Someone who is unable to accept you having male friends/acquaintances - particularly gay ones - and is kicking off in such an extreme way about it, who is showing so clearly that he is intensely jealous, possessive and trying to be controlling ....so early too. And to top of off is verbally abusive and really nasty.
And his "you're just like everyone else" comment shows he's got this problem with everyone. And sees other people as the problem, not himself......
Is never ever going to be a decent partner. Never.
He will never change
People like this never do, and they are usually slower to show this and better at hiding it; so he's an extreme example.
This is also the sort of person who could possibly get violent.
Keep him blocked, unfortunately the new "relationship" is a non starter.
There are other men.
This one is a dud. He's a mess. He's not right in the head and I guarantee he won't change.
You need to run.
All you're going to get out of any further contact with him is abuse and stress.