to feel like banning dd's friends from using our toilet? (far too much TMI!)

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...because they're not sufficiently house-trained
I'm sick of other people's children pooing in my toilet and then not flushing. Yesterday evening I was yet again greeted with a toilet filled almost to the brim with shitty bog roll, and then a completely smeared bowl [bleurgh] because the poo had sat there unflushed for hours.

Can't they hold on until they're home? (they're all 9, dd is 8)

I'm really fed up with it, at the moment (and I know IABU) I feel like telling her she can't have anyone over to play.

I sympathise....I get this from DH's friends who are a lot older than 8 and appear to rejoice in saving their dumps for when they visit us....and they don't spray either or look back and check for skiddies...

A friend of DH's used to absolutely disgust me. When he came over to our place, he would go upstairs to pee and end up leaving lots around the floor by the loo (we'd just had our bathroom done so I felt he'd doubly dissed us!). I said to DH that if he wanted me to be polite to his friend ever again, that he'd have to tell him to stop p*ssing all over the floor.

And there was me thinking it was just my dd's friends who did this

I just tell them off and explain I don't like being greeted with that down the toilet and would they like that view?

Usually does the trick.......For about a day!

How revolting! I wonder if they do this at their own homes. If it's a regular thing and you know who's doing it, why not just tell them when they arrive that they must flush the toilet?

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someone does this in our toilet at work - and they are grown women ffs! It is either skidmarks, floaters or wee on the seat - bleurgh!!!

Yes but at aged 9 you would expect them to be able to go to the loo and wipe - I certainly was able to do this by the age of 9!!

You can feel rather disgusted but you are being unreasonable!!!
As for boys missing the bowl, most men I know have problems with their aim!!

Yanbu.... The next time they come over to yours try and be aware of who goes to the loo and then check it afterwards.... and whoever makes the mess call them bact to clean it up...
I would - in fact I have. My uncle came to visit a few weeks ago and stunk out the whole of my upstairs with his disgusting poo, the smell actually followed him down the stairs, so I made him go back upstairs shut the toilet lid, open the bathroom window and spray air freshener all round upstairs, all the while gagging and telling him what a smelly git he was.

The problem is that some adults and kids just never look back - they poo, wipe, flush, wash hands and leave the room. I always look back and have finally trained DH and kids to do the same, but it's a life skill that passes lots of people by.

Should I start a "Look back" campaign? I could do a nationwide schools' project - posters, stickers, reward charts etc .

Hassled - please do - i would love some posters and stickers for my lot!

Oh, it's gross isn't it?

We have the builders in at the moment and one of them asked to use the loo yesterday.

I went in a couple of hours later and was nearly sick.

Won't go into details but suffice it to say we are going to buy a new toilet seat this weekend!

God I remember at an office I worked in once someone kept smearing snot on the mirror in the womens loo.
We got a polite email about it , pointing out that it was rather filthy and to please stop.
It worked.

YANBU. To be honest I dont really like anyone who dosent live in our house using our loo in the same way as I dont like using any loos away from home. Only go if I am desperate! DD does the same. Will not use school loos and comes in at 4pm like a streak of lightning straight to the loo.

We're like that in our house bluefox... and ds4 does exactly the same. Straight in and straight to the loo.....