Wondering about whether to make a big move to be closer to family. Currently at 3-4 hour drive away. We won't be moving to same town per se, maybe a 45min - hour closer.
Thinking of starting a family, so realistically won't be moving for a year or two yet.
The problem is we love where we live now. And just wonder if we'd regret it. But then people obviously live happy lives where my family are as well.
Pros:
- could potentially afford to buy a house (currently renting and prospects seem low or a long way off where we are currently).
- work, it will be easy for me to relocate and DH has potential to WFH.
- family closeness
- any children will grow up spending more time with grandparents
Cons:
- saying goodbye to beautiful beaches and scenery on doorstep (although I feel the area is declining and becoming more unsafe, but I know this is everywhere)
- I love my current work team
You are being unreasonable - don't make the move
You are not being unreasonable - make the move
Ultimately, it would be nice to here other peoples lived experiences if you don't mind sharing.
Husband and I keep thinking let's do it, but then doubts come niggling in....