins in”

I’m Irish, we have loads of annoying ones too!

SabreIsMyFave · 09/11/2024 22:07

My lovely neighbour who is Italian says 'no' at the end of a sentence now and again, but when it's someone saying it, particularly her, it sounds quite quaint.

When it's written down... not so much.

KindlyOldGoat · 09/11/2024 22:08

No at the ends beats so at the start!

SalviaDivinorum · 09/11/2024 22:08

The only people I know who do it in real life are friends who are non native English speakers.

IsItWickedNotToCare · 09/11/2024 22:11

I've also noticed politicians starting EVERY sentence with 'Look', which is currently really winding me up. Look, there's really no need for it! 😬

Shoppedatwoolworths · 09/11/2024 22:16

I don’t know why, but when people, especially in customer service, say “at all” at the end of a sentence it really bugs me for a brief millisecond.

“would you like a bag at all?”
”would you like to make a donation at all?”

VictorianBigot · 09/11/2024 22:17

IsItWickedNotToCare · 09/11/2024 22:11

I've also noticed politicians starting EVERY sentence with 'Look', which is currently really winding me up. Look, there's really no need for it! 😬

‘Look’ makes me feel on edge.

Gowlett · 09/11/2024 22:18

“So” is often used at the beginning of a sentence.
I really don’t like that.

Mom is very commonly used, in Ireland.
I’ve always said it, and I’m not a youngster!

We say “like” way too much here, though…

Bit different, but PP mentioned “sans”
On route always makes me laugh when I see it.

Gowlett · 09/11/2024 22:20

Another one that’s totally normal, where I live…
Myself. Yourself. Herself. I know MN hates it.

cariadlet · 09/11/2024 22:22

If we're widening the discussion to other pet peeves, I'll add "No problem".

If I was asking someone to do me a favour and they said, "Sure, no problem," that would be fine.

What bothers me is when, for example, I'm in a cafe, order a coffee and am met with, "No problem." Why on earth would it be a problem? I'm politely asking someone to do something which is an intrinsic part of their job.

AmICrazyToEvenBother · 09/11/2024 22:25

I'm glad it's not just me that hates this! More often than not it's used so passive-aggresively on here, the perpetrator comes across as a total arsehole.

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 09/11/2024 22:29

It's awful. Almost as bad as "right" which I actually find offensive because it's like saying "you will agree with me....."

Mnetcurious · 09/11/2024 22:31

Agreed! I’ve noticed this being used more and more. Unnecessary and annoying.

ncduetooutingsituation · 09/11/2024 22:44

It's irritating.
As it using 'unironically' in sentences for no apparent reason.

DangerMouseAndPenfoldx · 09/11/2024 22:51

Barrenfieldoffucks · 09/11/2024 20:53

Yup, there's not many that rile me on here, but I can just picture the kind of person who types it and they are definite Mumsnet, tinkly laugh head tilters.

Statistically far more likely to be from the West Coast of Scotland, where it has been a thing for at least a couple of hundred years.

But if we strike you as tinkly laugh head tilters, crack on hen! 😂 (Stereotypically the head tilt is of a different kind though)

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 09/11/2024 22:55

Round here everyone seems to add 'though' to the end of most sentences, do you know what I mean though?

Witchesandturnips · 09/11/2024 23:07

I can’t stand ‘ if that makes sense?’
Especially after someone has explained the most basic concept.

Kingsleadhat · 09/11/2024 23:09

VictorianBigot · 09/11/2024 20:24

It makes me feel homicidal.

Me too

Pussycat22 · 09/11/2024 23:11

cariadlet, pretentious, moi ????

lottiegarbanzo · 09/11/2024 23:18

It's just a way for supercilious people to announce themselves.

Morven7 · 09/11/2024 23:21

SabreIsMyFave · 09/11/2024 20:17

I also hate people putting the word SANS instead of WITHOUT.

'DH and I went to the beach SANS the children ... '

Just say without you donut! Hmm

It is annoying no.......?

Nowhere near as annoying as doughnut though no?

MagpiePi · 09/11/2024 23:25

mongoliandoll · 09/11/2024 21:19

I do this, but the other way round. So I will add a yes to the end of a sentence.

I've just been thinking about the circumstances and I think it's when I'm asking a question that I'm pretty sure of the answer to, but need confirmation.

e.g.
You want me to bring your bag upstairs, yes?
I think the instructions are in the car, yes?

Maybe it's a way to catch the times when e.g. the bag recipient already told me they wanted it upstairs but I was only 1/2 listening and I don't want them to know I was distracted.

Hmmm, maybe I need to pay more attention. Or maybe people need to make sure they've got my attention when they're asking things of me.

There’s a manager at work who adds ‘yeah?’ to the end of every sentence. Drives me nuts and I really have to bite my tongue to not copy him in a sarcastic manner. He is an annoying little knob anyway.

Goballistic · 09/11/2024 23:26

I think words go through trends. There has been a recent tendency towards starting replies with I mean.

OliveWoe · 09/11/2024 23:29

The one that I've noticed recently, and which really annoys me, is how people say "AS well", instead of "as well".