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To be sick of sneezing and spending £20?

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ghicks · 19/10/2024 19:54

Anyone else? I feel like everything costs more and more and I’d just like to moan about it. Every day it seems to be something else!

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NotSoHotMess24 · 20/10/2024 20:12

@Honourspen It's not relevant to the modern day though, because the sorts of foods that are cheap, are addictive and don't fill you up - even if you feel full for an hour, the sugar crash after the spike, will induce hunger in a way foods in the 70s and before just didn't. Anyway, the proof's in the pudding (excuse the pun), and the research, which shows that what you're saying just doesn't happen. "In the UK, healthier foods are three times more expensive per calorie than unhealthy foods".

See

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10947515/

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41366-022-01242-9

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/article/2024/jun/19/uk-children-shorter-fatter-and-sicker-amid-poor-diet-and-poverty-report-finds

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/business/2020/aug/09/poverty-causes-obesity-low-income-families-need-to-be-better-off-to-eat-well

The thing about driving too, is that unlike yester-year, most people don't live a walkable distance to work. Many people also need a car FOR work, such as to get between different sites. As such, they will still need and use a car.

So unless UPFs get outlawed and we all miraculously get a job in a local mill, your argument is optimistic, to say the least.

Poverty causes obesity. Low-income families need to be better off to eat well

Bans on junk food ads and five-a-day advice miss the point. To cut obesity people need support and jobs

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/business/2020/aug/09/poverty-causes-obesity-low-income-families-need-to-be-better-off-to-eat-well

anon666 · 20/10/2024 20:55

I was just thinking this the other day.

I used to be able to afford to shop at Waitrose - not every day - but sometimes if it was on the way home.

Now we shop at Lidl topping up with Sainsbury's for variety.

I get that this is the "world's smallest violin" grumble when others have felt it much harder.

But your point is right.

MidnightMeltdown · 20/10/2024 21:17

MerryGrimaceShake · 19/10/2024 20:38

It feels like something has got to give in the UK soon, surely? We can't all go on like this???

We used to have big enough balls to crack out a General Strike and now we just.... sit here and take it????

But if everyone's wages go up, then prices also go up further.

The problem is that the UK has passed its peak and is now in decline. People need to adjust to the fact that the country isn't as prosperous as it once was. Little 'treats' that we've taken for granted in the past are likely to become increasingly unaffordable in the future.

Loonaandalf · 20/10/2024 21:26

It’s a joke, even takeaways are so expensive now, you spend the same as going out. DH and I spent £9.5 on two bags of chips the other day. We didn’t dare add in fish.

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 21:33

But if everyone's wages go up, then prices also go up further.

This is untrue. Wages are worth less than they were 20 years ago - they went through the floor in 2008 when we gave all our money to the banks and they have never recovered. That's also when we started printing money at which point prices started tipping upwards until 2020 when they galloped. Keeping wages low is blatantly not the answer. Stopping printing money might be. Getting our cash back from the banks might also help.

Loonaandalf · 20/10/2024 21:37

I spend £15-16 a day getting to work from zone 6 to zone 1 London. I actually called in sick before to avoid these costs. I try to budget but it’s impossible to stick to it as there’s always something that needs buying.

Autumnweddingguest · 20/10/2024 21:39

MerryGrimaceShake · 19/10/2024 20:38

It feels like something has got to give in the UK soon, surely? We can't all go on like this???

We used to have big enough balls to crack out a General Strike and now we just.... sit here and take it????

I know. I saw that there is likely to be a 7% rise in fuel costs again soon and thought: how the hell do they think people can pay this? They simply aren;t earning enough to be able to absorb these constant price hikes.

The cost of living is absolutely untenable right now. Something has to change and it certainly isn't increasing prices for the masses so the 1% can double their billions yet again, as they did during lockdowns. But we all seem too ground down and preoccupied to do anything about it, and decades of Tory indifference to the suffering of their fellow man has made people think they are powerless to effect change.

