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Driving with one hand on the wheel?

92 replies

PassingStranger · 21/10/2024 17:41

Somebody that I'm regularly a front seat passenger of drives with one hand on the wheel sometimes.

AIBU to keep mentioning it. They assume me all is fine and we haven't had an accident yet?

It makes me a little uncomfortable though.
They aren't doing anything else with the other hand, they just feel they don't always need both hands.
AiBU.

OP posts:
ElaborateCushion · 21/10/2024 18:33

BeachRide · 21/10/2024 18:31

What about the burger? 🤣

All joking aside, I did once see a woman driving to work one morning, putting on her lipstick while holding a mirror up and having a facetime conversation on her phone on the windscreen!

Unfortunately for her, a police van went past her on the other side of the road and the last I saw of it, it was turning round a roundabout to head back in her direction!

dixon86 · 21/10/2024 18:33

It's not your place to comment. If you don't like it, get the bus

OneTC · 21/10/2024 18:35

I drive mostly with one hand on the wheel and you'd be walking by now

DancefloorAcrobatics · 21/10/2024 18:36

If it makes you feel unsafe or nervous, don't get into the car with that person ever again!!

MargaretThursday · 21/10/2024 18:37

My daughter only has one hand. She is perfectly fine to drive, as checked by an official tester and her driving examiner. She passed with only two minors first time.

BashfulClam · 21/10/2024 18:37

I steer with my knee whilst eating my McDonald’s! (Joke)

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 21/10/2024 18:41

I understand, if the History Books are anything to go by, that Horatio Nelson drove his carriage in a similar manner - and, AND, he only had ONE eye!

Foxxo · 21/10/2024 18:44

you dont need 2 hands. quite frankly you should be more concerned if someone does always have both hands as they're not a confident/comfortable driver.

Thebellofstclements · 21/10/2024 18:47

I've been driven be people who drive for loooong distances with both hands at the bottom of the steering wheel. I no longer travel long distance with them as I am a firm believer in ten-to-ten-past. It's so easy to fall asleep in a relaxed position.
If you don't like the driving style, drive yourself.

weareallcats · 21/10/2024 18:47

I only have 2 hands on the wheel when I actually need them for turning, or whatever - I assumed most people gradually progress to this after passing their test and becoming more competent drivers. Didn’t realise there were people out there who stick to 10 to 2 forever.

Foxxo · 21/10/2024 18:52

i'm part of a community of drivers, some of whom do race as a hobby (one who does it professionally) and its a standing joke that passengers should be more concerned if a competent/experienced driver has both hands on the wheel as it means they're anticipating need more minute control of the car rather than driving in a relaxed fashion... think about it.

Seeline · 21/10/2024 18:52

Thebellofstclements · 21/10/2024 18:47

I've been driven be people who drive for loooong distances with both hands at the bottom of the steering wheel. I no longer travel long distance with them as I am a firm believer in ten-to-ten-past. It's so easy to fall asleep in a relaxed position.
If you don't like the driving style, drive yourself.

They recommend quarter to/quarter past these days so your hands aren't injured if the airbag goes off.

CheeseWisely · 21/10/2024 18:55

If you kept mentioning that I only had one hand on the wheel I'd slap you with the other one.

I'm joking obviously, don't condone violence, but give it a rest OP. Do you drive yourself?

bozzabollix · 21/10/2024 19:02

Driving instructor here. So long as you are fully in control of the car you’re ok to do this. But you need to think about being fully in control, if you hit a pothole for example will the wheel be under your control still? How about at higher speeds?

Back in the day I was taught ten to two with feeding the wheel, something that takes you half an hour to turn a corner. Occasionally I’ll inherit a student from an ageing instructor and they feel great relief that they don’t need to do it anymore! The old way was to have contact with the wheel as much as possible, but with car tech being what it is now (who now doesn’t have power steering?) it’s changed, it’s literally about being in control and that is it.

ExitPursuedByABare · 21/10/2024 19:03

I have a knob on my steering wheel and always drive with one hand.

Willowkins · 21/10/2024 19:05

That's a fair point@bozzabollix there was little or no power steering in cars when I started driving.

coffeesaveslives · 21/10/2024 19:09

I pretty much never have two hands on the wheel unless I'm really concentrating on unfamiliar roads, or I'm doing a manouevre.

AgileGreenSeal · 21/10/2024 19:11

indigovapour · 21/10/2024 18:03

Some studies have found that having a conversation with a passenger causes a similar level of distraction to talking on your mobile while driving. If you're that bothered about safety you should probably stfu and let them get on with driving.

