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To ask when is the cost of living going to go down?

239 replies

scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 14:53

When will working hard start to pay off? I scrape by every month. I can't afford to save, so I can't afford a house! I live in the South East and rent prices are crazy. Will this country ever become more affordable? For the past 16 years it's been doom and gloom and it just goes on and on!

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scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 16:25

Thank you so much @PlopSofa and @feelinglikeiwishitwas really appreciate your kind words! Love the idea of taking portraits but not sure I'm that good. I might go down the cleaning route, as it seems EVERYONE (aside from me) is looking for a cleaner haha!

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72hoursinaande · 03/11/2024 16:25

That’s nice to see but huge swathes of industry will stop investing particularly in staff - food retail has tiny margins and won’t be able to absorb the extra costs.

scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 16:29

Would starting a business be better?! (Not one that employs staff obviously, so being a sole trader)!

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Jabtastic · 03/11/2024 16:31

Forksup · 03/11/2024 15:19

It’s getting a bit like the ‘american dream’ isn’t it? We can’t even imagine that life could become more liveable for large swathes of people, and can only suggest ways for an individual person to tug harder on their bootstraps. If it was that easy to retrain for a high paying job while a single mother living in an overpriced area then everyone would do it. Probably true that systematic changes won’t happen though, when our two parties are so close in outlook and income inequality just continues to spiral post 2008.

I honestly think this post is so accurate. We really need mechanisms to allow people to change career direction in midlife and the training should be online to allow people to access it.

I retrained for a new career but it cost around £12,000 but I had no choice due to disability - I'm no longer able to work in my former career. My training course demanded in-person attendance and it made life most difficult for parents (especially single parents) and disabled / chronically ill people. There are much better ways of using technology to increase accessibility.

OP I just want to say - things are really hard at the minute financially for so many people. Don't beat yourself up for finding it hard. It IS hard.

scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 16:34

@Jabtastic thank you. Your last sentence gave me comfort! I have a lot of very well of friends so I feel I'm always on the back foot but have to realise we're all in the same boat! Can I ask what you retrained as, out of interest?

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Westofeasttoday · 03/11/2024 16:38

LadyGabriella · 03/11/2024 15:43

😳 have they actually done this?

Yes it really is mean. I think it’s supposedly to reduce sugar content but conveniently they are still the same price. I mean you can mess with a lot of things and I am being very light hearted here but to mess with a girls chocolate is too far.

FjordPrefect · 03/11/2024 16:38

I think Jacob Rees-Mogg said we'd start seeing the benefits of Brexit in 50 years time so 20-50 years after that maybe.

samarrange · 03/11/2024 16:41

@scotpancakes If you mean literally go down, with the price of things falling month on month, then be careful what you wish for. Deflation is a horrible thing to happen to an economy because people put off everything they can, as it will be cheaper tomorrow (read up on what happened to Japan over the last three decades). For a small taste of that, look what happens when there is a rumour that the government is going to cut VAT or stamp duty. A small, "Goldilocks" level of inflation is a key component of a healthy economy. Obviously not 10% on RPI, of course.

What I assume you mean is, when will your household income catch up with recent increases in the prices of stuff you buy, and that's as much about the sector you work in and your individual employer as anything else — plus interest rates, if you have a mortgage. The cost of living is your little window into the entire economy. It isn't some dial that the government can magically turn back and isn't doing so just to make people suffer.

BourbonsAreOverated · 03/11/2024 16:46

TakeMe2Insanity · 03/11/2024 16:01

This.

Also the Spanish phenomena which did this isn’t a one off so it is likely to happen again. Effectively causing more increases.

Edited

British root vegetables have struggled this year as the rain has rotted all the veg. So it is going to be a double whammy

Shakeoffyourchains · 03/11/2024 16:46

For the CoL to become more affordable for all you'd need to reduce the gap between the top and bottom.

But given that the UK is a "me first" society, and vehemently opposed to any sort of wealth redistribution policies, we just have to accept wealth will continue to accumulate into fewer and fewer hands, with the rest of us fighting over the scraps.

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Trixiefirecracker · 03/11/2024 16:49

72hoursinaande · 03/11/2024 16:25

That’s nice to see but huge swathes of industry will stop investing particularly in staff - food retail has tiny margins and won’t be able to absorb the extra costs.

We are experiencing a cost of living crisis as a results of the Tory party fucking things up for the last god-knows-how-long.

Addictforanex · 03/11/2024 16:49

Are people not seeing any costs going down? Yes it’s shit and everything is expensive- it’s depressing even going to supermarket. But I’ve renewed both my car and home insurance in the last 6 weeks and I was offered lower premiums than last year on both. Also my energy bills are less than when the price cap was higher last year. And I am looking forward to (hopefully) getting off my high 2 year fix mortgage I needed to take out in 2023 next year to a rate that doesn’t start with a 5.

fedup33 · 03/11/2024 16:50

Never, it will never go down. The Posh Boys have wrecked the country.

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 16:50

Trixiefirecracker · 03/11/2024 16:49

We are experiencing a cost of living crisis as a results of the Tory party fucking things up for the last god-knows-how-long.

The cost of living crisis has been felt all over the world- much worse in many countries than the uk, even!

fedup33 · 03/11/2024 16:51

FjordPrefect · 03/11/2024 16:38

I think Jacob Rees-Mogg said we'd start seeing the benefits of Brexit in 50 years time so 20-50 years after that maybe.

It will impact him I guess? vile creature

scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 16:51

@FjordPrefect yes can't even leave this shit show now! Thanks Jacob

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fedup33 · 03/11/2024 16:51

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 16:50

The cost of living crisis has been felt all over the world- much worse in many countries than the uk, even!

Really? because a recent holiday in Spain says otherwise. Bullshit.

scotpancakes · 03/11/2024 16:52

@fedup33 best description of him I ever read was someone calling him a 'haunted pencil'

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Autumnchilltime · 03/11/2024 16:52

AquaPeer · 03/11/2024 15:11

Can you expand on what you mean? Inflation has reduced since the col crisis, I am not sure it will go backwards though?

Inflation is the rate of increase,so whilst 4% is better than 11% , prices are still going up 4%,and from a higher base

rubymaster · 03/11/2024 16:56

Agree about the retraining, I retrained into tech several years back and it really opened up my options in terms of where I could live. It wasn’t this organisation but a similar one with a similar offering where they help you get a job afterwards as well. I reckon with a little research there are other career switch opportunities, especially with companies that are trying to improve diversity.

ZenNudist · 03/11/2024 16:57

It's not going to. Sorry. You need to work out a way to increase your salary or/and you could move to a cheaper part of the UK.

Food prices are going up post brexit. Fuel prices have come down but a lot of that reduction has not been passed on to consumers in all the products we buy.

At least heating and motor costs not as extortionate but its still bad.

Renting is so insecure and interest rate increases are bring passed on by landlords. Even if rates come down the won't reduce rents.

Your best bet is to retrain or look for promotion in your current job. You need to take on more work or more responsibility. Depending on what you do you might find it easier to be at a higher level in your job rather than slaving away at the bottom.. I wish you luck. It's not easy.

HappyHedgehog247 · 03/11/2024 17:00

I'm guessing you have looked into rent to buy and shared ownership schemes? I personally would be willing to downsize in rental in order to get a deposit together if the mortgage itself is affordable for you. Renting in the SE can be so expensive.