so, it’s half term and mum wants my son to spend some time at theirs for a few days and then to bring him back before half term ends. I don’t really have an issue with it as we’re all often busy as a family so I can understand that my mum wants to spend time with her grandkids when she gets time, so I asked my husband and he basically said he wanted to spend time with the kids during half term and didn’t really want them to sleep outside. However, he wouldn’t mind if they went to their grandparents’ for the whole day and to be brought back in evening/night time. It’s because he works long hours out of the house and when he gets back he’s always shattered and spends most of the day sleeping/super tired and sometimes cranky. My mum had a bit of a hard time processing this and started saying a whole bunch of stuff that started to annoy me like that we’re being unreasonable, giving too many conditions etc but I don’t think she understand how our day to day lives are and during half term my husband wanted to spend time with his kids but is fine with them going over to their grandparents for the whole day instead…are we being unreasonable?🤔