IngenTing · 20/10/2024 21:41

nosmartphone · 19/10/2024 22:36

Popped into TGI Friday's with our DD yesterday as a 'well done' lunch.

Looked at the menu. Burgers were £24.

For a burger!

Ended up sharing a plate of tacos (£14), a plate of chicken wings (£14) 3 diet cokes (£12) .

£40 for a couple of snacks and a diet coke each.

Made the mistake of taking her to Sephora. 2 lip glosses, a eye liner and a hair treatment later - £70.

The cost of everything is just a joke now. As someone said up thread, leave the house it's £100.

£24 for a TGI Friday burger!!!????
I live in Norway and can go out for burger in a restaurant that's (not quite) as expensive!
I don't go out often as cost of living has hit us here too.
But...£24! ....at TGI's!!!!!

I am without speech!

Loonaandalf · 20/10/2024 21:45

IngenTing · 20/10/2024 21:41

£24 for a TGI Friday burger!!!????
I live in Norway and can go out for burger in a restaurant that's (not quite) as expensive!
I don't go out often as cost of living has hit us here too.
But...£24! ....at TGI's!!!!!

I am without speech!

These prices are common even in pubs now. Theres a pub in Woolwich (a disadvantaged part of london) charging nearly this price for burgers.

it’s just ridiculous.

Yesterday, I went to a comedy show, the book the comedian was selling was 17.99!!!! Just for an autobiography… the comedian is not famous or v well known!

oakleaffy · 20/10/2024 21:46

Autumnweddingguest · 20/10/2024 21:39

I know. I saw that there is likely to be a 7% rise in fuel costs again soon and thought: how the hell do they think people can pay this? They simply aren;t earning enough to be able to absorb these constant price hikes.

The cost of living is absolutely untenable right now. Something has to change and it certainly isn't increasing prices for the masses so the 1% can double their billions yet again, as they did during lockdowns. But we all seem too ground down and preoccupied to do anything about it, and decades of Tory indifference to the suffering of their fellow man has made people think they are powerless to effect change.

I've heard shoplifting for groceries is through the roof.

It's only been since Brexit and Covid that things have got so noticeably bad.

SleepwalkingInTesco · 20/10/2024 21:48

Prices are batshit atm and quality has gone to shit with skimpflation and shrinkflation.

Some food we used to buy has gone up by £1-2 each and the size has shrunk too, and the prices keep creeping up every week when I go shopping. One random example - I used to buy granola bars for £1. Now they're £1.45 and the size has reduced. It's just price gouging at this point.

And never mind things like buying new clothes, eating out or drinks. No chance. £8 for a single drink at the random pub near me.

MidnightMeltdown · 20/10/2024 21:48

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 21:33

But if everyone's wages go up, then prices also go up further.

This is untrue. Wages are worth less than they were 20 years ago - they went through the floor in 2008 when we gave all our money to the banks and they have never recovered. That's also when we started printing money at which point prices started tipping upwards until 2020 when they galloped. Keeping wages low is blatantly not the answer. Stopping printing money might be. Getting our cash back from the banks might also help.

How are we going to stop printing money though? We have record numbers of working age people out of work, and the highest tax burden in decades. The UK has a productivity problem and so living standards are falling.

MidnightMeltdown · 20/10/2024 21:56

SleepwalkingInTesco · 20/10/2024 21:48

Prices are batshit atm and quality has gone to shit with skimpflation and shrinkflation.

Some food we used to buy has gone up by £1-2 each and the size has shrunk too, and the prices keep creeping up every week when I go shopping. One random example - I used to buy granola bars for £1. Now they're £1.45 and the size has reduced. It's just price gouging at this point.

And never mind things like buying new clothes, eating out or drinks. No chance. £8 for a single drink at the random pub near me.

1L of Olive oil in Sainsbury's is now £7.80. I'm sure it was around £3.50 before the war in Ukraine.

The cost of oil will of course be pushing up the cost of takeaways etc too.

