I have a long term friend who over recent time I’ve noticed jealous/odd behaviours.In the past few weeks she asked to meet and I didn’t reply.
A few examples she often turns the conversation to money and trying to question how I will pay for something.
If I talk of something I want to do that will give me more experience/qualifications she will try and talk me out of it.
Will question my children’s experiences whether they need health treatment for a condition. It seems she does not believe they have it.
She will bring up past relationships of mine in front of my husband. I have wondered if she thinks I made bad choices in the past.
Our children are primary aged and younger and I feel like a useful play date. But there was an occasion recently where we were surrounded by people we both knew and she was arranging an event and was verbally inviting people we were standing with and very obviously didn’t ask me.
she messaged for this school holiday asking to meet with the children and I haven’t replied. I wondered what others would do in this situation.