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Did the benefits of lockdown outweigh the harm to children’s education?

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PoisedKhakiUser · 11/10/2024 15:24

AIBU to ask whether the benefits of lockdown - saving lives and protecting health - outweighed the damage it did to children’s education and future life chances? I feel like kids lost out on so much during this time, and I wonder if the cost was too high.

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Fairslice · 11/10/2024 19:55

EasternStandard · 11/10/2024 19:42

We should have done this

Yep

DoreenonTill8 · 11/10/2024 19:58

outforawalkbiatch · 11/10/2024 19:25

@Fluufer it wasn't
CEV didn't go off age at all it went off medical so people with blood cancer, immunocompromised etc etc
People who were shielding due to being most at risk were all ages

My dad is 75 and never had to shield, I was 36 and shielded and have more vaccines than he does due to being more vulnerable than him

He may not have had to 'shield' but he still like all of us had to follow ridiculous lock down laws?

TickingAlongNicely · 11/10/2024 20:01

Even if schools had remained open... would parents have sent them? People were scared in March 2020. Mumsnet was a fear factory. People complaining that schools hadn't shut quick enough.

EasternStandard · 11/10/2024 20:02

TickingAlongNicely · 11/10/2024 20:01

Even if schools had remained open... would parents have sent them? People were scared in March 2020. Mumsnet was a fear factory. People complaining that schools hadn't shut quick enough.

That passed. Remember the lockdown where people scrambled to be a key worker to get in?

Hardly anyone wanted their dc at home, they knew the damage

outforawalkbiatch · 11/10/2024 20:04

@DoreenonTill8 yes of course but I'm replying to saying the most vulnerable were the elderly
When the most vulnerable were the ones that were offered the 3rd primary vaccine

He was able to go out and about much earlier than me when I was at home alone for the best part of 6 months

SophiaJ8 · 11/10/2024 20:05

No, schools should never have closed.

Children were sacrificed for the old and infirm.

scalt · 11/10/2024 20:05

brentwoods · 11/10/2024 19:29

I thought it was almost universally acknowledged that the lockdowns were an utter failure and actually created more problems than they solved. I'm surprised you're even asking the question as if it's up for debate.

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Do any politicians know this? Have any of them actually said “lockdowns were an utter failure” out loud? Johnson probably thought it, but his handlers wouldn’t allow him to say it. Most of them are sticking to the script of “we had to do it”.

I will just about concede there was some necessity to a first lockdown, but because the government terrified the public into believing the threat was far worse than it really was, it was politically impossible to end restrictions.

Monwmum · 11/10/2024 20:07

PinkiOcelot · 11/10/2024 15:35

Makes you wonder why we had lockdowns in the first place when we can just go about our business as normal now. They were ridiculous.

Completely agree with you. Sweden kept their schools open the whole time with no negative consequences. Lockdowns were a completely bizarre concept considering who was actually vulnerable to COVID. Why we ever thought copying communist China was a good idea I will never know.

Cornercandy · 11/10/2024 20:08

ThisOldThang · 11/10/2024 18:17

The public debt, huge rise in worklessness and damage to children's education has been catastrophic for the nation.

The consequences will be felt for decades and we're heading for massive cuts to the public sector, healthcare, pensions and benefits.

The vast majority of the elderly people, with multiple health conditions, that were 'saved' by lockdowns are probably already dead.

What a complete disaster.

https://www.homeinstead.co.uk/care-home-or-home-care-a-comparison-of-elderly-care-options/

The average life expectancy for people in care homes is 12-30 months. Chances are almost every care home resident in March 2020 are no longer alive.

Ellerby83 · 11/10/2024 20:08

The first lockdown went on far too long for schools. I remember near the start there was talk of them reopening in May but that never happened. Pubs and theme parks etc opened in July but schools stayed closed. Not even an hour or two on the school field for my kids.

ThisOldThang · 11/10/2024 20:09

@TickingAlongNicely

I think one of the biggest problems was that those with health anxiety suddenly had official validation and were screaming granny killer at anybody that tried to put things in perspective.

The government's psy-ops campaign didn't help matters, either.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2021/04/02/state-fear-ministers-used-covert-tactics-keep-scared-public/

State of fear: how ministers ‘used covert tactics’ to keep scared public at home

Government’s ‘psychological strategies’ to manipulate unwitting public’s behaviour may backfire and lead to long-term damage, experts claim

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2021/04/02/state-fear-ministers-used-covert-tactics-keep-scared-public

Cornercandy · 11/10/2024 20:10

I remember that there were talks about be everyone over the age of retirement should be shielding. That would have done my parents’ heads in. Plus mine as well as working in essential retail, buying their shopping etc.

scalt · 11/10/2024 20:12

Monwmum · 11/10/2024 20:07

Completely agree with you. Sweden kept their schools open the whole time with no negative consequences. Lockdowns were a completely bizarre concept considering who was actually vulnerable to COVID. Why we ever thought copying communist China was a good idea I will never know.

