Long story short DH had a longstanding female friendship, no history of anything other than friendship, she has lived overseas for years so it's just been the odd call or text. DH and I both have friendships of the opposite sex, no issue there at all. After her long time partner left, she became quite needy, wanting to call and message DH more than he was willing or able to facilitate due to his own challenges and commitments, and giving him a hard time that he wasn't free to speak. After a good couple of years of this, he was honest and explained he felt the friendship has run its course. She didn't react well at first but has now come back saying it must be because of me being jealous and insecure and not allowing female friendships.
It's not, but I couldn't care less if that's what she thinks. DH is tempted to reply saying as he has explained its because she wants more from him than he is able to give and nothing to do with me. I feel he should just not engage any further, they both now agree the friendship is over so who cares what she thinks. I've seen all the messages, DH has handled it very kindly imo but I don't believe he owes any further explanation. What would you do?