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Eating Takeaway In A Hospital Waiting Room Do You See It As Unreasonable

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Warrior96 · 05/11/2024 12:08

So long story short I ended up with an infected ear piercing and had to see an out of hours doctor at the hospital. My life medical problems always seem to happen on a Saturday or Sunday! Due to it is known to be a nasty infection I was admitted onto the ears nose and throat ward, it was average time 5-6 hours to see a doctor it took me 5 hours. In the meantime in the waiting room a couple sat next to me bought a KFC into the waiting room. I can understand people can get hungry with the long wait but there were a number of nauseous people in that waiting room. I feel they were being a bit selfish and could have bought something more appropriate.

AIBU?

OP posts:
GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:01

lifeturnsonadime · 05/11/2024 12:15

My elderly mother has been sitting in A&E through the night twice in the last 12 months, triaged but waiting for a bed to come available. While KFC wouldn't be her food of choice would you expect her not to eat in the 23 hour wait time (first time) or slightly shorter second one?

Why would she have to eat something like hot fried chicken as opposed to, say, sandwiches which would be less problematic for other sick people?

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:01

I was admitted to the emergency assessment unit a couple of years ago at 11am, was released at 1am. Had nothing to eat apart from a small cake bar that I had in my bag, and nothing was offered- plus the hospital cafe was closed. I was absolutely starving and felt so much worse. I can't blame people for ordering food if there's none available in the hospital!

ontheturn · 05/11/2024 13:02

Exactly the same the other day with a really stinky bag of McDonalds..
unbekievably
as it was night time the hospital actually redirected patients to the McDonald's for snacks!! A vending machine would have been better!

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:02

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:01

Why would she have to eat something like hot fried chicken as opposed to, say, sandwiches which would be less problematic for other sick people?

Because often fast food is all that's available 24/7.

ARichtGoodDram · 05/11/2024 13:02

Depends if they have a choice of where to get food. The only two places in quick walking distance from our A&E are KFC and a chip shop.

The hospital shop closes at 4pm, same as the tearoom and there is literally one vending machine that has crisps and sweets in it and it's often empty. Last time we took DD in it had monster munch or wotsits left, one pack of each.

So it's very common to see people eating KFC while waiting. It's better, smell wise, than the chip shop.

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:03

JC03745 · 05/11/2024 12:13

What food WOULD be appropriate OP? Often A&E only has a vending machine with crisps/chocolate bars and IF they have a cafe open, its often miles away to get to.

I used to work with a colleague who would bring in a dish made with a type of fermented fish. She'd heat it in the microwave and the entire kitchen would stink for days. Now that was awful!

If these people could access a KFC, presumably walking to the hospital café would if anything be easier. IME hospital vending machines do now tend to sell more substantial snacks, not least for the benefit of the staff.

lifeturnsonadime · 05/11/2024 13:03

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:01

Why would she have to eat something like hot fried chicken as opposed to, say, sandwiches which would be less problematic for other sick people?

I'm not sure why you've quoted me. My mother wasn't eating KFC : S.

If the hospitals want to control the food consumed perhaps they should offer to feed patients waiting for beds to become available?

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:03

ontheturn · 05/11/2024 13:02

Exactly the same the other day with a really stinky bag of McDonalds..
unbekievably
as it was night time the hospital actually redirected patients to the McDonald's for snacks!! A vending machine would have been better!

It really wouldn't.

McDonald's gets a lot of abuse but it's not actually bad food, and at least somewhat balanced, unlike a vending machine which usually only have crisps, sweets and chocolate!

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:04

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:03

If these people could access a KFC, presumably walking to the hospital café would if anything be easier. IME hospital vending machines do now tend to sell more substantial snacks, not least for the benefit of the staff.

Many hospital cafes close on an evening so you can't use them.

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:04

Brightspark3 · 05/11/2024 12:16

Given the average wait time in an nhs hospital they were probably just happy to get something to eat so yes YABU

It's a hell of a stretch to assume that hot smelly fried chicken was the only food available.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/11/2024 13:06

HydrangeaBush · 05/11/2024 12:58

Hot food IS banned on our local buses I didn't realise that wasn't universal.

If it’s banned on ours, some people evidently take no notice.
TBH I have no hesitation in applying the ‘chav’ word to people who not only take smelly fast food on buses, but also leave their greasy, smelly rubbish behind.

loropianalover · 05/11/2024 13:06

KFC knocks me sick so I’d be annoyed 🤣🤣 if it was McD’s I wouldn’t care

ARichtGoodDram · 05/11/2024 13:06

If these people could access a KFC, presumably walking to the hospital café would if anything be easier. IME hospital vending machines do now tend to sell more substantial snacks, not least for the benefit of the staff.

