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Did your children had bad acne if you had

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DreamyRedNewt · 06/11/2024 08:31

Posting here for traffic as I am worried about my DD skin. She is 7, so quite young, but I can see she is starting to get some (small) spots.

At the beginning I was not sure if there were spots or keratosis pilaris, as she had bad keratosis in her arms when she was younger. But yesterday she had one that was a bit sore, I am pretty sure it is a very mild acne, but is is very worrying for me as she is so young and most importantly, I had awful cystic acne when I was a teenager. I suffered so much with it and completely destroyed my confidence, I still have issues with confidence and self-esteem now (after many years), which I am sure stems all from that. I cannot bear the thought my DD can go through the same..

I know that you have more chances of having acne if one of your parents suffered from it too. In your experience, did your kids had bad acne if you also had it?

Poll:
No - you are being unreasonable
Yes - You are not being unreasonable

Also, when is ot reasonable to go to the doctor with these concerns? She has less perfect skin thank other kids her age, but I am also aware is nothing too much at the moment and I think going to the GP will achieve nothing at this point. But does it mean that she will start puberty early if she is starting to have a few spots at 7?

OP posts:
farmlife2 · 02/03/2025 02:14

Both me and my husband had a phase of terrible acne. None of my children have had any acne problems at all.

Staceyinthebox · 02/03/2025 03:12

Let your 7 year old daughter have her childhood. The misogynistic appearance obsessed world will steal it from her in time I’m sure.

Praise her good acts and ignore her appearance.

Relax and breathe, there is no doom and gloom problem here.

Your child will pick up on your dread and absorb it from you when it might not happen. The most popular girl in my school had one of the worst cases of acne I’ve seen. That did not stop her enjoying herself.

She is too little to have a face care routine at 7, are you crazy!
Take her to the GP and stop plastering her with adult creams,

Robinredd · 02/03/2025 03:27

Staceyinthebox · 02/03/2025 03:12

Let your 7 year old daughter have her childhood. The misogynistic appearance obsessed world will steal it from her in time I’m sure.

Praise her good acts and ignore her appearance.

Relax and breathe, there is no doom and gloom problem here.

Your child will pick up on your dread and absorb it from you when it might not happen. The most popular girl in my school had one of the worst cases of acne I’ve seen. That did not stop her enjoying herself.

She is too little to have a face care routine at 7, are you crazy!
Take her to the GP and stop plastering her with adult creams,

I totally get your point.

But I can see it from the OPs perspective. Unless you've had really severe acne to the point of wanting to end your life I don't think you can understand the worry that your child might have to suffer the same fate. Not saying this was your experience OP, but it was mine.

Though the GP probably is a good place to start OP.

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