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Was the Subway Sandwich Artist being unreasonable?

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SandwichArtist · 02/10/2024 16:14

Okay yes i’m an over thinker and do have the time to spend mulling this over as kids are at a club and I’ve got another 30mins to kill - before anyone makes fun of me for making a pointless thread.

Anyway I Think I’ve just been gaslighted by the Subway sandwich artist guy so thought i’d check here who was being unreasonable.

Name changed in case his wife or other relative is on here and he goes home and moans about me!

Ordered on the app three sandwich meals for a 3.30 pick up. Arrived and there was a queue of about 7 people. Two staff, one looked to be new and being fed instructions by the stressed looking other member.

Caught the stressed out one in a free moment while he was waiting for the toaster to go. Said i’d ordered on the app and was just here for a collection when he had a moment. He then said okay i’ll make that for you in a minute. I said Oh i was expecting it to be made already as i’d ordered online. He didn’t answer so I returned to my spot in the queue thinking he was just super stressed and must have got caught up in an unexpected rush so hadn’t had chance to make my order yet. A little annoying but no harm done.

The trainee then tries to make my order from the receipt and seemed to be getting stressed out as well. I said to him not to worry and i’d just tell him the order if it was easier. So basically i ended up having to order everything in person anyway.

Got all my sandwiches sorted then arrived at the till. Second staff member starts to ring it through so I stopped him and said I’ve ordered and paid for it all online. He then bagged up the sandwiches and says thank you then moved on to the next customer. I said it was meals i ordered and could i have three cookies and bottles. Again not a word to me. He just silently puts them into the bag.

By now i’m getting annoyed at his poor customer service skills so i ask him (exact words): Can i just check - is the app working or is it just that you were really busy that my order wasn’t ready for click and collect? He then says we don’t make the order until the customer arrives so it doesn’t go soggy waiting for them. I said the last three times i’ve ordered (same shop, different staff) it was ready to collect right away from the till. He said well they’ve been doing it wrong. So then i asked him what is the point of ordering on the app then if I still have to queue and order as I normally would had i just came in and ordered in person. He said he wasn’t sure but some people prefer ordering that way???

I said look i hope this doesn’t sound rude but I can see you’ve been really busy, so if that’s actually the reason the order wasn’t ready for immediate collection then that’s fine and understandable. He then insisted that it was procedure not to begin making the sandwich until the customer had notified them on arrival that they’d ordered online.

I again said this hadn’t been the case the last few times so if that’s the new procedure, they need to make that clearer on the app. At the most this was a 30 second exchange, if that. He then looks even more stressed and says Can i get you anything else as i’ve got a customer waiting.

So i left. Pissed off that i think he’s lied to me (but why would he do that??) and also annoyed at his shocking customer service. Subway was my first job as a 16yo and I was far nicer to my customers than he was today.

OP posts:
ReadWithScepticism · 02/10/2024 16:50

... a sort of Banksy with mayo instead of spray paint.

WelshPool · 02/10/2024 16:50

ReadWithScepticism · 02/10/2024 16:49

Sandwich artist?

Have I missed something? I thought this was going to be about someone who made art (sandwich art?) on the London Underground.

They've always referred to them as Sandwich Artists.

Was the Subway Sandwich Artist being unreasonable?
WillowTit · 02/10/2024 16:50

sounds like you are being unnecessarily argumentative, particularly when they are so busy

Theunamedcat · 02/10/2024 16:51

I get your frustration I ordered a Costa click and collect because I was in a rush I get there huge queue I say I've ordered click and collect? They still made me wait in the queue and I did question what was the point on click and collect if you still need to stand and queue 😂

ttcat37 · 02/10/2024 16:51

I think, considering you thought you knew the answer to your many many questions, and didn’t believe the chap’s answers anyway, you should have just walked away when you’d got your food, and left the already stressed man to his shit day doing his best at work on minimum wage.

