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How to go on about things in a split with kids father?

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ivise · 03/11/2024 09:37

Hello, long story short. I have made final decision to not be with father of my kid. I don't think this is fixable however I do want to stay on good terms for sake of our daughter. However he is more stubborn type and not a good communicator which makes things so difficult. The place we stayed at was always on my name and ideally he should move out. I am feeling a bit bad for him as I know that would make his life worse off in many ways which I cannot disclose on here . One of them being financially but that wouldn't be as bad as other issue. What I am struggling with is that I have to allow him to stay at least a month before he finds where to stay which makes it so awkward. I have an option to stay at my mums but I don't want to make my daughter's life more complicated. She will be dealing with not being home and then not seeing her father as much . How do I make things a bit easier and less stressful for my child . She is 4 and just started pre school.
Also my mum is moving away after Christmas which means we will have another family member gone ,it will leave just two us here . Finding hard to think about all those changes .

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