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Would you choose Dubai as a holiday destination?

382 replies

Letshopenextyearisbetter · 16/10/2024 09:24

Colleague told me excitedly she has booked to go to Dubai with her family for two weeks. I said ‘Oh wow!’ But really I was thinking 😬
I realise we all like different things, but just curious if you’d choose to spend your money on going to Dubai? I can personally think of some really lovely places to go for that amount of money, especially over Christmas

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Letshopenextyearisbetter · 16/10/2024 13:28

Why do they keep workers passports for 5 years?? I had no idea about any of this, I just thought it seemed a tacky, soulless place

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RaraRachael · 16/10/2024 13:29

Dubai is very popular where I live - all ages - older couples and families. I can't see any attraction and OH calls it a shopping mall in the desert. I'm not that interested in shopping for clothes or jewellery and there doesn't seem to be anything appealing in it at all.

jackstini · 16/10/2024 13:42

We went a couple of years ago - mainly to visit a family member living there

Teen kids loved it - loads of theme parks - mostly with no queues, fab water parks, the skyscrapers, they went skiiing, saw a show, the old medina and trips out to the desert dunes, museums, every type of food you can think of, very clean, hardly any crime, great weather, lovely hotels. No one bothered about what you wear, alcohol available in plenty of places, good service.

It's not for everyone, but not everything is awful about it

AnellaA · 16/10/2024 13:46

No way, I’d hate to go to Dubai. But like you, I’d also pretend to be really impressed and excited for my colleague.

It just looks like a long flight to somewhere too hot and fake and expensive.

I definitely wouldn’t waste the CO2 emissions in a trip there, knowing I wouldn’t like it.

CaptainMyCaptain · 16/10/2024 14:37

Teacherbee85 · 16/10/2024 13:10

It's mumsnet - everyone hates Dubai.

Even though they've never been 🤣

You don't have to go to know about the slave workers.

Bigcat25 · 16/10/2024 14:40

ZippyLimeSnake · 16/10/2024 09:31

I have zero interest in Dubai, I know of a few people who holiday there regularly & some who have moved over there. But it’s not for me, especially not as a family holiday.

My 8 year old believe it or not asked if we could go on holiday there recently, when I asked him why, he answered me with.. Well obviously to see Burj Khalifa 🤣🤣
Pretty expensive trip to go & see one building!

Omg same! My four yr old wants to go to the Burj. Its one of the last places I'd want to thousands on going to.

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 16/10/2024 14:41

OnthePisteAgain · 16/10/2024 13:21

I've been many times both with work and a couple of holidays. However, I would probably not go back now due to how expensive it is plus it is so built up. I started going in the 80's when it was a completely different place. As Emirate states go, it is fairly liberal and you do not get arrested for not dressing appropriately. Maybe hissed at by locals though. Alcohol is freely available in most hotels and restaurants.

Women are definitely second class citizens though as are Westerners in general. Don't ever get involved in a car accident regardless as to whether it is your fault, the Arab driver will always be blameless! Terrible human rights (or lack of them) for migrant workers.

Just to say, there are many other countries that do not tolerate homosexuality including the Maldives. Would you refuse to go there on principle too?

All that and the reason you won't go is it's more expensive than it used to be?

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:05

RIVERDALEHIGH · 16/10/2024 11:36

Yep... going soon & can't wait!

You colluding with and benefiting.from slavery.

Beezknees · 16/10/2024 15:12

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:05

You colluding with and benefiting.from slavery.

So are people who buy fast fashion and smart phones to be fair.

LlynTegid · 16/10/2024 15:16

Absolutely not. I will not go to countries that treat women like dirt and/or where being LGBT is illegal.

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:21

Beezknees · 16/10/2024 15:12

So are people who buy fast fashion and smart phones to be fair.

Absolutely true.

It is impossible to live and function in a modern Western country without benefiting from exploitation of workers in poorer countries.

The workers who mine cobalt for smart phone batteries are treated abysmally - may are children.

We all draw the line where we're comfortable. It's choice we all.have to make.

PeloMom · 16/10/2024 15:21

I lived there for almost 2 yrs and would go there on holiday. There’s a tonne to do as well as many ways to have a relaxing holiday.

TheConvalescent · 16/10/2024 15:35

RaraRachael · 16/10/2024 13:29

Dubai is very popular where I live - all ages - older couples and families. I can't see any attraction and OH calls it a shopping mall in the desert. I'm not that interested in shopping for clothes or jewellery and there doesn't seem to be anything appealing in it at all.

It is, pretty much, a shopping mall in the desert. Or several shopping malls. With a ski slope. And a giant aquarium that was always developing unnerving leaks when we lived there.

If you see the point of hotels being that you've gone somewhere interesting and far away that is too far from home to go home to sleep, hence you stay in the hotel -- in Dubai, the hotel is why you've gone. The accommodation has become the destination.

The Dubai 'government' (by which I mean Sheikh Mohammed and a few trusted family members) have been frantically trying to make there be some other reason to go there other than to stay in a hotel and sit by a pool in perennially hot, dry weather, but there isn't, really. The sea is polluted and too hot for much of the year. A few waterparks, some content-free pseudo-museums/folk parks, malls with clothes for seasons that don't exist locally in the windows. There used to be, maybe still is, a 'Dubai Festival of Shopping'.

