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Couldn't even last 10 seconds, I freaked out. *content warning regarding MRI scans* title edited by MNHQ

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MammaKel · 28/09/2024 16:35

Hi All,

I had an MRI scan today and I've never had one before but didn't consider myself claustrophobic so thought I'd be okay..

Led down on the bed, fine, put headphones on, fine, put cage thing over my head, fine ... got put into the MRI machine, made the mistake of opening my eyes and it was not fine I was shouting to be let out, crying, squeezing the thing they give you over and over and just I don't know what happened, complete and utter terror took over.

They let me out, weren't particularly nice about it but I just put my shoes on and left crying.

I feel like a utter idiot now, whilst still crying but I genuinely couldn't do it, panic and fear just took over.

It was needed for my head but does anyone know what happens now? Do I just hope I don't have anything wrong with me or will I eventually have to do it?

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 28/09/2024 17:10

8misskitty8 · 28/09/2024 17:07

My daughter had a brain MRI when she was 11. It was done in the children’s hospital, their scanner has a wider tunnel.
The technician told me that they also scan adults who are claustrophobic or larger in size in that hospital. Unless urgent, adult Patients have to wait a little longer though.

Oh - mine was quite a wide tunnel - in fact I’d have called it an arch rather than a tunnel. Maybe that was why it was ok?

User364837 · 28/09/2024 17:10

Ugh I was the same and hated it
i did a second attempt and just about managed, it really helped me when they told me I could slide myself out if I needed to as I had felt trapped and thought they had to get me out

Toastcrumbsinsofa · 28/09/2024 17:11

Luio · 28/09/2024 17:00

Young children are given a sedative. I don’t know if adults are ever given that option.

I’ve had a mild sedative each time I have had an MRI and it really helps. You need to request a sedative from the doctor who booked your scan.

Blarn · 28/09/2024 17:11

I had one when I was 15, it was awful. I also pressed the little button, crying and the nurse was not very sympathic at all. I managed to get through it but it was a really, really unpleasant experience.

EasternStandard · 28/09/2024 17:12

Luio · 28/09/2024 17:00

Young children are given a sedative. I don’t know if adults are ever given that option.

Ask about taking something op

greenbirds · 28/09/2024 17:12

I really empathise with you. The only time I have made any fuss or panicked in medical setting was when I had an MRI. I felt overwhelming terror as they slid me into the very narrow enclosed scanner. The staff weren't sympathetic and I could tell they were irritated. Managed to get through it by keeping head out but I don't know how I could ever do it again.

I am not someone who makes a fuss generally. I am pretty stoical. Have given birth four times with no pain relief, had several hysteroscopies, go to the dentist no problem. But being trapped in an MRI scanner was simply unbearable.

I hope you can speak to someone sympathetic and get some support to have another scan. Or maybe see if there's an alternative method of checking whatever you needed the scan for.

saraclara · 28/09/2024 17:12

Never open your eyes.

Absolutely that, if you have a normal scanner. I wish someone had given me that advice the first time. Once the radiologist told me to keep my eyes closed, I managed to get to the end of it. But I'd gone in with my eyes open, and I had to ask her to get me out within seconds. I forced myself to go in again, but only the eyes closed thing got me through it.

mathanxiety · 28/09/2024 17:14

I had a similar experience the first time I tried. Part of my problem was that I was getting over a cold and couldn't breathe through my nose, and my mouth got incredibly dry, couldn't swallow - not nice.

I rescheduled and got a prescription for one lorazepam tablet, which I took before the session. It did the trick.

Tristar15 · 28/09/2024 17:14

If you tilt your head back and look up it is easier to manage (unless your head needs scanning I guess). I had one for pelvis and that was the way I managed.

EasternStandard · 28/09/2024 17:14

I had a CT scan which was nothing on an MRI but I was kind of annoyed the Dr said you can open your eyes

I should have kept them shut and had up deep breathe through it

mathanxiety · 28/09/2024 17:16

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 28/09/2024 17:07

I think it’s something other than claustrophobia that people get.

I am insanely claustrophobic- always have been since a child - but I was totally fine with it. Which is really weird when I absolutely cannot sit in a plane/ train/ theatre etc seat without direct aisle access.

If I’m in a slow moving crowd I can’t cope at all, but this didn’t affect me.

So maybe those who say they’re not claustrophobic but hated this, it’s because it’s not claustrophobia that was affecting you - maybe it’s eg to do with having something above your head, or the noise etc?

