I’m really concerned about my DS (22) and his girlfriend (19). Both of them have Asperger’s, and while I understand they support each other, I recently discovered they’ve started uploading intimate videos of themselves online. This has left me feeling uneasy for a few reasons.
Firstly, I worry about their understanding of the long-term implications of sharing such personal content. With both being young and on the autism spectrum, I’m concerned they might not fully grasp the potential consequences for their personal and professional lives.
Secondly, I can’t help but feel that DS might be influencing her in ways that aren’t entirely healthy. She’s been making some unusual comments lately, and I wonder if he’s taking on a more protective role than is good for either of them. It’s hard to shake the feeling that because he’s a guy, he might be guiding her in ways that aren’t entirely appropriate, even if unintentionally.
I’ve tried talking to DS about my concerns, but he’s quite set in his ways and doesn’t seem to see the problem. I don’t want to overstep, but I’m worried about her well-being and his judgment in this relationship. They both deserve happiness, but I’m scared that this could end up hurting them both.
Has anyone else dealt with something similar? How did you approach the conversation without making him feel judged? I’m really struggling to find the right balance between being supportive and protective.
TIA for any advice.