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Stuff that didn’t seem weird at the time but when you tell someone younger they think it’s nuts

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MildGreenDairyLiquid · 31/10/2024 00:27

Just that really.

The other day I explained to my 11 year old niece that when I was at junior school we used to have a small bottle of milk with a straw every morning, and she looked at me like I’d lost my mind.

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Wend22 · 31/10/2024 07:01

Imnotarestaurant · 31/10/2024 00:54

That we had a black and white TV.

We didn't have a tv or phone or car at all.

LettuceSpray · 31/10/2024 07:01

Redflagsabounded · 31/10/2024 01:08

Having zero paid holiday from work.

And then getting a job with 2 weeks paid holiday, and it not being that unusual.

That sounds awful 😞 It can’t have been in the UK though. Employees have had the rights to holidays for a very long time, in fact they have lost rights more recently that they used to have in the past.

CherryogDog · 31/10/2024 07:03

We had a phone party line shared with I think 4 other households.
If you picked up the phone when someone else was using it you could hear their conversations.
The speaking clock.
You could phone up and listen to Johnny Morris tell you a story about the animals at the zoo.
TVs where you turned knobs to tune into a station or change the volume.

Notmanyleftnow · 31/10/2024 07:05

YouDoIDo · 31/10/2024 06:41

Calling 1471 on the landline when you didn’t pick up on time to get told the last number that had called. You could also call 14715 to call that number back.

My mum still checks 1471 every time she comes home from going out.

Whothefuckdoesthat · 31/10/2024 07:07

Ooh, and encyclopaedias if you ever wanted to know anything. Early closing on Wednesday afternoons and absolutely nothing opening a Sunday except the local shop if you were lucky. A ‘passport’ valid for just a day. Dog licences. Nitty Nora at school, checking children’s hair for lice. Wages coming in a brown envelope rather than being paid into a bank account. God help you if you lost it on the way home.

marmiteandminticecream · 31/10/2024 07:09

telling the grandkids to pull the chain after they have used the toilet
what chain nan

Redflagsabounded · 31/10/2024 07:10

LettuceSpray · 31/10/2024 07:01

That sounds awful 😞 It can’t have been in the UK though. Employees have had the rights to holidays for a very long time, in fact they have lost rights more recently that they used to have in the past.

Ah you sweet summer child.

Paid leave didn't become a statutory right in the UK until 1998. There was a small percentage of workers covered by a 1930s law, but most people, nope.

The EU had introduced it a few years prior to '98, but the UK failed to ratify it at that point so we had to wait

autienotnaughty · 31/10/2024 07:13

When I had my dd in 2000 it was three months maternity leave.

Smoking in pubs, restaurants etc seems mental now. So all the none smokers had to stand stinking of smoke and breathing it in. Or just never go to indoor public events.

Stopsnowing · 31/10/2024 07:13

ReginaPhalangee · 31/10/2024 06:37

I was explaining the phone bill to DD17 last night. My dad going through it to see the pages of numbers we had called, at what time/date and how much it cost! Woe betide a frivolous call before 6pm!

Rumour parents could know exactly who you had been speaking to (assuming they hadn’t been listening to your call in the hall at the time!) Now we have no idea who are children are communicating with.

Pomegranatecarnage · 31/10/2024 07:14

The speaking clock. My teenagers were flabbergasted to hear about that! Buying my dad’s cigarettes from the corner shop aged 7. Corporal punishment in primary school. The « bander » machine in school with the purple ink!

autienotnaughty · 31/10/2024 07:14

JS647 · 31/10/2024 01:05

Dont know if it also was a thing in the UK, but in my home country we gave children chocolate ‘cigarettes’…to make them excited about starting to smoke when they’re 16.

Yes our newsagents stocked these, even had the tip on them and the foil piece in the packet.

distinctpossibility · 31/10/2024 07:14

I'm only 36 but I am often reminded of my mum's "Days out folder" which lived in the cupboard under the stairs - a collection of leaflets, handwritten holiday cottage recommendations, vouchers from local newspapers and letters back from B&Bs she had made enquiries with. This would then be decanted into a smaller and more precise "Days out envelope" which she kept in her handbag when we went on a day out / holiday.

