We are in the middle of CAO that is to be signed off soon, he has taking so long to reply to my messages when we were discussing his days with the children, or he wouldn’t reply. Ignores my messages when I ask about his solicitors details, he makes the whole process so difficult. Ignores any messages about the children, how am I meant to coparent with someone like this?
I honestly hate him, I know it’s not healthy but I can’t help it. He has controlled my life and made it so difficult, he is not a good parent either. I wish he would just disappear. I know I shouldn’t say this, but I envy women whose exes have just fucked off and have no contact with their children.
I hate him, and I don’t know if I will ever stop hating him. When does it get better? :( my life is on hold until we get the child arrangements order. I can’t focus until it’s been approved. And he doesn’t give a shit, probably at the pub or gaming as we speak.