In both of the hospitals in our area the cafes don't open on weekends and close at 4pm during the week.

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:07

ComtesseDeSpair · 05/11/2024 12:29

Both the hospitals I’ve visited recently had a cafe serving hot food right next to the A&E department, which makes it difficult to complain about people eating their own hot food whilst waiting.

I doubt they were selling fried chicken or spicy food, though. There's a difference between, say, a heated up pasty and deep fried chicken and chips.

VioletCrawleyForever · 05/11/2024 13:07

Eating hot smelly food is very unreasonable.

A sandwich would have been ok but KFC 🤢

Allfur · 05/11/2024 13:08

Having spent many hours in hospital waiting rooms, its the last kind of food i would eat

lifeturnsonadime · 05/11/2024 13:08

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:07

I doubt they were selling fried chicken or spicy food, though. There's a difference between, say, a heated up pasty and deep fried chicken and chips.

Anecdotally I had a 4 night stay in a hospital for surgery on my badly broken ankle. The food there was dire, except for the curry. That was delicious.

LBFseBrom · 05/11/2024 13:09

I was an in-patient a few years ago and a visiting family used to bring in takeaways to eat while they sat with their relative - pizza, burgers, drinks, all sorts. They also sat on the floor and her bed, sharing and eating:-). It was quite funny. I agree it isn't appropriate, a drink and a sandwich would be OK but not a meal and nothing smelly.

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:09

VioletCrawleyForever · 05/11/2024 13:07

Eating hot smelly food is very unreasonable.

A sandwich would have been ok but KFC 🤢

Where are you getting the sandwich if the cafe and shop are closed, and there's nothing else available apart from fast food?

I absolutely hate KFC but people have to eat something and since Covid a lot of hospitals just don't have anything available, especially on an evening.

Spacie · 05/11/2024 13:09

A relative of mine spent more than 24hours in A&E last year while waiting for a bed. Somewhat to my surprise a trolley of hot food was wheeled in at meal times and the patients in the cubicles and corridors did get fed. Not the relatives though obviously and I doubt the waiting room (which was spilling out into the street) was included.

BobbyBiscuits · 05/11/2024 13:10

If someone's having to wait for 5 hours plus then they're going to need to eat. You can't just expect people in those situations to starve. It's very common for people to have to eat in waiting areas and A&E. I know fast food smells aren't the best but just ignore it.
I've eaten McDonald's chips before in that situation. I've seen people eating full meals of chicken and rice brought from home. I admired them for their organised planning skills.

Westofeasttoday · 05/11/2024 13:12

AndYaKnowAndYaKnow · 05/11/2024 12:12

YABU

Very rarely are people given food in hospitals anymore unless you are a 'proper' inpatient
Even then, the chances are it is inedible or not sufficient

It could have been a lot worse!

But isn’t it slightly different to bring it into an A&E waiting room and bringing it into a ward?

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:12

ARichtGoodDram · 05/11/2024 13:06

If these people could access a KFC, presumably walking to the hospital café would if anything be easier. IME hospital vending machines do now tend to sell more substantial snacks, not least for the benefit of the staff.

In both of the hospitals in our area the cafes don't open on weekends and close at 4pm during the week.

So walking to an alternative to KfC is likely also to be just as easy. A hell of a lot of corner shops that are open late sell sandwiches, sausage rolls etc. See also the bit about hospital vending machines.

To say nothing of the fact that most people have come to their nearest hospital and could pick something up from home rather than flogging out to KfC.

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 13:14

GoldenPheasant · 05/11/2024 13:12

So walking to an alternative to KfC is likely also to be just as easy. A hell of a lot of corner shops that are open late sell sandwiches, sausage rolls etc. See also the bit about hospital vending machines.

To say nothing of the fact that most people have come to their nearest hospital and could pick something up from home rather than flogging out to KfC.

Edited

Are people walking through? Because I wasn't allowed to leave EAU to get anything. If I'd been able to order delivery to me I'd absolutely have done it.

My nearest hospital with A&E is ten miles/about 20 min drive away so I don't think nipping home for food is as easy as you're making out for a lot of people!

Cougha · 05/11/2024 13:15

I’d have previously said U, but not too long ago had to order chips, the only thing I could get delivered as there wasn’t a vending machine and it had been hours and hours of waiting and I really needed something to eat. With how long waits are not, I’m not surprised people order.

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