Well I posted a while ago regarding a guy I'd met and was considering/working towards a LDR and then who knows what in the future. Out of the blue he sent me a dick pic which is not something we had discussed/where our relationship/chat was at that time.
At the time I posted it was a resounding "the guy is a creep". Anyway I stupidly allowed him to apologise and talk me round and we continued with our daily contact and plans for me to go out and visit him (flights were already booked).
Not that it makes a difference which country either of us are from but we are both westerners before I get the whole "what do you expect meeting a guy abroad" comments.
Sooooo. I get there and realise I was compromising a hell of a lot but stupidly thought I could look past these issues and allow myself to see if this had any legs. That was until his WIFE turned up unannounced!!
Turns out he had forgotten to tell me about his second wife of 14 1/2 years, along with the 11 other women he was sleeping with around the world (he travels a lot).
This all happened just over a week ago, to say the first few days were so surreal, I was sharing a twin hotel room with "the wife" for those few days until I could fly to a nearby country to stay with a friend until my international flight back home.
Lesson learnt, if he flings his red flags in your face, believe them and run for the hills at the first possible opportunity!!