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Worrying about breast cancer

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SilverMoons · 04/11/2024 11:20

Hi everyone,

I found a lump in my breast a couple weeks ago and went to the GP for a check. She told me it didn’t seem like anything to worry about and was likely just a hormonal change (I’m now 40 weeks pregnant). The GP said she wasn’t going to refer me for any scans, despite having bc in my family, because it’s probably nothing. But, about an hour after I left, she called me to say she was referring me on the two week pathway just in case.

I really wasn’t worried at all until I went for my breast clinic appointment. I had a chat first with a doctor who said it didn’t feel malignant and was probably milk-related. He sent me for an ultrasound anyway.

The ultrasound showed that it definitely wasn’t milk build up - it’s a solid mass which needed a biopsy. Maybe I’m reading too much into this, but I feel like the mood shifted a bit when they realised.

They said that it might just be a fibroadenoma, but they don’t know. From the ridiculous amount of googling I’ve done, it seems like most people get told on the day if it looks like a fibroadenoma or if it looks like cancer. Does it seem strange that I wasn’t given a likely diagnosis? Has anyone else had the ultrasound tech not be able to tell? I’ve read that fibroadenomas are easily moveable, but my lump - which thankfully is smooth - doesn’t seem to move at all.

I keep worrying that they wanted to spare me from the bad news considering I’m due to give birth any day now, but is that ridiculous? If it is cancer, I’d honestly much rather be able to mentally prepare for receiving that news now than have it sprung on me in a week’s time.

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Sunbeam01 · 04/11/2024 12:15

@SilverMoons So sorry you are going through this.

I had a BC scare when I was pregnant and the wait was truly awful. Luckily all was fine.

I think they genuinely do not know until they have the results back.

Have you got a date for a biopsy?

ChequerToRed · 04/11/2024 12:46

I’ve had BC. I wasn’t told there and then after my scans, I had to wait for the biopsy results which took a few days, At this stage STOP GOOGLING. It won’t tell you anything useful, but it will ramp up your anxiety levels. You just have to go along with the process. It’s shitty, but it’s all you can do. Hopefully everything will be fine.

tangobravo · 04/11/2024 12:57

You poor thing, you must be worried. If it's helpful I was told about my fibroadenoma about a week after my biopsy and it didn't feel particularly moveable for me. Whatever it is, you're in the right hands now. All the best for your new arrival <3

SilverMoons · 04/11/2024 20:52

tangobravo · 04/11/2024 12:57

You poor thing, you must be worried. If it's helpful I was told about my fibroadenoma about a week after my biopsy and it didn't feel particularly moveable for me. Whatever it is, you're in the right hands now. All the best for your new arrival <3

Thank you so much! This gives me some hope!

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Oceancreature · 04/11/2024 21:01

I have had several breast lumps. The ones which were cysts I was told straight away, the fibroadenoma I waited until biopsy result. I know it weighs on your mind massively so hugs! Try to stay busy, easier said than done but it did help distract me.

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