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Amazon delivery drivers put me off making high value purchases from Amazon

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threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 09:12

I’m planning to buy a MacBook. It’s 10% cheaper if I buy it from Amazon. It would be a pain to have to travel to the nearest Apple Store or to John Lewis.

But Amazon don’t employ their own drivers and the white van guys that make the deliveries seem sketchy. I appreciate it’s a terrible job for them too, maybe that’s another reason why the company shouldn’t be supported.

They also often leave items outside the house where anyone can see them. Some Amazon items don’t come packaged either which makes theft more likely.

There have been stories of delivery drivers stealing high value items or replacing them with printer paper etc. Amazon or the credit card company will eventually refund but it can take weeks.

It might also increase your chance of being burgled as these sketchy randoms will now know what you’ve purchased.

AIBU for this to put me off Amazon for high value items? Am I better off paying the extra £150 and buying in person from John Lewis or the Apple Store?

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TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 26/10/2024 10:25

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:10

Yes and I imagine if a driver is opening up the electronics box and filling it with a brick or printer paper, he’s doing that in the back of the van, not on the doorstep!

Very true! But I mean if he's looking furtive or nervous - maybe looking for signs of whether the householder looks vulnerable or is a massive rugby player before deciding whether to try it on.

OK, it's not proof in itself, but you can often tell the difference in the behaviour between a scammer hoping to pull off a fraud and a regular honest, confident delivery driver with nothing to hide.

yeaitsmeagain · 26/10/2024 10:26

Catza · 26/10/2024 10:21

Just order from Apple refurbished. My refurb macbook is entering its second decade, still works as good as new and it was at least 20% cheaper than buying new.

You can get cheaper refurbs and returns on Macs from Amazon Warehouse.

But I would never recommend holding on to a Mac that long, it won't be receiving any security updates whatsoever. You'll be amazed at how good they are now compared to the one you've got as well.

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:26

Notreat · 26/10/2024 10:12

There are many things about Amazon I don't like. But I have never had an issue in getting a refund or in them believing me if an item hasn't turned up.
If you are concerned I would get it delivered to somewhere nearby that accepts Amazon deliveries and then open your package while you are there.
Or if it is delivered open it in front of the delivery driver
Also I presume you will pay with your credit card? If so that also gives you a degree of protection

Thanks for the advice.

Yes I agree getting it delivered to the nearest shop, and filming the unboxing there, would remove all of the awkwardness. I’d feel like a right wally / Roger Cook wannabe filming the delivery driver on the doorstep. But the nearest shop is a neutral third party.

Still it sounds like buying in person from John Lewis makes most sense with their Amazon price match and getting it straight away.

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threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:28

yeaitsmeagain · 26/10/2024 10:26

You can get cheaper refurbs and returns on Macs from Amazon Warehouse.

But I would never recommend holding on to a Mac that long, it won't be receiving any security updates whatsoever. You'll be amazed at how good they are now compared to the one you've got as well.

Yes I did see 2019 MacBook Airs for sale for very little, but they’ve got Intel chips not the new M chips so I think they’re a lot slower.

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Attelina · 26/10/2024 10:31

Amazon customer service is excellent. We have a safe place set up for all parcels to be delivered to.

They always side with the buyer.

We have had some deliveries go awry and because they didn't deliver to the safe place, Amazon ask that you wait three days and then they refund.

They also pay out generous compensation. We had one driver trespass onto our property, he even ignored all of the signs warning about the dogs which include a Doberman, Rottweiler and a Malinois.. Thankfully the dogs were out with me.

He opened a garden box and placed the package inside but didn't close the box so that when it rained the contents got wet. Box contained gardening stuff and Amazon paid compensation immediately.

Order with confidence but make sure you set up on your account the EXACT safe place for them to leave it.

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:34

taxguru · 26/10/2024 10:15

Why single out Amazon?

I've had high value items stolen by Royal Mail, Hermes, DPD, Evri, etc. Basically it's a risk with any courier/delivery firm.

