Dh and I have been married 5 years, together 8. So not an especially long long marriage. I have a dc from previous relationship and we have a toddler together.
He's a good husband on the face of it. Helps out with both dc, cooks, cleans, provides financially. But there is no spark or passion in our marriage anymore. He doesn't have a high sex drive (never really has) and we dtd about once a month. He is ok with this. I'd like it more but because he's basically admitted to not having a high sex drive there's not a lot I can do. I just have to accept it.
We have no help with childcare and very rarely get an opportunity to do something just the two of us. I'm talking maybe about 3/4 times in 2 years and always during the day.
He's fine with me going out and seeing friends but doesn't have much enthusiasm about him to want to do it himself. He's happy sat at home. It's just so dull. I feel largely invisible to him. Yeah he's tactile in the sense that he'll give me a hug and a peck but there is literally no fire in him anymore. Silly things like texting me throughout the day when we're at work - I hear nothing now.
I feel very meh about everything but I know to a certain extent this is just life. Even so it would be good to get some tips on how to get the spark back...if we can :(