Partner is demanding I leave after saying last week he would go.
For context he's financially abusive and I'm done.
Spends all his money on Mary Jane, expects me to subsidise his bills (rent, utilities, credit cards, food etc...) he stays up all night and sleeps all day (then works some evenings).
Told him no last week as needed to pay the rent and he kicked OFF. Told me I need to leave and said a lot of really nasty stuff like how he wants me to "deee iiiii eeee" and I'm a fat lazy b*h.
We have a DS4 who I've almost killed myself working my behind off to ensure he has a home and all the things he needs. I work 5 days a week, I do all of the childcare and early mornings and drop offs and pick ups.
I've been very unwell the past 2 years with cancer, surgery and now I'm constantly in pain which the hospital are looking into.
He's barely helped during this time at all then said to my face he didn't sign up to be my carer.
I would probably be better off both emotionally & financially if he leaves but he refuses & tells me to leave. As if I'm going to leave my child & my home which is full of MY belongings l, furniture everything.
Am I being unreasonable to think he should be taking himself out of the situation? Since he's apparently got such a good support system (he keeps saying this over and over because my mom's dead, my dad is estranged & I'm not close with my siblings).
Please be kind, I'm absolutely destroyed right now and I have no idea what to do & don't think I can take anymore abuse 