Made a new friend, hit it off straight away.
Friend not always been treated right by various friends.
One in particular will go out with her and has gone out with no money and expected friend to pay for everything...has happened a few times.
New friend has got to a point whereby she has had enough and trying to distance herself. I have come along and very different. Likewise, I have not always been treated right by friends and got to the point where I have had enough..would sooner be on my own than have people treat me that way.
I have now been out twice with this new friend... I took her out in the car,
She asked me straight if I wanted Petrol Money...I felt mortified as I hate being put in situations like that. I said no, she said she wasnt use to that.
But, I hoped she would have offered car park money or even offered to get the coffees in when we stopped off at a Coffee Shop...moreso so that I would feel she was treating me fairly.
At the Coffee shop she held back... so I paid for the Coffee & Cake. She said she would get it next time.
Second day out was offered nothing... I am running around in the car park looking where to pay car park fees whilst she is sitting in the car topping up her make up,
Whilst we where out...she said a number of times..."We'll have to go and have a coffee"...when we passed a coffee shop I suggested we go in there...but she did not want too. Eventually we went in a coffee shop after her making excuses a number of time not to go in different coffee shops I suggested....she said she wanted to go the toilet first. So I went the toilet myself. As we come out the toilet I suggested we stop there for a coffee...she put her mobile to her ear..like she had just got a call (I did not hear the mobile go off). So she went outside to take the call.
So I sat on a chair nearest the window... I was determined she was gonna pay her way this time. ( I was feeling like she was trying to get out of paying for the coffees & cake.. when it was her turn to pay). Needless to say when she come off her mobile and come back into the coffee shop she did not want to have a coffee in that shop.
So we went back to the car and I drove home...this is not sitting well with me as I hate situations like this where people dont play fair. I have not suggested another day out nor have I spoke to her much this week . I feel like she is treating me like her other mate treated her.
Am I being Aibu... I want to be around people where you dont have to worry when your out with them they will play fair with you...that they will get the drinks in when its their round etc. I dont want to be around people whereby your living on your nerves whether their gonna get the round in or coffees & cake when its their turn.
I feel I am being more than fair in this situation...I am not asking for Petrol money, I am paying the Car Park fees and will also pay for cake & coffee on top of that when its my turn.