We had been struggling for a while but he said 2 months ago he wanted a divorce I was crying he accused me of putting on a act when I was genuinely upset he just said it? He accused me of being malipertive when I had tears in my eyes I said I still loved him I wasn't I was being genuine. He's accused me of crying crocodile tears when I was crying and he was being very mean once. He spoke down to me said enough when I was trying to explain myself he pushes me away. He rolled his eyes once over my allergies asthma once. He blames me for everything bad that happened over the past 23 years I've been with him since 2006 even blames me for my own mother. He called me a worthless c and punched a huge whole in the door once! I've tried to get on with him be a good wife for years I discussed things for hours trying to sort things out he just said I went on I don't know when to stop but there was a lot to discuss! I bought him presents offered him messages ect be nice. He blames me for our marriage breakdown all of it even though I tried so hard to get on with him discussed things he makes me feel worthless as he points the finger all the time and had done little to make me feel appreciated he pointed his finger and said no at me when I was talking please help