This.
with bells on.

youcandomagic · 21/10/2024 19:12

PassingStranger · 21/10/2024 18:31

OK. Won't mention it again. That's why I asked AIBU, it seems I was.

I don’t think you’re unreasonable- driving with one hand on the steering wheel is fine right up to the minute you have to take quick avoiding action - obviously both hands already there gives you a better chance to stabilise the car

I do a bit of both, more out of habit than a conscious decision

youcandomagic · 21/10/2024 19:13

bozzabollix · 21/10/2024 19:02

Driving instructor here. So long as you are fully in control of the car you’re ok to do this. But you need to think about being fully in control, if you hit a pothole for example will the wheel be under your control still? How about at higher speeds?

Back in the day I was taught ten to two with feeding the wheel, something that takes you half an hour to turn a corner. Occasionally I’ll inherit a student from an ageing instructor and they feel great relief that they don’t need to do it anymore! The old way was to have contact with the wheel as much as possible, but with car tech being what it is now (who now doesn’t have power steering?) it’s changed, it’s literally about being in control and that is it.

This.

Clearinguptheclutter · 21/10/2024 19:14

I’m guilty of this. I don’t mind being reminded. It’s a bad habit.

GasPanic · 21/10/2024 19:16

bozzabollix · 21/10/2024 19:02

Driving instructor here. So long as you are fully in control of the car you’re ok to do this. But you need to think about being fully in control, if you hit a pothole for example will the wheel be under your control still? How about at higher speeds?

Back in the day I was taught ten to two with feeding the wheel, something that takes you half an hour to turn a corner. Occasionally I’ll inherit a student from an ageing instructor and they feel great relief that they don’t need to do it anymore! The old way was to have contact with the wheel as much as possible, but with car tech being what it is now (who now doesn’t have power steering?) it’s changed, it’s literally about being in control and that is it.

As a driving instructor, can you quote rule #160 of the highway code ?

PhilsMajicHat · 21/10/2024 19:19

Switcher · 21/10/2024 18:26

Well I'd have failed my test if I didn't replace the hand on the wheel immediately after changing gear, and I try to retain driving techniques that would be required were I to lose my licence. Also because I often drive considerably above the speed limit on motorways.
Whilst you are therefore technically correct, it's often extremely hard for people to change habits they've got into, so they will react rather badly to it being pointed out. I'd not say anything and arrange a different lift if I didn't like the driving.

You would have also failed your test if you drive considerably over the speed limit. Unless you are emergency services, speeding is way more unreasonable than driving with one had on the wheel

User19876536484 · 21/10/2024 19:21

indigovapour · 21/10/2024 18:03

Some studies have found that having a conversation with a passenger causes a similar level of distraction to talking on your mobile while driving. If you're that bothered about safety you should probably stfu and let them get on with driving.

And some studies have found that it doesn’t.

Hand-held phones and other myths about distraction

It has been argued that talking on a phone is no different to talking to a passenger. However, research has found drivers talking to passengers are less at risk than drivers on phones; it is theorised by researchers that conversations with passengers are modulated because both the driver and passengers can see what is happening on the road [5].

https://www.brake.org.uk/get-involved/take-action/mybrake/knowledge-centre/mobile-phone-use

[5] Gaspar, J. et al (2014), Providing views of the driving scene to driver conversation partners mitigates cell-phone-related distraction

Mobile phone use while driving

Mobile phone use while driving | Brake

Find out more about the dangers of using a phone behind the wheel

https://www.brake.org.uk/get-involved/take-action/mybrake/knowledge-centre/mobile-phone-use

HospitalitySux · 21/10/2024 19:30

5475878237NC · 21/10/2024 18:18

Quite. Hope they don't regret it when they have a blow out.

I grip the steering wheel in both hands within an inch of it's life and drive everywhere in first gear so I never, ever have to take my hands off the wheel.
In case I have a blow out. 😋

There's times you need to take a hand off the wheel to change gear, to operate internal systems like windows and heaters, or put your rearview mirror in the anti glare position when some twunt behind you has headlights bright enough to see outer space.

You should be able to control the car with one hand competently for at least short periods of time because there's times you need to for other safety concerns. Most manual drivers move their left hand to the gearstick when they anticipate a gear change.

But yeah if my driving was repeatedly criticised then you wouldn't be getting a lift any longer 🤷🏼‍♀️

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