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To ask if you’re ever been burgled?

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CherryValley5 · 29/09/2024 21:04

Edit: Typo in title - should obviously be you’ve!

Really just looking for anyone who might have experienced something similar to see if it’s right for me to be worried about this situation escalating..

In the early hours of the morning we had intruders in our back garden, peering into our back door (which thankfully had been locked). DD’s bedroom is directly above - she saw the security light come on and heard movement on the gravel however she just assumed that it was a fox or badger walking through the garden as this is quite typical. She looked out her window and was shocked to see three middle aged, well built men standing there, looking around and conversing with each other in thick Irish accents (we’re northern Irish, they definitely weren’t local - DD is convinced they were travellers.)

She panicked and rang me from her bedroom - I immediately picked up the phone, slammed all of the lights on and ran downstairs. This must have spooked them as they ran and fled in an old run around car which was sitting across the street. DD videoed them but it was too dark to see the registration plate.

I rang the non emergency police number and they quickly attended. Perfectly pleasant but spectacularly useless - suggested that the men in question could maybe be undercover police officers doing a search of the area (??) and went on their way.

I’m worried that we’ve been targeted and that they will come back for more. There have been unmarked vans ending up at the house over recent months asking for scrap metal or if we are willing to sell our cars- we live at the dead end of the neighbourhood so it’s impossible for somebody to just be doing a casual drive by. I’m currently divorcing so it’s just DD and I in the house, I wonder if they’ve observed us and know it’s an easy target. It’s the marital home so is very large and I suppose would look desirable to a potential burglar (unfortunately for them we have nothing of big value..) To make matters worse we have building work going on at the moment so there is no back gate or means of securing the back garden… Sorry for the rant - I feel like crying!!

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CherryValley5 · 09/10/2024 19:41

TaylorSwish · 09/10/2024 19:34

We got burgled when we were asleep upstairs. They stole EVERYTHING, my mums wedding rings she left by the kitchen sink, a handful of coins (probably £3), a bus pass ☹️, dvds etc.

My dad got his much wanted dog a couple weeks after (he had been asking my mum for years and she’d always said no).

I have heard a dog is the best deterrent.

Our dog proved useless🤣 Typically she barks at every little noise outside, that night she was sound asleep and didn’t stir. Plus - I don’t think that any potential burglars are going to look at a golden retriever as a threat😬

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TaylorSwish · 09/10/2024 19:59

Golden retrievers are only a threat to a box of snacks.

I hope that you start to feel a little better about this horrible event soon @CherryValley5

goneaway2 · 09/10/2024 20:41

Get your dog a nice new barky friend! Honestly I feel very safe with my large male rough collie, once we had a random person walk into our house because he mistook it for someone else's, our dog noticed him far sooner than us and stood barking at him. He wasn't letting him out or any further in.

Birdahoy · 09/10/2024 21:00

2 or 3 times when I was a kid. Looking back it will have been that our house looked pretty uncared for - single glazed windows when every other house had upgraded to double glazing, warped window frames, swollen wooden back door etc. We had a barky dog and they sprayed him in the eyes with antifreeze. Luckily he was fine but how cruel….

When I was about 13 my sister and I were home from school as we were going to a family event. My mum had nipped out around lunchtime and someone knocked on the door. Didn’t answer, as we’d been told not to. He only bloody started trying to break in! Looked out the upstairs window, saw him hiding behind the garage. Rang the police, they came (never asked where mum was or why we were home alone on a school day 😂😂) and I sobbed all over them when they arrived. I was terrified. He’d scarpered by that point because the police had phoned us back to check it wasn’t a hoax call…..

Nowadays we have a dog who only barks at other dogs and fireworks, and tbh sometimes I don’t shush him as quickly as I could just to remind the neighbours in the other buildings that we have a dog. (Our back door and back garden is overlooked by maybe 20-30 apartments).
We also changed the locks for the most secure ones available. Anybody trying to get in will take quite a while and make quite a noise, that way at least. The door is reinforced so basically metal (most are here, not in UK).

I do want to sort out a ring camera and alarm system but need to research the best options what with having a dog.

Sorry OP, I sympathise. It’s awful to know someone has tried to get in, and the fear of them coming back is also not nice. It does get better though, I promise.

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