So I've been split with ex for many many years and we have jogged along mostly ok with a few blips like when I had to take him to court for maintenance. In the last few months though he has stopped paying anything and has been ignoring my calls and texts. He's also been ignoring ds. Ds wanted to visit him on the weekend - it's a journey over to Ireland where he lives and we are visiting my parents . So anyway finally last night he phoned ds and I asked ds who was on the phone and I asked to speak to ex. I said to him why have you been ignoring all my calls and texts and ds calls and texts too. And he just laughed! So I took the phone into my room away from ds and asked him again in private and he just wouldn't answer. I could hear that he was there as I could
Hear him breathing! I asked a few times and he just wouldn't say anything. Eventually I hung up. I rang straight back but no answer. Then dd rang and no answer. I felt so triggered . Even after all these years it brings it back to me the way he used to mock me and then ignore me for days on end. And now we don't even know is ds meeting him. He owes me so much money for back payments . I am so so broke I had to borrow money last month to pay the rent. I dunno how he can treat his kid like this. So yeh silence is a weapon isn't it