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Stuff that didn’t seem weird at the time but when you tell someone younger they think it’s nuts

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MildGreenDairyLiquid · 31/10/2024 00:27

Just that really.

The other day I explained to my 11 year old niece that when I was at junior school we used to have a small bottle of milk with a straw every morning, and she looked at me like I’d lost my mind.

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Topseyt123 · 31/10/2024 13:28

I remember when the TV channels were not 24 hours as they are now. They started at different times during the morning and closed down about midnight or 1am. They played the national anthem as they did so.

I remember the BBC Test Card which they displayed when showing no other programmes. I remember TVs which had valves in the back and took a few minutes to warm up before they could display anything. You also usually had no remote controls so had to go over to it and press buttons to change the channel. I just about remember black and white TVs.

When I was growing up (born in 1966) the only channels were BBC1, BBC2 and ITV. Channel 4 began broadcasting in something like 1982 and Channel 5 much later than that.

God, I must be getting old!!

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 13:31

Shops closed at lunchtime for an hour.

There was early closing, too, where shops closed completely at 1pm, till the next morning.

notmoredirtywashing · 31/10/2024 13:31

CentrifugalBumblePuppy · 31/10/2024 10:03

I was 14 when I started as a Saturday morning dental extractions nurse (mid 80s-ish). This was back in the old days when you’d have an anaesthesiologist visiting the surgery.

I responsible for washing & autoclaving tools/equipment as the morning progressed (normally at elevensies when we’d swap dentists). Even at the height of the AIDS crisis, we never had gloves (I remember having coagulating blood swirling around my fingers as I rinsed before sterilising), which was pretty bloody stupid then & utterly incomprehensible now, but there was another, extraction nurse duty that sounds so bizarre as to be almost fiction (although I can promise you it isn’t).

When under sedation, some patients would go completely rigid, and would rise out of the chair (a normal reclining dental chair), so my job would be to straddle the planked patient, grab both arm rests and physically hold the patient back down onto the seat.

Then I’d dismount, patient would be brought round, and I’d escort them to the recovery room (calling for their relatives as I went), then off to the next patient.

And that was everything rigid; climbing onto an unconscious bloke, at 14, across his groin… no wonder therapy was not far behind!

Saying that, it wasn’t too bad a job. I knew the Gas Man (dad of daughters I played hockey with), and the dentists themselves were epic, but can you imagine even suggesting this job today?!

I also had to be present for Sunday emergency nursing if it was our turn to be the local dentist on call; 14, doing everything expected of a normal dental nurse (developing X rays, composite fillings, basic emergency surgery, the whole shebang).

And having to walk to the local licensing place to get a work permit every year lol!

The 80s were mad.

I then went into a very long career in tech theatre crewing (continuing thru and beyond Uni where I was training as a teacher), where men were paid £2.58 and hour but not having a penis meant we were paid the ‘woman’s wage’ at £1.85 an hour! FOR EXACTLY THE SAME JOB!

Utterly bonkers!

Was this in the uk?

I was a dental nurse for many years, qualified in 1982, and there's no way a 14 year old would be doing this.

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 13:31

Banks all closed at 3pm and weren't open at the weekend at all.

Sethera · 31/10/2024 13:32

Grmumpy · 31/10/2024 13:22

I sometimes imagine if my mum came back to life..all the mad people walking round talking to themselves (on mobile phones especially those wearing headphones and talking), people eating that sour turned bad milk ( yoghurt) women driving ( only two uncles out of loads of relatives had cars),

I sometimes play a game in my head where I go back 40 years in time and look around working out what would be comprehensible to my 10 year old self. Not only physical things like mobile phones, but words and images we now take for granted - web addresses, QR codes, streaming and so on.

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 13:33

You had to pay for things with cash.

If you had a cheque book you were considered quite posh.

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 13:33

Supermarkets all closed at 5pm.
No evening or night time opening.

ElaborateCushion · 31/10/2024 13:35

I've only just found this post and we're 22 pages in so there's a high chance this has been mentioned before, but the song "Young Girl". Way before my time (1968) but was a part of my childhood, played a lot on the radio.

Never played on the radio any more, due to the very predatory lyrics!

As for the kids in my life, my nephew looked at me like I'd grown two heads when I started a sentence "before the internet..."

ShinyShona · 31/10/2024 13:36

Has anyone said "thinking Jimmy Savile was an upstanding member of the community" yet?

MaidOfSteel · 31/10/2024 13:39

The blue 3-wheeler disabled vehicles.

TheDeepLemonHelper · 31/10/2024 13:40

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PassingStranger · 31/10/2024 13:40

People went to butchers for their Meat and fruit and Vegas shops for Veg.

