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Soph202230 · 02/11/2024 00:29

Hi ,
my boyfriend is addicted to ketamine I am 16 weeks pregnant having a little boy. He has also told me he is going to start selling it to make money. My fear is because he takes it he will get him self into debt (not the point I don’t want him doing it at anll and putting me in danger).

He’s taking it all day every day and even when we have movie nights at home with me I’ve cried infront of him begging him to stop he laughe , tries to hug me to comfort me.
I don’t want to be with him anymore but I can’t be strong enough to let him go because I’m scared what will happen to him. I know I can’t be with him and have this baby around him so something needs to be done but I need advice on how to become more strong about it. I’ve found out baby may have heart effect so I know this pregnancy is gonna be tough and also after it is to, hence why it’s so hard as I don’t want to be on my own.

what do I do ? Has anyone ever been in this situation because I feel trapped and even having thoughts of getting abortion but will kill me because I love this little boy so much already 💔💔💔💔

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HalloweenHaribo · 02/11/2024 00:32

I'm not sure exactly what you're asking?

Do you need advice on how to leave him and set a home up independently for you and your baby?

If so, I'd contact Women's Aid or a similar charity.

Good luck.

Neveranynamesleft · 02/11/2024 00:33

Do you have any family around you ? Do you live / rent somewhere together ?

username7891 · 02/11/2024 00:34

You need to get away from. Do you have any family you can stay with? Any savings? Do you work?

TheShellBeach · 02/11/2024 00:35

Do you live together?

TinDogTavern · 02/11/2024 00:37

You know you need to get away from him, this is no environment to bring a baby into. Do you have family nearby? What's your housing situation?

You can do this for you and your baby, but you will need to be brave and strong.

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