KeepinOn · 02/10/2024 16:51

Yes, let's stick the boot in to minimum wage teens as they try to serve a million people at once. SMILE, DAMN YOU

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:52

YABU for ordering Subway's fucking awful sandwiches that smell of bins.

neonbluedog · 02/10/2024 16:52

I think to me the isssue is that customers are far ruder and more awful now than they've ever been (I've been working in customer facing roles for the last 30 years) and people are working these crap minimum wage jobs for 40-50 hours a week to feed their families. Yeah the customer service wasn't great but I don't know if it's worth complaining to these poor stressed people. I'm not saying you were rude or awful but the constant crap you get from the public just wears you down and you find eventually you just don't care anymore.

mumda · 02/10/2024 16:53

I'd teach them a lesson by never going there again.

DreamW3aver · 02/10/2024 16:53

HausofHolbein · 02/10/2024 16:40

If you work at McDonalds, are you a Burger Artist?

...Papa Johns - a Pizza artist?

Edited

Toilet attendant - piss artist?

DoreenonTill8 · 02/10/2024 16:54

How do they know when you'll arrive? I know the burger king app has a 'I'm 5 mins away' button on the app.

WillowTit · 02/10/2024 16:54

i dont think that is actually Art

NahNotHavingIt · 02/10/2024 16:55

The poor fucker was already stressed and didn't need you making it worse right at that time.

Normally I'm all for people complaining in store rather than via email, but this was definitely one of those times where you should've emailed your query/complaint.

DreamW3aver · 02/10/2024 16:56

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:52

YABU for ordering Subway's fucking awful sandwiches that smell of bins.

There's always one who has to post this comment, why can't the OP order from a place she wants to?

You not liking the food doesn't mean the rest of the 60 million people in the country are unreasonable to get their lunch there

NahNotHavingIt · 02/10/2024 16:56

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:52

YABU for ordering Subway's fucking awful sandwiches that smell of bins.

And YABU for liking some things that the OP probably doesn't.

So childish 🙄

offyoujollywelltrot · 02/10/2024 16:58

You need to get over yourself.

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:58

Nope I stand by my view Subway is horrible.

WelshPool · 02/10/2024 16:58

DreamW3aver · 02/10/2024 16:56

There's always one who has to post this comment, why can't the OP order from a place she wants to?

You not liking the food doesn't mean the rest of the 60 million people in the country are unreasonable to get their lunch there

Because they want you to know how superior to the rest of us plebs they are, and they only eat the finest of foods served by vestal virgins on sparkling golden platters.

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:59

No I just don't want to eat sandwiches that smell of bins. A perfectly reasonable aim in life.

Whothefuckdoesthat · 02/10/2024 17:02

Why did you keep needling him? Something went slightly wrong with your order. It’s not the end of the world. You had your food and everything else that came with a meal, so what was the need to have a big conversation about it when there was a queue, he was stressed and trying to train a new person? Was the need for an apology so strong that you couldn’t help yourself?

If you’re putting ‘sandwich’ and ‘gaslighting’ in the same sentence, I think you’ve got some issues.

Putonyourredshoesanddancetheblues · 02/10/2024 17:04

I’m fasting but now want a subway.

also want to be a sandwich artist

missmollygreen · 02/10/2024 17:10

CitrusPocket · 02/10/2024 16:49

Not really the point, but what’s the benefit of ordering ahead if it’s not going to be already made when you collect? I get why it wouldn’t be, but why offer it in the first place?

Because it guarantees a sale. No chance in you getting tempted by a burger whilst on the way to the Subway.

NahNotHavingIt · 02/10/2024 17:12

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/10/2024 16:58

Nope I stand by my view Subway is horrible.

Which is fine, obviously.

But in what way does it make the OP unreasonable?

Or did you think she was ordering them for you?

Blinkii · 02/10/2024 17:12

Gaslighting....MN's top go to word.

TerfTalking · 02/10/2024 17:15

takealettermsjones · 02/10/2024 16:39

I wish the word "gaslighting" had never made it out of psychology textbooks and into the public sphere.

Yup! It gets thrown into every conversation when someone has a beef about anyone.

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