Going for a day out from 10am until 6pm in the height of summer on one carton of Kia Ora. I remember how incredulous we all were when my mum once "treated us" to a bottle of Volvic on a day out - to share between the 5 of us and "whet our whistles".

The Little Chef on long journeys and the orange lollipop being such a treat.

Getting a new rented tv "and VCR!" in about 1996

GivingUpFinally · 31/10/2024 07:14

Rotary phones - my grandparents still had one when I was kid

Answering machines with the mini cassette

A VCR and the all-important rewind button. Before that, we had a separate machine to rewind the videos

modems and dail up - not being able to use the phone if using the Internet. My parents were well off, so we had a separate landline just for the Internet. Envy of the street and at school.

Ordering from a catalogue by phone and delivery taking up to 30 business days.

Going to ticket master to buy physical tickets for concerts and sports

Only getting new things at birthdays, Christmas, Easter and back to school (grew up in Canada)

The back to school shopping - new clothes, shoes, boots and school supplies - ie. Lined paper, binders and pens for ypur classes. We didn't have a uniform but had to look respectable

First few jobs in retail and having a strict make up and hair policy for women. Having to wearing heels

Girl guides and selling cookies, chocolate door to door of stranger's Houses.

Walking home from school solo from age 7.

Napster and burning CDS for my discman

shellyleppard · 31/10/2024 07:15

@MissFancyDay the wonderful world of Disney..... remember that showing??? ❤️

Topseyt123 · 31/10/2024 07:17

Hufflemuff · 31/10/2024 03:48

I'm 30 and never heard of an Augar until recently?

A giant oven/stove that you can't turn off and just runs and runs and runs? Sounds like a fucking nightmare!

You mean an Aga.

There have virtually always been agas and still are. I'd love one but my kitchen wouldn't be big enough.

shellyleppard · 31/10/2024 07:17

50 pence slot meter for the electric and television....i was fascinated by how much money was in the boxes!!! Fish and chips wrapped in newspaper when my granddad got paid on a Friday ❤️ no buses on a Sunday

scalt · 31/10/2024 07:18

Ha ha, with the Blockbuster video cassettes, I used to rewind them to just after the adverts at the beginning, as a matter of principle.

"Backchat" on teletext, where teenagers could send in comments by phone, post, fax, and even email, which not many people had at home in 1997. One comment I remember well was "I love Backchat, and all the stupid things you write about. Keep up the good work, everyone, it's so funny!" I think that sums up the whole of modern social media.

The regime for doing PE at primary school: undressing in the classroom, down to vest and pants. Putting our shoes on our bare feet (we were specifically made to do this) to walk to the assembly hall, past the other classrooms, where the children would laugh as we walked past half naked. Taking our shoes off, and lining them up neatly, before doing the PE barefoot, which often consisted of following instructions from a posh BBC voice on a cassette player "curl up small, and pretend you are the Ugly Duckling". Doing the same again on the way back to the classroom; we also used sand timers to time ourselves getting dressed after PE, and our names were put on a chart. Only a couple of boys managed to do it in less than one minute. I remember my pride when I managed it in less than three minutes. I attended a lunchtime group where we a few of us did extra exercises; I learned some years later that this was a remedial group for gross control. 😯

Here are a few ways I remember children being punished at primary school in the 80s:
Two boys who laughed when told off were made to laugh in a mirror.
It was VERY WRONG to do anything without being told. A teacher wrote "kitten" on the board, and most of the class then wrote it in their books. The teacher then threw their books on the floor, made them stand at the front and hold them up, because they had dared to write "kitten" without being told.
A pushchair was wheeled into the assembly hall, and two boys who were messing about were asked if they would like to sit in it, as they were behaving like babies.
The headteacher telling little girls not to wear earrings, because they could get a torn ear. "Do you want to get a torn ear?" (I've said this to a few adult netball players, who claim they can't take their earrings out.)
When some children were playing with sticks in the playground, they were told not to, because somebody's eye could get poked. When one child persisted in doing this, he was made to spend his next playtime sitting blindfolded (away from everybody else), as a warning of what might happen to him. We had recently heard the story of Louis Braille as well.
Children being yanked by the wrist when told off, and sometimes dragged around as well.
One boy claimed "he weed on me!". The offender was then made to write about it. The teachers discussed this in the corridor, where everyone could hear.
One teacher happened to enter another teacher's classroom during story time, and in passing, bellowed at one child "what do you think you're doing, you horrid little boy? Go and stand on one of Mrs Smith's tables!" Mrs Smith didn't seem too happy about this.