Edited

If it has the same effect - a sense of panic, terror, or needing to get out immediately - then a quibble about whether it's claustrophobia or something else isn't really relevant.

rumblegrumble · 28/09/2024 17:17

It's completely normal, they even have a big pile of ready-made slips to hand to people who chicken out as it's such a common occurrence! I'm the exact same - and I have an bloody annoying condition which means I now need them every year or so 😭 The first operators I had were pretty mean to me, which didn't much help. I now mention that I'm a scaredy-cat and that I've had people be mean and ever since they've always been really kind and patient. Even had one stroke my leg the whole time, which was oddly comforting.

For future reference, get drugs. Your GP or consultant will happily give you a couple of diazepam, they are really used to people panicking. My neurologist asked if I'd had a sibling who'd sat on my head, turns out my brother did exactly that so now I blame him! Second, ask for a large machine - I still can't do the small ones at all, even doped up. Third, they can talk you through it which I find helpful - so they'll tell me when you can wiggle, how long the next scan will last, how many you have left etc. They're horrid, but you can get through it.

UncharteredWaters · 28/09/2024 17:18

dublino · 28/09/2024 16:55

I have one tomorrow for my ankle. Had one years ago for my back and hated it . They had to redo cause I was trembling too much. I'm hoping tomorrow they only put me in from the waist down but I'm not holding my breath . My ma had to donit in an open one as she has terrible claustrophobia

Tip your head back, it means you can see out the top and makes it much easier to manage

Thfrog · 28/09/2024 17:19

Boobygravy · 28/09/2024 17:08

My gp prescribed low dose valium.
I took one about an hour prior and kept my eyes firmly shut.
When they took me out I thought I'd had
5 minutes, no I'd been in there almost 30 minutes.
Never open your eyes.

This is the trick. Do not open your eyes.

ceecee32 · 28/09/2024 17:19

notnorman · 28/09/2024 17:09

I had to have one on my heart where they give you an injection of a drug which makes your heart speed up and feels like you're about to have a heart attack/die.

0/10. Don't recommend 🙈😑

I had that, it was really traumatic. I thought it must be how you feel when you have a heart attack

ArabellaScott · 28/09/2024 17:22

notnorman · 28/09/2024 17:09

I had to have one on my heart where they give you an injection of a drug which makes your heart speed up and feels like you're about to have a heart attack/die.

0/10. Don't recommend 🙈😑

Even reading that is making me feel anxious. Flowers

AnybodyAnywhere · 28/09/2024 17:23

My GP prescribed 2 Diazepam, I only took one but it helped … and as others have said - never open your eyes!

autumn1610 · 28/09/2024 17:24

@MammaKel I’ve just had one on my head too. As I was going in I could feel myself panicking as I was going in and was so close to pressing the thing, but I had to really focus on not swallowing (I had to try not to while it was scanning) and it completed distracted me. For me it was the cage over my head that i didn’t like, did it have a mirror in it so you could see the people doing it, it was slightly weird but reassuring I could see them

housethatbuiltme · 28/09/2024 17:24

Sedation wore off and I 'came to' mid Gastroscopy completely freaking out and yanked the machine trying to get it out of me, they had to have a whole team hold me down while they tried to extract it. A few minutes later when my brain caught up with reality I felt really stupid.

It happens... A LOT.

Lots of medical procedures are very unnatural and go against every basic survival instinct, its not as easy to override instinct as we all 'think' it will be.

Lemonade2011 · 28/09/2024 17:25

@Tristar15 this is what I did, they put me in, I freaked a bit they pulled me out to abort but I managed to go back in tilting my head back into the room and I was fine. Weirdly I’d been in mri lots of times with kids as a nurse, they are usually sedated. Gp said I could have sedation if I needed another one

PurpleSparkledPixie · 28/09/2024 17:25

Never open your eyes.
Practice deep breathing and focus only on that.
Keep telling yourself it's only another 3 minutes, it's fine, you can do it, and picture cheerleaders and their pompoms. And repeat.

I had panic attacks for several weeks afterwards so be prepared in case you do but I hope you don't. I had to stay in for 45 minutes 😩

Differentstarts · 28/09/2024 17:27

I have them all the time so if you struggle there is somethings you can do, diazepam, keep your eyes closed, listen to youtube of mri noises so you know what to expect. Some hospitals not all will let you pick your own music. Do tell the staff ahead of time your fears as they will talk to you more during it.

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Username197 · 28/09/2024 17:27

I can completely understand! I had one for the first time a few months ago and it was the most horrible experience of my life. I was never told what it was so went in literally blind 😂 I hated every second of it and was so ill afterwards. I was in it for over 45 minutes! I don’t know how I coped but I made myself ill 🤣

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