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Advice of partner

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daosychain2 · 16/10/2024 13:28

Hi,

I was with a man, relationship was good at the start

Then the kick offs started, just when he had drink.

Then got worse over time things in house broken. Lies where he was twisted on to me ignored me for days then didn't want to talk about it..

I broke up with him, he tried to end his life.. this has happened 5 times in 9 weeks but every time I went to see him he seem fine the last time he done it I found out he didn't but made a lie to get me there he was taken in with chests pains

He's now under mental health team he put me down for permission to speak if I needed to which I did and explained the situation, he then said he took me off..

He's supposed to be attending psychology told me he started but nothing was adding up so I called them and I was still on there and they told me he hasn't been attending them, but has been having quick home appointments now there singing him off he told me he had a really tough appointment this week and attended they confirmed he didn't..

Now I wish I didn't check up.. as now I don't know what to do and how to approach this situation.. I didn't ask for any details jsut to know if he attended!

I hate myself for checking but because of the past I felt if he got help ( as I suffer with mental health aswell ) he is showing willing to change!

And now found out he hasn't but he's given me a whole scenario of how it went but wouldn't say what happened just that it was hard..

My head is spinning now!

OP posts:
OatFlatWhiteForMePlease · 16/10/2024 13:35

Walk away.

Tdcp · 16/10/2024 13:49

You need to get out of this situation quickly. He's a compulsive liar and he sounds dangerous, to himself and probably to you. Don't check up on him, no contact, just leave it.

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