Hi all,
me and DS father have had a very rocky few months. We split and have decided that we will be living apart. I will be getting my home as I have my DS with him and a DD from previous relationship to think of (if we split again I don’t want to end up back at my mums). He has children from previous relationship so he wants to keep him house.
he’s asked we go counselling to speak thru our troubles but I wonder. Is it worth it?
am I wrong in saying that the sheer fact no one thinks we should be together (we both told our closest too much about our relationship than we should have.. personal things we should have worked on), the fact that we are not going to be living together so to me that seems no future? I’m so confused
i love this man he says he loves me and I love want our family to work. But counselling and separate houses…? Is it the end of the line for us?
I keep saying horrible things in a relationship and I am blowing hot and cold to the poor man because I’m scared of it all failing and I feel because it’s not everything I don’t want anything. I know that’s selfish. What do I do.