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 22:05

Ukraine has fuck all to do with anything apart from being a means of distraction from the fact that our former PM sold London to the Russians twenty years ago back when he was mayor.

Olive oil is a separate matter anyway - that's down to diseased trees. Although I'm sure there's an additional element of supermarket profiteering, just for us, as well, now that we're out of the EU loop.

WynkenDeWorde · 20/10/2024 22:06

It’s not just food, it’s the other costs we need to pay just to get through the day. At my local railway station it used to cost £4 to park off-peak and something like £5.50 peak iirc (bit hazy about that as I avoided peak times as much as possible!).

Then a new company took over, they steadily pushed up the prices, and it's £10 for a day's peak parking now. OK, they do small discounts if you buy a week/month, but they scrapped the barrier with a stored-value pass-card that meant you could purchase a set number of entries and just use them until they ran out, which was good for people like me who don’t commute 5 days a week. You’re now penalised if you're a non-standard traveller working at odd times - no discount available.

I bought my train ticket the other day and they'd silently hoicked it up, too - the second increase this year. I always forget that they do this in January but also in autumn.

Hoardasauruskaren · 20/10/2024 22:06

ButterAsADip · 20/10/2024 10:40

Fruit and veg box weekly - way too much food for just me and DH, the kids won’t eat a lot of it, or if they do it’s because I have spent hours cooking it into an unrecognisable state. No one has time for that

Milk, dairy, bread and eggs delivered twice a week. 😂😂😂 tried it, way too expensive for the amounts of milk and bread we get through!

Meat box once a month. - and store a months worth of meat where?

Fine ideas but ideas that most people with any sense already know exist.

We get milk delivered but it’s very expensive compared to supermarket ! The company phone me last week asking if we want eggs as well. £2.47 for 6 eggs! No thanks! Only get the milk as we don’t use much at all.When DC were small it was at least 4 litres a week now it’s only 2 pints. If we need to cut back it will be the first thing to go!

JRSKSSBH · 20/10/2024 22:13

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 21:33

But if everyone's wages go up, then prices also go up further.

This is untrue. Wages are worth less than they were 20 years ago - they went through the floor in 2008 when we gave all our money to the banks and they have never recovered. That's also when we started printing money at which point prices started tipping upwards until 2020 when they galloped. Keeping wages low is blatantly not the answer. Stopping printing money might be. Getting our cash back from the banks might also help.

Well Rachael Reeves has sadly postponed selling the government’s state in NatWest. Worth £6bilion.

JRSKSSBH · 20/10/2024 22:15

Sorry stake. Watching telly and typing

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 22:16

MidnightMeltdown · 20/10/2024 21:48

How are we going to stop printing money though? We have record numbers of working age people out of work, and the highest tax burden in decades. The UK has a productivity problem and so living standards are falling.

Yes, that's what happens when money is devalued.

I have no doubt the continent as a whole is entering a period of decline due to demographics while other regions rise. But in the UK that's greatly exacerbated by the quite specific decision to remove ourselves from our trade bloc.

Money being worth less is also why house prices are so high - anyone who actually has money has been hoovering up assets including housing for years. Which creates its own nasty little loop of a greater percentage of wages for regular people being tied up in servicing mortgage debt - those banks again - in order to house themselves. It's rotten.

thaegumathteth · 20/10/2024 22:24

Agree it's just so bloody demoralising.

Ds has just started Uni too and honestly it's fucking madness how much parents need to subsidise. I have no clue how people afford more than one at a time at Uni.

SmileyHappyPeopleInTheSun · 20/10/2024 22:36

I feel like I spend money every time I leave the house. I'm staying at home as much as possible right now.

Been doing that for years now.

We've done sensible things cut spending, cut again- eat cheaper go out much less buy secondhand where we can, put house things off - and gone after pay increases and yet it's not taking long for any buffers we do manage to make to slowly just go.

It's relentless and demoralising and yes worse when ill when you just can't find energy to watch pennies but if you don't you can easily get in a mess.