CraftyHare · 31/10/2024 13:42

TV not being on 24 hours.
Smoking allowed on buses and coaches having little ashtrays built in on the back of seats.
Girls not being allowed to do woodwork or metalwork at school, having to do cooking instead.
Marital rape not being illegal.

TheDeepLemonHelper · 31/10/2024 13:43

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godmum56 · 31/10/2024 13:44

FatOaf · 31/10/2024 12:40

5p used to be called a shilling, and a shilling comprised 12 pennies.
A penny used to contain 4 farthings.
So it was possible for 5p to be divided into 48 coins of a lower value. That still blows my mind.

That's because lots of things cost less than a penny. When I was a kid we still had sweets (fruit salad, blackjacks, etc.) that were 4 for an old penny (8 for a new penny, even though a new penny was worth 2.4 old pence).

Farthings were withdrawn from circulation 2 years before I was born. You'd have to be in your seventies to remember spending them.

I remember farthing as prices that were eg 1/2/3/4 wich would have been said as "one and tuppence three farthing" I also remember when silver thruppenny bits were (just) still in circulation as well as the copper heavy one with a thrift plant on. My late mother collected her 3 children 21 silver thruppennies each to give each of us on our 21st birthday. talking iof age, my year were the first to go off to college/uni as adults, when the age changed from 21 to 18. It was a difficult year at my college as they had been used to being actually "in loco parentis" When we arrived we had to hand in out NHS medical cards and they changed us all to the local GP where all the college students were registered without our knowledge or agreement. The principal genuinely didn't understand the outcry. They had to renegotiate things such as curfew, signing in and out of the college residence, alcohol on the premises and so on.

godmum56 · 31/10/2024 13:45

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yes you miss the "do you remember" stuff

Thindog · 31/10/2024 13:47

Cstholic school in the ‘60’s. We could bring money in for the missions in Africa. When we had brought in 2/6d we could choose a baby from a book of pictures and give it a Christian name!! Really !!

TickingAlongNicely · 31/10/2024 13:48

I think the loss of letter writing is a real loss.

In a box of paperwork that came from my grandmothers house, we found a letter from my grandfather to his mother. It was written in 1945... and was telling his mother that his POW camp in the Far East had been liberated and they were being put on boats back to the UK. He hadn't seen her since 1938. He was taken prisoner in 1941 or 1942.

A letter that is both significant on a historical scale... and a personal.

Emails won't be preserved in the same way.

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 13:48

I remember when children's bus fares were 3d.

You actually needed a threepenny bit, which you put into a machine.

You couldn't get on the bus without one, and the driver had no change.

vegaspot · 31/10/2024 13:48

Hoppinggreen · 31/10/2024 13:16

Advent calendars didn't used to have anything in, the reward was the picture.
That blew my DC's minds - "you used to open them to see a picture?"

I still get one like that .

MissFancyDay · 31/10/2024 13:49

MistressoftheDarkSide · 31/10/2024 12:53

OMG does anyone else remember doing a charity thing for third world countries called Sunny Smiles? I was at primary school so mid 70s. You had little books of pictures of smiling children from various countries and "sold" them to raise money for charities.

My Mum took mine into work and I was one of the top collectors. Vaguely remember an event at the Town Hall to give in the money and getting some sort of reward.

Don't know where that came from but it just popped into my head....

Yes, we had Sunny Smiles booklets, I think ours were pictures of children in children's homes.

Re doing P.E. in knickers and bare feet, I remember our P.E. lesson occurred after dinner in the school hall. They cleared away the tables but didn't sweep the floor. I distinctly remember the feeling of bits of meat and mashed potatoes squelching between my toes as we ran about.

I have also described at length to my Dd the horror of showers after gym in secondary school. How we were made to squeeze past the P.E. mistress to get into the showers. That would have been early 70's

blondiepigtails · 31/10/2024 13:52

PyongyangKipperbang · 31/10/2024 03:56

Aga.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AGA_cooker

And I would personally sell my soul for one!

And I would probably sell my soul before the Aga left my kitchen! My grown up DC drape themselves over it when they come to visit

theDudesmummy · 31/10/2024 13:53

I worked as a junior locum GP (doctor) in the 1980s. Several of the GPs in the practice smoked continually while seeing patients.

menopausalfart · 31/10/2024 13:53

Did anyone actually get into trouble for not rewinding a Blockbuster video?

ShinyShona · 31/10/2024 13:53

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I wasn't anywhere near Leeds and was encouraged by my parents to watch Jim'll Fix It. I did find him a bit odd but at 6 years old most children's presenters seemed odd at the time.

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