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AIBU for obsessing about marionette lines?

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CareerChange24 · 28/09/2024 20:22

Posting here for traffic as there is such varying opinion on the best course of action I don’t know what to do. 34 and everyone has always said I have a baby face. Until the past few years. I have lost a lot of weight. My cheeks are full but nice cheekbones. My marionette lines however are those of someone who is 54. I am miserable because of them. And I look it. The lines from the edge of my lips drooping down to my chin, I look like an upside down clown. Should I invest in a nuface? Botox or filler? I’d be so grateful for great advice as they are really effecting my confidence. AIBU for OBsessing over this so much?

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Plmnki · 28/09/2024 20:27

Really sympathise. Def find a good practitioner (experienced doctor or dentist) and ask their advice. Some Botox and fillers can work magic. Try one first, wait three months, try another. It’s a work in progress, shop around and get different options, research, understand how the face is constructed. Educate yourself a bit so you can understand what the professionals are saying. You don’t have to to stay with the lines of you’re unhappy with them.

MereDintofPandiculation · 28/09/2024 20:36

I would sort out your confidence. Yes, you don’t have to live with these lines, but if they’re affecting you that much, then there’s a chance that once these are sorted, something else will make you feel just as bad

Doggymummar · 28/09/2024 20:38

I have had mine filled twice. I'm 55 I look much better with them done. Last time was maybe 5 years ago and they probably could use doing again soon.unfortunately I have a £3k dental bill needs paying first.

lopdoo · 28/09/2024 20:43

Not marionette lines for me but I'm mid 30s with much more wrinkles around my eyes than most people I know my age (I'm a squinter!) I've gotten a bit of Botox, hasn't completely fixed the issue because of where they are but I feel like I've taken a little control and feel better for it. Def go see a practitioner and see what they advise, I don't see it any differently than dying hair, it doesn't consume me, I'm a confident person, but it's made me feel better, what's the harm in that?

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 28/09/2024 20:55

I don’t have these I don’t think, but I do have deep lines from my nose to the edge of my mouth so I guess mine are higher than yours but I feel your pain! I wish there was a way to fill them out without resorting to fillers 🙁. It

marshmallowfinder · 30/09/2024 18:26

I'd love to get rid of mine, but I do feel powerless really. I can't afford treatment and imagine they come back whatever you do. 😩

catin8oots · 30/09/2024 18:41

I though marionette was the nose to mouth lines?

anyway whatever OP I have the same drooping mouth - one side worse than the other. I look like a miserable bitch at all times and I'm only 44. I've had Botox in my 11s and forehead before and have been looking at 'smile lift'

I really don't want fillers though

catin8oots · 30/09/2024 18:41

Oh and well done on the weight loss

MattDamon · 30/09/2024 18:57

When did you lose the weight? You're still very young, it will probably tighten up to some degree. Focus on good skincare for the next year or so.

Didimum · 30/09/2024 20:16

catin8oots · 30/09/2024 18:41

I though marionette was the nose to mouth lines?

anyway whatever OP I have the same drooping mouth - one side worse than the other. I look like a miserable bitch at all times and I'm only 44. I've had Botox in my 11s and forehead before and have been looking at 'smile lift'

I really don't want fillers though

Nose to mouth are nasolabial folds. Mouth to chin is called marionette because it resembles a marionette doll.

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