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AIBU to be quietly flipping out at receiving a read once /disappearing message

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Minefield2468 · 31/10/2024 13:37

I received a what’s app message from DP that I had to click on to open and had gone when I went back to look at it. Instead it just said ‘opened’ where the message should be.

How easy is it to accidentally switch on this feature?

Could this be innocent?

It’s not a feature he uses and he is saying he doesn’t know how it happened.

It was just a text and emojis, I think. I read it on the hoof and didn’t pay too much mind to it until I looked back.

I’m now tying myself in knots feeling sick thinking he had switched on once messages to send things he shouldn’t to someone he shouldn’t.

Ignoring the obvious trust issue, could this be a genuine error? Or would I be a mug to believe that?

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nellly · 31/10/2024 16:48

In fairness I've done this loads! I'm same as the other poster where it's a one touch button and easily done lol

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