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To feel kind of emotional because Maggie Smith died?

77 replies

YankSplaining · 27/09/2024 15:18

I didn’t know her personally, and she obviously lived a good long life, but…all the way back to when I was a kid, she was in everything. She, Robin Williams, and Angela Lansbury were the first actors whose names I knew. I was born in 1986, and Maggie Smith was Granny Wendy in “Hook,” the Mother Superior in “Sister Act,” and Mrs Medlock in “The Secret Garden.” Then as a teenager, I got really into period piece movies, and she was in “Gosford Park” (new in theaters at the time) and “A Room With a View” (older, but I saw it for the first time in 2003).

And, of course, she was Professor McGonagall in “Harry Potter,” because it was such a no-brainer casting choice. I was hugely into Harry Potter and saw the third movie in theaters with all my friends for my eighteenth birthday.

I started watching “Downton Abbey” partly because she was in it; my wedding party and I were discussing “Downton Abbey” as we waited in the back of the church to walk down the aisle. I watched Maggie Smith in “Downton Abbey” while I was breastfeeding my first baby. Maggie Smith was always somewhere, and made me think of so many good memories whenever I saw her. My daughters are Harry Potter fans now, so we’ve been seeing quite a lot of Professor McGonagall over the last few years.

I’m not falling into a deep depression or anything, but I just feel sad that she died.

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BecuaseIWantItThatWay · 27/09/2024 15:59

YANBU. She was an icon. ⭐

meltedchocolateandstrawberries · 27/09/2024 16:12

It's so sad. She was magical. From her children's statement, she had a peaceful death with family around her which I'm glad about. She's the epitome of a national treasure. 💔

Buffypaws · 27/09/2024 16:13

Her turn as Mrs Medlock didn’t work for me. I just couldn’t hate her.

redtrain123 · 27/09/2024 16:14

She had the best lines in Downton Abbey, and in many ways, made the drama.

Meep2024 · 27/09/2024 16:16

No absolutely I was a little emotional too. Fantastic actress. I'm sure she'll be missed by many.

AdaColeman · 27/09/2024 16:28

Oh no! I saw her as Desdemona with Laurence Olivier and in Franco Zeffirelli's amazing Much Ado About Nothing. I loved her in Quartet. How sad that she has gone.

CitrusPocket · 27/09/2024 16:34

Yes I am sad too. I also think if she knew she’d probably look at me and say “oh pull yourself together”. I don’t think she was one to suffer fools.

Singleandproud · 27/09/2024 16:36

@AdaColeman that performance is on BBC iPlayer we watched it a few months ago

DillDanding · 27/09/2024 16:39

Even though she’s famous for so much more than Downton Abbey, that’s the only thing I ever saw her in. I loved her in that, apart from her ridiculous final scenes in the film.

daisychain01 · 27/09/2024 16:49

My favourite Maggie Smith role was The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie. She was so 'edgy' in that film - an independent-minded feminist teacher who was a role model to those young women. I wanted a teacher like her!

Coruscations · 27/09/2024 16:50

I go back even further than you - I remember seeing her in stage productions with Robert Stephens, her first husband, and in early films like The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie and Oh What a Lovely War. She really has had a fantastic career. I particularly enjoyed Nothing Like a Dame, the programme she did with Eileen Atkins, Judi Dench and Joan Plowright - four absolutely formidable women just talking about acting, drama and their careers. It's sad that she has gone, but really, it's wonderful to reflect on what a fantastic life she lived and how much pleasure she gave to so many people.

TamborineGal · 27/09/2024 16:55

A truly gifted and talented woman. Her appearance with Kenneth Williams on Parkinson shows her poise and natural presence.
My teaching style was based on Miss Jean Brodie and there are many confused ex pupils out there to testify. RIP Maggie Smith, I admired you immensely.

SnapdragonToadflax · 27/09/2024 16:57

daisychain01 · 27/09/2024 16:49

My favourite Maggie Smith role was The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie. She was so 'edgy' in that film - an independent-minded feminist teacher who was a role model to those young women. I wanted a teacher like her!

I remember watching her in it when I was probably mid-teens, on a rainy weekend or school holiday, and thinking how incredibly cool she was. It's probably partly why I'm a very forthright feminist!

ArseyVarsey · 27/09/2024 16:57

I’m incredibly sad that Maggie Smith has died. But so glad the world got to see her talent. And talented she was. I thought she was particularly enthralling in The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie. I liked the Marigold hotel films, but most of all, I loved her depiction of Miss Shepherd in The Lady in the Van.
I accidently stumbled upon Gloucester Cresent a few months ago when I was in London. It is one of my very favourite films; Hard to believe it is a (mostly) true story!
Just thank you, Maggie Smith. 🌷

MsNeis · 27/09/2024 16:58

Oh noo! I didn't know 😔
Yanbu at all: she was great. Rest in peace Ms. Smith 🙏

gapattachment · 27/09/2024 17:14

It's sad but she lived a good life to a very good age and had a good death.

PumpkinPie2016 · 27/09/2024 17:26

I feel sad too 😞
She was a brilliant actress and I loved her in everything she was in.
She was definitely the best in Downton Abbey.

LlynTegid · 27/09/2024 17:27

YANBU to feel as you do. I hope in time you will look fondly and happily on all her work and the pleasure it gave to millions.

Devilsadvocat · 27/09/2024 17:36

I loved her in A room With A View and she was in an old film with Peter Ustonov where she played a French Girl in a posh dress shop, but really she was a cockney she was really funny and Im sure Sir Ian Mackellen wil be really sad as he was always .impersonating her. I loved her in everything she did and how beautiful she was in The Prime Of Miss Jean Brody.

MotherofPearl · 27/09/2024 17:37

Nobody could deliver an acerbic line as well as she could.

One of my favourites was in Gosford Park when she's going over her breakfast tray and finds she's been given shop-bought marmalade - she remarks with a sniff, "Well I call that very feeble."

Daleksatemyshed · 27/09/2024 18:11

Maggie Smith was my favourite, she was by far and away the best part of Downton Abbey and absolutely perfect in the Lady in the Van. I'm sure she had a clause in her contract that she always got the best lines, and well deserved, in Downtown her line about What is a weekend? gets quoted in my house most Fridays. RIP Maggie, I'll miss you 🌹

Keepingongoing · 27/09/2024 20:18

I always remember a line from A Private Function…something like ‘Well, Gilbert, I think this calls for sexual intercourse’. Just perfect.

And her performance in Alan Bennett’s Talking Heads as Susan, the vicar’s wife with the drink problem….

Afterrain · 27/09/2024 20:41

Yes, I too felt sad.
She was ' the creme de la creme"

onwardandupwards · 27/09/2024 20:52

Absolutely loved her in first wives club. Truly amazing lady one of the greats, such a sad loss x

MelodyMalone · 27/09/2024 20:52

Not unreasonable at all.

Maggie Smith was a superb actress. She could say everything with just an expression on her face. So many memorable roles, from Miss Jean Brodie to the Dowager Countess. Professor McGonagall is my future role model 😄

RIP ❤️