Worst was maybe 10-15 years ago, I ordered a top of the range iphone from Asda. Empty jiffy bag arrived! Delivered by some dodgy looking bloke in a clapped out old Nissan Micra. I ran after him up the drive, but he drove off. Luckily I got his number plate. Took A LOT of phone calls and complaints before Asda took it seriously and sent a replacement - they kept trying to fob me off saying it was the delivery firm who were liable, then saying it was my fault for signing it without opening and checking the contents, etc.

Another was Royal Mail. Claimed they'd delivered a laptop, tracking showed it had been delivered, but I'd been in all day, and the post man hadn't been near (I have a view of my drive and outside roadway from my front office window). After weeks of complaints/phone calls to RM, they pinged over a photo allegedly showing it was half way through my letter box. Very impressive trying to say a laptop computer could fit through a letter box - it looked more like a small box of chocolates and was clearly not even my letter box! Finally got fed up with RM and just claimed directly against the seller who, again, tried to argue it wasn't their problem and my claim was against RM, but soon saw sense when I started the small claims court case against them!

If at all possible, it's far safer just to buy from a store. These days I tend to get high tech stuff from Currys - yes, choice is poor and prices usually a bit more, but at least I can collect in person so don't have the stress and time wasting of arguing with dodgy delivery firms and online sellers who don't understand the law.

You make a good point that this is a problem for any retailer. The issue is about who they get to make the deliveries the last 10 miles or so from the final distribution centre.

I just mentioned Amazon as it looks like they’re currently offering the cheapest headline price for MacBooks which is what I’m looking to buy. But yes could be any retailer that home delivers valuable items.

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fallenbranches · 26/10/2024 10:35

Take a code and if anything does happen which is u likely, Amazon will refund you. Their customer service is actually really good and quick.

Catza · 26/10/2024 10:35

yeaitsmeagain · 26/10/2024 10:26

You can get cheaper refurbs and returns on Macs from Amazon Warehouse.

But I would never recommend holding on to a Mac that long, it won't be receiving any security updates whatsoever. You'll be amazed at how good they are now compared to the one you've got as well.

It is still updating OS and, I assume, for as long as it does that, all the security updates are current. I use mine every day for professional design work and it does absolutely everything I need it to do so I don't anticipate being blown away by the differences in new ones.

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:37

sidsgranny · 26/10/2024 10:19

DH ordered an apple watch from Amazon a couple of years ago. Had to give a code to get the parcel delivered. When he opened it it was a packet of biscuits. Took months to get the money back from Amazon who were incredibly unhelpful. Has put me off ever using them again.

I hope at least he ate the biscuits !

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fiddleleaffig · 26/10/2024 10:40

Coconutter24 · 26/10/2024 09:28

But Amazon don’t employ their own drivers and the white van guys that make the deliveries seem sketchy. I appreciate it’s a terrible job for them

delivery drivers stealing high value items

chance of being burgled as these sketchy randoms

If your so judgemental of people trying to earn a living go to a shop to save yourself the worry

^^this

As a secondary maths teacher, who also delivers for Amazon during the holidays to make a bit extra, I'm really loving the judgement from the OP.
Honestly if you're that worried you are better off going into a shop and buying it in person. Any online delivery company carries risks of being muddled up, lost in the post, broken, stolen etc. I mean I could turn this around and complain that I almost lost my drivers account due to customers who I hand parcels too, then say they haven't been delivered so they can get their goods for free. I'm just an honest person trying to make an honest days wage and I can assure you, from a drivers perspective, Amazon always sides with the customer. Why would we take the risk of loosing our income? It's senseless

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 10:44

fiddleleaffig · 26/10/2024 10:40

^^this

As a secondary maths teacher, who also delivers for Amazon during the holidays to make a bit extra, I'm really loving the judgement from the OP.
Honestly if you're that worried you are better off going into a shop and buying it in person. Any online delivery company carries risks of being muddled up, lost in the post, broken, stolen etc. I mean I could turn this around and complain that I almost lost my drivers account due to customers who I hand parcels too, then say they haven't been delivered so they can get their goods for free. I'm just an honest person trying to make an honest days wage and I can assure you, from a drivers perspective, Amazon always sides with the customer. Why would we take the risk of loosing our income? It's senseless

Thanks for your perspective! Obviously you wouldn’t be the type of driver I’d worry about :). Anyway yes clearly I’m too fearful / judgemental to order it for delivery so I’ll just go to John Lewis.

