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To ask for opinions (and possibly encouragement) on going a trip alone/ travelling alone

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Autumntime44 · 30/09/2024 01:15

I really want to go away next March somewhere but for various reasons and commitments, my friends aren’t free. Partner tied up with work at that time.
I went away alone once in my 30’s and it was fine but somehow feel nervous about it at the moment.
I’d be flying somewhere maybe France then getting a train, spending a few days somewhere and doing the same in reverse.
It’s just the fact of being a solo traveller and the thought of something going wrong eg if you weren’t feeling well or something it’s better to have someone with you?
I know I’m likely overthinking this.
Can anyone who travels solo give me some encouragement?
Thanks!

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notacooldad · 30/09/2024 18:47

This year I've been to Spain twice and Poland twice. Next week I'm going to Scotland by myself.
I've been doing this for decades
I also go away with Dh and friends.
Biggest tip is to be happy in your own company. The biggest advantage is that you don't ha e to compromise with anyone..
There's no disadvantages as fares I'm concerned!

DuesToTheDirt · 30/09/2024 18:47

ivykaty44 · 30/09/2024 18:39

Take paracetamol, ibuprofen and Imodium with you.

Yy to this. On a recent holiday I had to send DH out for immodium at midnight...

Though wherever the holiday, whatever I pack, I always seem to need a pharmacy for something!

Ineffable23 · 30/09/2024 18:51

ivykaty44 · 30/09/2024 18:39

Take paracetamol, ibuprofen and Imodium with you.

This is a good point.

I travel alone either for work or holidays relatively regularly. I always have a small pharmacy's worth of medication with me: paracetamol, ibuprofen, immodium, decongestant, ant-acids, antihistamines, antihistamine cream etc etc. Just saves any worrying to know it's all packed and available to me immediately.

Autumntime44 · 01/10/2024 01:56

Thanks for all the positive vibes and advice!
It’s very reassuring and I need to take the plunge!
Happy to hear more stories of great solo trips!

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steff13 · 01/10/2024 02:25

I took a road trip from Cincinnati to Toronto alone last month, 450-ish miles each way. I stopped in Detroit and spent some time walking around, visited a couple museums. Walked around Windsor, and then spent a week in Toronto. I loved being able to do whatever I wanted, to stop and visit wherever I wanted. It was great.

Fluffycloudsfloatinginthesky · 01/10/2024 06:28

I don't know how old you are but join solo women travelling over 50+ group on fb. Some are inspiring!

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