I'm furious with DH and he can't understand why.
He's got man flu, I called up the GP for him this morning and got him an appointment. No thanks, he didn't report back after the appointment, and when I asked he just muttered antibiotics and turned back to his laptop.
Meanwhile, my asthma has gone from stable and controlled to severe and uncontrolled in the past year. It's really affected my life as I can't do much without being breathless. My chest hurts pretty much 24/7.
Today I had much waited for lung function tests. DH didn't offer to drive me to the hospital, I asked if he could give me a lift back and he said no. So I walked there and back, despite not being allowed to use my asthma inhalers for 24 hours ahead of the tests.
On the way back I sent him a WhatsApp with a brief update.
I get home and he doesn't say anything. Later, when it's quieter I ask if he got my text. He bites my head off and said he didn't get a text from me. I correct myself and say "WhatsApp" and he just says yeah.
He's done fuck all around the house the past two days despite being home sick. I've had to keep going for the past year, with no allowances made.
To me, his behaviour smacks of just not caring. It's really not been any different the past year.
AIBU in thinking he doesn't give a shit and nothing is going to change.