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TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 26/10/2024 10:44

It's a ridiculous cop-out for companies to say you should check the items on delivery - and if you don't and it's faulty, that's on you.

Even if you do insist on opening the parcel whilst making the driver wait there... yes, you can clearly tell if it's a couple of bricks instead of an X-Box; but what if it's been knowingly replaced by an old broken identical-looking one? Similar scam as when people buy a new item to replace an old broken one and then try to return the old one for a refund, claiming that's the one they just had delivered?

sweaterrweatherr · 26/10/2024 10:47

What type of driver are you fearful about? How can you tell who is shifty and who isn't? You can't tell if the pp is a maths teacher as well can you?

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 26/10/2024 10:56

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 09:47

Side note but is it generally agreed that a MacBook Air is a better purchase than a Windows 11 laptop?

No. It depends on what the person is going to be using it for, and personal preference for which operating system etc you prefer.

If the laptop is for you, then get whichever you prefer, but on the off chance you're buying for someone else, then please find out what they'd prefer. There may be certain programs they need that only run on Windows and vice versa.

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 11:06

sweaterrweatherr · 26/10/2024 10:47

What type of driver are you fearful about? How can you tell who is shifty and who isn't? You can't tell if the pp is a maths teacher as well can you?

Drivers who have only been employed by Amazon for 5 minutes and are doing it in order to steal stuff?

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AntoinetteCurtain · 26/10/2024 11:17

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 11:06

Drivers who have only been employed by Amazon for 5 minutes and are doing it in order to steal stuff?

Are your judgy pants all the way over your head OP?

This is a bizarre and distasteful thread. Woman with big purchase fearful of being burgled by delivery Oiks.

ToNiceWithSpice · 26/10/2024 11:17

I had a gaming laptop delivered a few weeks ago, had to give a code. I've never had any problems with amazon delivery

comewhinewith · 26/10/2024 11:22

OP - you can currently get a 2022 MacBook (refurbished) from Curry's Clearance on ebay for under £700 that is sent via Royal Mail if that makes you more comfortable?

pestothepenguin · 26/10/2024 11:29

Do you have a ring? Open it in front of the driver.

Apple uses DPD.

cakeorwine · 26/10/2024 11:32

Delivery in general seems to have good and bad aspects.

One of my neighbours seems to get a lot of deliveries from different companies and you can see those drivers who simply ring the bell and go.

Others insist on a photo being taken of it being handed to the person.

I had a recent delivery that was simply left outside all day in plain view. It wasn't high value but it was easily "nickable".

I get drivers are on poor conditions and rushed time schedules but why would you do that?

Mittens67 · 26/10/2024 11:42

I recently had a high value item left outside my back gate in a public area at 9pm at night. The delivery photo shows this. It was not there when I went out to get it in the morning. So either a neighbour had taken it (very unlikely in my tiny quiet close of pensioners) or the driver took it.
I got a refund because it had been left in a public space but I will never buy anything worth a lot from amazon again.
Their drivers are extremely patchy in competence.

Carpr · 26/10/2024 11:46

John Lewis price match with Amazon on some goods, it's on the JL website and tells you which retailers and goods

Carpr · 26/10/2024 11:48

I generally try and get expensive stuff from JL delivered to Waitrose in case it gets lost on the way, then it's on them to find it and refund

Ohnobackagain · 26/10/2024 11:49

@threeunrelatedwords make sure who’s selling the item you’re buying (eg Amazon rather than a third party) and it will almost certainly be a recorded safe drop that requires a code, photo of the item and/or signature. Never had any such issues. Also make sure it says ‘free returns’.

threeunrelatedwords · 26/10/2024 11:53

cakeorwine · 26/10/2024 11:32

Delivery in general seems to have good and bad aspects.

One of my neighbours seems to get a lot of deliveries from different companies and you can see those drivers who simply ring the bell and go.

Others insist on a photo being taken of it being handed to the person.

I had a recent delivery that was simply left outside all day in plain view. It wasn't high value but it was easily "nickable".

I get drivers are on poor conditions and rushed time schedules but why would you do that?

Maybe they have to return any undelivered goods to the depot at the end of their shift, and they just want to get home?

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