There's no 'there' there, or of course there is, but it's not particularly pleasant.

White-collar crime, particularly money-laundering, a disproportionate number of criminals wanted overseas, often the ones who moved on from parts of Spain), a huge population of foreign prostitutes, who, like me (not married to partner and working freelance, so no work visa) are on tourist visas, going over the border into Oman once a month in a minibus, doing a U-turn and coming back, a heavily self-censoring press (because if you don't behave, you're deported, and criticism of the government or ruling family is forbidden), an underclass of exploited domestic and construction labour. Improperly desalinated tap water means a lot of people suffer hair loss unless they use bottled water to wash their hair.

I hope this has changed now, but when we lived in Dubai, it wasn't unusual for local papers to show photos of the dead bodies of labourers (who had run out into traffic so that their families would get the compensation money) to see if they could be identified. I know that some things changed in the legal reforms of 2020 (cohabitation was illegal when we lived there, and there were door to door searches in Sharjah, and I believe children born out of wedlock are now 'legitimate')

TL;DR -- as a tourist, there's no 'there' there. It's probably fine if your idea of a holiday is sitting by a pool, and you actually like the fact that there's nothing cultural or historical you 'should' be doing. As a resident, all the interesting things are nasty ones.

NellieJean · 16/10/2024 15:52

Not for me but I love Oman.

BurntBroccoli · 16/10/2024 16:44

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/10/2024 09:42

Tower blocks, relentless heat, shopping malls, multi-lane roads, sand. Pretty much my vision of hell.

Yup same!
I can't even stand shopping malls in this country and get quite claustrophobic.
The heat would be awful too.

Superhansrantowindsor · 16/10/2024 16:50

So many reasons why I don’t want to go and never will. main two reasons are their abuse of workers and the fact being gay is illegal. Awful. Just awful.

AllyCart · 16/10/2024 16:52

Not a chance.

I spend time there for work and have also stayed over for a couple of days a few times on business trips to Asia, if going straight from the US, to try to help with the jet lag.

I certainly can't imagine going there by choice; it definitely attracts a certain type of person though and if that's you, you might really like it.

It's the same with Las Vegas I suppose. Absolutely hateful place to me, but others love it.

Arran2024 · 16/10/2024 17:01

My daughter and her boyfriend went last month. I have strong views about Dubai and was disappointed they chose to visit but it's their lives and I didn't say anything - she knows what I think.

It looked utterly boring to me. They went to shopping malls, fancy restaurants, sat at pools...they were treated like royalty and surrounded by excess and opulence and loved it, without really considering why the staff are so helpful.

I have an ex colleague (a woman) who went to live and work in Saudi with her husband. I'm astonished she did this - and it has changed how I regard her. She has suggested meeting up but I just can't do it!

username3678 · 16/10/2024 17:03

It's not my idea of a holiday never mind the way women are treated.

catin8oots · 16/10/2024 17:06

Nope. It's a dreadful dump.

GnusSitOnCanoes · 16/10/2024 17:17

BrokenBeeWing · 16/10/2024 10:01

Never. For all the reasons listed above. I won't even transit through, after the awful human rights abuses of female passengers a few years back, who were strip searched and internally examined, when the authorities were trying to identify who had given birth recently. The stuff of nightmares. Didn't someone also get arrested and incarcerated for being a drugs trafficker as airport staff found a poppy seed in their clothing, which turned out to be from a seeded roll?

I’m pretty sure that was Qatar, no? A Qantas flight departing from Doha?

BrokenBeeWing · 16/10/2024 17:24

GnusSitOnCanoes · 16/10/2024 17:17

I’m pretty sure that was Qatar, no? A Qantas flight departing from Doha?

My mistake, yes you're right. But the poppy seed incident was definitely Dubai.

JohnTheRevelator · 16/10/2024 17:24

No, mainly because of their attitudes towards women. Also the fact that the place was built by slave labour.

katscamel · 16/10/2024 17:53

Yep, I go quite regularly as it's a 2 hour flight from where I live now and a chance for some 'normality'. I don't go for the malls, the plastic Dubai lifestyle and that wasn't my thing when I lived there. I go for the sunsets over the creek, for the grittier backstreets of Deira and Bur Dubai, for being able to walk round at any time and feel safer than I do in the UK (and many other places).
And the shopping.... well .... for the things I can't get here.. of course.

thesunisastar · 16/10/2024 18:11

Hateam · 16/10/2024 15:21

Absolutely true.

It is impossible to live and function in a modern Western country without benefiting from exploitation of workers in poorer countries.

The workers who mine cobalt for smart phone batteries are treated abysmally - may are children.

We all draw the line where we're comfortable. It's choice we all.have to make.

It's a fair point.

Choosing not to have a smartphone is pretty difficult now, though, because so bloody much is reliant on them - communication, travel, banking etc.

Whereas not spending your holiday pounds in country with an appalling human rights record is a pretty easy choice to make.

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