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It’s these u-turns that make it look as if lockdown was an “exercise”, or an “experiment”. The way we went from “it’s nothing to worry about” to “you must stay at home” at the flick of a switch. If it hadn’t been for partygate, Mumsnet and others might be baying for mask mandates in schools and everywhere through the winter even now.

scalt · 11/10/2024 20:16

Ellerby83 · 11/10/2024 20:08

The first lockdown went on far too long for schools. I remember near the start there was talk of them reopening in May but that never happened. Pubs and theme parks etc opened in July but schools stayed closed. Not even an hour or two on the school field for my kids.

I had my bingo card all ready for the government saying “we tried to open the schools in June 2020, but the unions and the public yelled at us to keep them closed”. Again, I think this is because the government deliberately terrified the public. Their strategy of frightening people into accepting lockdown worked too well.

RafaistheKingofClay · 11/10/2024 20:19

Fluufer · 11/10/2024 18:27

https://explore-education-statistics.service.gov.uk/find-statistics/pupil-absence-in-schools-in-england
There is data here, the 130k refers the numbers of "severely absent" children. Whilst it doesn't mean 130k kids have literally disappeared, it does mean that the number of kids missing lots/not attending school has more than doubled since 2019.

Pretty sure the DfE looked into that.Not that it was widely publicised because this was mainly used by the Tories as part of the culture wars. Most of that persistent absence is illness. Mainly Covid/long covid.

Which is utterly unsurprising when we are in the middle of a pandemic.

maddening · 11/10/2024 20:21

I count our family as lucky as ds was 9 so it wasn't a crucial point and we moved school in year 5 and his new school was amazing during the lockdowns with actual teaching over Google meet - at the start of the day, lunch time and the end of the day. Ds actually went back improved at maths as I was wfh and able to help teach him. Having online games also helped. We were also fortunate that we both wfh and only have one child so overall the impact has not been awful, infact it has been better for me career wise as it decentralised from London and brought in hybrid working.

EasternStandard · 11/10/2024 20:22

RafaistheKingofClay · 11/10/2024 20:19

Pretty sure the DfE looked into that.Not that it was widely publicised because this was mainly used by the Tories as part of the culture wars. Most of that persistent absence is illness. Mainly Covid/long covid.

Which is utterly unsurprising when we are in the middle of a pandemic.

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Could you link to the DfE showing this?

maddening · 11/10/2024 20:22

Sorry online games helped socially as he was still able to play and speak to friends.

JRSKSSBH · 11/10/2024 20:25

SophiaJ8 · 11/10/2024 20:05

No, schools should never have closed.

Children were sacrificed for the old and infirm.

This is true, but if you said this at the time there were howls of outrage.

Hateam · 11/10/2024 20:27

suburberphobe · 11/10/2024 19:12

There are 130k children who never returned to schools and nobody know where they are.

What??! How can this be possible? I don't live in the UK and in my country you cannot home-school because it's usually religious nutters who try it

It's not possible.
The poster made up the bit about nobody knowing where they are.

GrannyRose15 · 11/10/2024 20:28

No. The so called benefits of lockdown are far outweighed by the harm that was done in all sorts of areas, education being only one of them. The harm is so bad that we actually don’t know what we have done and we will be dealing with the consequences of lockdown for the rest of our lives.

StaunchMomma · 11/10/2024 20:30

Lives outweigh education, in my eyes.

My DS was out of school between year 2-3 and apart from missing KS1 SATs I can't say it affected his schooling in the slightest.

His class did well in KS2 SATs etc.

Why then would I have wanted to take more risks with the lives of the sick and elderly?

Fluufer · 11/10/2024 20:30

RafaistheKingofClay · 11/10/2024 20:19

Pretty sure the DfE looked into that.Not that it was widely publicised because this was mainly used by the Tories as part of the culture wars. Most of that persistent absence is illness. Mainly Covid/long covid.

Which is utterly unsurprising when we are in the middle of a pandemic.

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For how long will we be "in the middle of a pandemic"?
Half of overall absences are due to illness. If you have data that shows covid is the cause of most persistent absence I would be interested to see that data.

StaunchMomma · 11/10/2024 20:31

GrannyRose15 · 11/10/2024 20:28

No. The so called benefits of lockdown are far outweighed by the harm that was done in all sorts of areas, education being only one of them. The harm is so bad that we actually don’t know what we have done and we will be dealing with the consequences of lockdown for the rest of our lives.

How do we not know the harms to education when SATs, GCSEs and A Levels etc are all running?

JRSKSSBH · 11/10/2024 20:32

Bushmillsbabe · 11/10/2024 18:38

Thats called survivor bias, just because you were fine doesn't mean others were. A previous very healthy friend of mine nearly died 3 times in itu, with her children saying bye to her via an iPad on facetime. For every 'well we were fine' story there will be 'I lost my Dad/husband/sister,grandma' story

And no one says they have it now as it's hard to get the tests to check.

Bushmills has a point. I haven’t been vaccinated. Worked in a school, during the 2021 lockdown I elected to go into school rather than stay at home. I had Covid once. Friends who were vaccinated repeatedly, have had it repeatedly. How does that work?