Hoardasauruskaren · 20/10/2024 23:17

EuclidianGeometryFan · 20/10/2024 18:02

We all have in the past few decades become accustomed to a certain level of unplanned spending, and that has become normal.
Sadly, the idea of 'what should be a comfortable income' is now wrong. The word 'should' is the catch here.
We have thought that £x thousand a year salary 'should' be enough for us to buy coffees and lunches and treats. The reality is now different.

Back in the 70's, my parents and grandparents were comfortably middle class, with my father and grandfather in good jobs (the women only earned 'pin' money). But we almost never went into cafes. Coffee or tea was carried in a flask on a day out, and we took packed lunches. That was normal for most people. Cafes were 'greasy spoons', restaurants were a once-in-a-blue-moon treat, and no-one bought coffee outside of the city centres (always to sit in, not take away).

Today's 'normal' has changed, and our expectations of 'should' have not caught up. We can expect a return to the economic conditions of previous decades.

And yes, lots of the leisure and food economy will go away forever.

This! Growing up in the 70s-80s we ate out as a family only a handful of times in my whole childhood. DPs would go out for a meal on their wedding anniversary/ mum’s birthday ! I didn’t have a Chinese takeaway until I was 16 and bought it myself! It just wasn’t the norm then. My DC (born between 2000-2005) are used to eating out several times a year & much more in the way of luxuries than we had. I think we are returning to the days when things we see as the norm right now will be considered luxuries as they were in previous decades. Depressing!

Hoardasauruskaren · 20/10/2024 23:31

easylikeasundaymorn · 20/10/2024 17:23

The vouchers, take your own snacks etc yes I get that but it takes the fun out of it somewhat when you're counting the pennies all the time.

I don't really get this. I understand the ethos that it's not fun always having to think 'can we afford this' in the back of your head but I've never enjoyed a film less because I've seen it on a Wednesday rather than a Thursday, so can use meerkat for bogoff. The malteasers I snack on taste exactly the same whether they are from sainsburies at £1.35 for a multipack or the cinema for £2.95.

Yeah. I just don’t get why people spend ££ on the rip off snacks at the cinema ! We’ve never done it & DC were always happy to choose sweets etc from poundshop / Asda or wherever was close to cinema.
Local Vue cinema starts from £5 a seat so for us as family of 5 a cinema trip would be around £40 inc drinks & snacks! And as long as the movie was good that would be.
a joyful experience!

DickEmery · 20/10/2024 23:36

Yeah in the 70s and 80s there were few "low key but nice" little places - tiny little hatches with a couple of tables and an espresso machine wasn't a UK thing but a continental one - cafés were caffs, everything else was expensive. Eating out was a once in a blue moon luxury because there was no middle market in hospitality.

I remember in 1994 when a new-style café opened in our corner of North London me and my flatmate purposely went out to have a coffee, to get in on this sophisticated European vibe that we were told would become the norm, sat on a grimy high street with traffic thundering past us thinking we were oh so chi-chi. I was earning £120 a week so I couldn't afford to go to restaurants but I could afford to go to coffee shops. Then pubs got in on the act and suddenly you could get meals for a lot less than restaurants. And cheaper booze than restaurants too! We didn't have more disposable income than people in the 70s, but we did have more choice.

What's happening now isn't a return to the 70s because those types of businesses are still around. But they are now no longer affordable, is the difference. In the 70s they didn't exist at all. Possibly they won't again soon.

MidnightMeltdown · 21/10/2024 00:31

Ukraine has fuck all to do with anything

Apart from the fact that the UK is a massive importer of energy and energy prices affect the cost of pretty much everything.

The UKs problems began in the 80s when the salaries of higher earners started increasing at a much faster rate than the salaries of lower earners. As a result, the wealth distribution in the UK is one of the most unequal in Europe. We only see it more now because of the COL crisis, and the fact that lower earners can no longer afford to live on their wages. Government has to pump out more money in benefits while the richest get richer.

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