My partner and I have been together nearly 2 years, and recently decided to move in together. We have put a deposit down to rent a property and we are both really excited.
We’ve just started packing and writing shopping lists etc, and it’s all becoming real!
There’s one thing that scares me though - I was in this position a few years ago. I was packing to move in with my ex (who already had a house) and we were doing the exact same thing. He was prepping the house, I was packing, we were both shopping and super excited.
However, after a week of me moving in, he decided he hadn’t been happy for a while and broke up with me, and asked me to move out.
My current boyfriend has given me no reason to doubt him and he seems super excited, and we haven’t had problems like me and my ex did. I feel much more secure with him. However, even just packing is giving me anxiety that the same thing will happen and I was none the wiser last time.
How do I get this out of my head and just enjoy the process?