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to be narked at seeing my xp on a dating website moaning that he's single?

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LaComtesse · 25/04/2008 22:24

When he was acting like a twat the last few months of our relationship??

I do recall a similar post he made about his ex just before we met actually.... he evidently has a history of being dumped and then whinging about it online. I was tempted to reply to his stupid thread with some of his choicer emails to me but I decided to keep my dignity - better to remain incognito to him as it were but it's irritating.

NB no animals were harmed during this post.

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LaComtesse · 25/04/2008 22:25
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madamez · 25/04/2008 22:27

. Just remember how lucky you are that you don't have to put up with his bollocks any more.

StarlightMcKenzie · 25/04/2008 22:28

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MeMySonAndI · 25/04/2008 22:30

Well, I supose dumped and whinging men with unresolved past relationship issues are not exactly hot stuff in dating sites.

LaComtesse · 25/04/2008 22:31

That's an idea but I think I'll just change dating websites . I suppose it's flattering in a way...!! He's using a pic I took of him as well.

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MeMySonAndI · 25/04/2008 22:34

exH is listed in facebook as single and open to a relationship with a photo I took of him. He also deleted me from his list of friends.

I find it hillarious!

LaComtesse · 25/04/2008 22:37

Well I deleted my xp from my facebook but annoying we still have a Scrabulous game open. I won't touch it in case he's messaged me via it - he actually nudged me to play a move the other day. I guess I shouldn't have been too surprised he's out trawling for new women but it was odd seeing it.

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madamez · 25/04/2008 23:50

Er, your Xps are your X Ps. They are allowed to be looking for new partners and to have sex or dates with whoever they want. Taking the piss is fine but they are not actually doing anything wrong.

fairyfly · 25/04/2008 23:52

good on him if he is hurt and single, he is making an effort to heal, what are you doing watching him heal? Why do you care? that is the question

Remotew · 26/04/2008 00:09

How much was he whinging? It would put me off anyway. However he does have a right to be looking. If you met him via a dating site then its obvious hes going to try the same lines via the same media.

scottishmummy · 26/04/2008 00:14

move on stop gawping at what he is up to. he is your ex.presumably for good reason

Flibbertyjibbet · 26/04/2008 00:14

Unless you want him back then I can't understand for one second why you are in the least bit bothered either that he is on a dating site or what he says about himself.

LaComtesse · 26/04/2008 08:29

I didn't read his profile, I just happened to recognise his pic! I don't want him back. I guess it just caught me on the hop as it were.

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