AnybodyAnywhere · 31/10/2024 07:19

The shared phone line. We shared ours with a family over the road and if you picked your phone up while they were on a call you could hear their conversation.

My Dad always said we couldn’t afford a TV until he decided that we could in 1966, just in time for the World Cup - but the oddest thing was watching the snooker programme Pot Black in black and white.

This thread has brought back some happy memories, thanks OP.

Elseaknows · 31/10/2024 07:19

Explaining dial up Internet to my DD recently was funny.

She thought having a landline phone was "iconic" especially with "a curly wire" 🤔

She especially loves "vintage" clothes which seems to be all the stuff I wore in 2000!

Showing the kids old mobile phones...the first phone DD had was a minion Nokia style phone so she knows how to type on an old style phone. It all goes over my DS head.

Polly pockets was another one (those tiny bits have got to be a choking hazard according to my kids....I explained that's why she's so big now 😞 )

Sosigrole · 31/10/2024 07:19

That people used to be able to smoke on aeroplanes 😦….

Elseaknows · 31/10/2024 07:20

Sosigrole · 31/10/2024 07:19

That people used to be able to smoke on aeroplanes 😦….

What?! 😮

KimberleyClark · 31/10/2024 07:21

And if you used a credit card (I don’t remember debit cards existing) to pay for anything, it had to be put into a contraption with a credit card slip that had that blue carbon paper in it, and a presser would imprint your card details onto paper, which you’d sign and then get a copy.

And the cashier would check that your signature on the slip vaguely resembled the signature on your credit card. And having to laboriously write out cheques at the till to pay for things and the cashier writing your card number on the back of your cheque. The card was a cheque guarantee card, unless it was a Barclaycard in which case it was a credit card too. And you had a cash point card which was purely for getting cash out of ATMs, you couldn’t actually pay for anything with it.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 31/10/2024 07:21

Having a family GP practice who knew your grandmothers, parents and your history and one designated GP from birth whom you were able to see pretty consistently unless they were on holiday just by ringing the surgery direct and booking an appointment.

Your entire medical history being stuffed into those tatty brown cardboard files and kept on a huge sort of spinner visible behind the receptionists.

Having to have a bloody good reason to be allowed to actually see any of your medical records and doctors being able to decide if it was really in your best interests to do so. It was like being Frodo undertaking the quest fir the ring.

Christmas starting around the time the schools broke up and decorations only going up overnight on Christmas Eve.

Not being allowed to open presents until after lunch, washing up and the Queen's speech.

Nothing being open on Christmas or Boxing Day. Alot of businesses not being open at all between Christmas and New Year. January sakes, not Boxing Day sales.

Oof. I'm "only" 55 but thinking about how much things have actually changed in just my lifetime is a bit mind boggling. I know the above examples are relatively trivial, but thinking about it overall in terms of technology is bonkers.

In my mid teens when the first rumours of home computers circulated, and one of the wealthier girls at my school bragged about her Dad getting one, I reported back to my late Mum who dismissed it haughtily. Her exact words were "It'll never catch on". Bwahahaha..... and she went on to become a very proficient silver surfer after being a PA to a firm of accountants which was of course very computer based in the end.

I think I'm going to have a little cry now. What is it they say? The past is another country and all that......

Tooffless · 31/10/2024 07:22

Encarta. The chatgpt of the 90s.

tedgran · 31/10/2024 07:22

We used to have a party line phone, if you picked up receiver, and other person was using the phone you had to wait until they'd finished!

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