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To Q why many high earners still live paycheque to paycheque?

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FrugalFannie · 26/09/2024 21:40

I wanted to spark a discussion after seeing a post about living paycheque to paycheque. An interesting article I read in the ES (Nov, 2023) claimed that “Some 26% of people surveyed across the UK with an annual income of £100,000 + said they had no money left at the end of the month” https://www.standard.co.uk/business/money/26-of-people-earning-ps100-000plus-living-monthtomonth-amid-costs-squeeze-b1121031.html

Recent years have indeed been tough financially, but if you earn a relatively good or high wage, it seems surprising to still be living paycheque to paycheque. I personally don’t live this way; I’m a single woman with no children and consider myself smart with money.

I’d love to hear from those who aren’t living paycheque to paycheque about how they manage their finances. What strategies do you use? Is it a matter of being extremely frugal in this economy? Clearly, this issue affects people across various income levels, and I recognise that everyone’s situation is unique. I’m genuinely curious to learn about different financial approaches that work for you!

26% of people earning £100,000-plus ‘living month-to-month amid costs squeeze’

Nine in 10 of those who said they were living pay cheque to pay cheque attributed it to cost-of-living increases, RBC Brewin Dolphin said.

https://www.standard.co.uk/business/money/26-of-people-earning-ps100-000plus-living-monthtomonth-amid-costs-squeeze-b1121031.html

OP posts:
IVFmumoftwo · 27/09/2024 16:40

SLeanne · 27/09/2024 14:03

There's a lot you can do when you don't have a mortgage, including one of you taking a career break, thus having no nursery fees. Again, I'm not saying this is for everyone, but people seem to think that they are stuck with the situation they are in and then complaining they have no money left, and this that and the other is too expensive!

What about the rest of the bills?

Saschka · 27/09/2024 17:12

GiddyRobin · 27/09/2024 10:47

Hmm. Last time we painted our living room, it took us a weekend. That was with breaks and not constant work. The quality may well have been better had a professional decorator done it, but it looks good enough for us. My dad worked as a painter/decorator (and all sorts of other things) and taught me how to do it, so I've got some knowledge and it was pretty easy!

DC got involved and loved it. We had "camping out" meals and turned it into an adventure.

We'd never laid carpet before either or done tiling, but we just Google and ask advice from people we know. It always comes out looking fine and it's never taken huge swathes of time. We'd probably not decorate a whole house in one go, though, unless we moved somewhere else and it needed it. Then that would be done for X amount of years, possibly repainting another room another colour if we wanted a change.

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Yep it was a two bedroom flat, so two bedrooms, a living room, kitchen and bathroom to be washed down, filled and painted, and it took four weeks because we were only doing weekends and odd half days when I could move my work around (too little light to do much in the evenings). Plus also trying to keep a semblance of normality for DS, which meant I did most of it by myself while DH took DS to the park.

i don’t know how much it would have cost to get it done professionally, probably £5-6k, but if I’d had that money spare at the time I’d have paid it.

Moanranger · 27/09/2024 17:36

@harrumphh you are a Millionaire Next Door par excellence!

SLeanne · 27/09/2024 18:46

IVFmumoftwo · 27/09/2024 16:40

What about the rest of the bills?

What about them? Other bills are council tax, water, gas & electric, various insurance for cars, home, contents, pet, MOT'S etc. They all get paid. Drop in the ocean compared to mortgage

ParapetCreeper · 27/09/2024 19:39

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SLeanne · 27/09/2024 19:42

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£700 per month in inner London? Is that a mistake

Newusernameforthiss · 27/09/2024 19:44

Because, get this, you can be really clever/a great lawyer/a sought after dentist and also be crap with money? Two separate skill sets....?

Why can't this brain surgeon cook like a Michelin starred chef?
Why would a CFO be shit on the tills in Lidl?
Why would an amazing, inspirational reception teacher be no good as an office manager?

Some more threads for you, there 🫠

141mum · 27/09/2024 19:47

Itsgettingbettetman · 26/09/2024 21:48

Because they're thick as pig shit

I was fortunate to get a job that pays nearly double what I used to earn two years ago. I still live as though I'm earning the lesser amount. Rest goes in pensions and investments.

Can't understand how folk I'm this country are so poor at budgeting.

Rude

orangeleopard · 27/09/2024 19:50

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£700 for London? I’m in council housing in Hertfordshire (2 bedroom flat, no balcony or garden and living room/kitchen space is one room) and my rent is over £1k. So that’s crazy to me that your rent is so cheap for London!

SLeanne · 27/09/2024 20:16

There is the option of moving out of London.

Lifeofthepartay · 27/09/2024 20:17

For the same reason a high percentage of lottery winners end up broke after a few years, a high income doesn't mean people are financially savvy.

SLeanne · 27/09/2024 20:18

Some people here are living on another planet

SLeanne · 27/09/2024 20:24

Lifeofthepartay · 27/09/2024 20:17

For the same reason a high percentage of lottery winners end up broke after a few years, a high income doesn't mean people are financially savvy.

Chavs. Uneducated people.

Bearpawk · 27/09/2024 22:04

This is a journo thread - If anybody is bothered about being quoted

Artfuldodger24 · 27/09/2024 22:57

Bearpawk · 27/09/2024 22:04

This is a journo thread - If anybody is bothered about being quoted

Omg thanks I suspected baiting as much. Clearly they want people to hate on the middle class, support taxing people on £100k seriously when they obviously shouldn’t be taxing higher for those on £115k than those on £1m. Truly shameless journo - stop making people on £20k hating those on £100k they should be hating those on £1m!!!!

Completelyjo · 28/09/2024 06:47

Monthly take home for £100k with student loans and 5% pension £5,041.04

  • 15 funded hours at 3years

Monthly take home for a couple earning 50k between them with one 30k and one 20k salary, same pension plan and student loans £3,424.64
+£170.2 in child benefit every 4 weeks

  • tax free childcare
  • 30 funded hours childcare from 9 months
  • some element of universal credit or housing allowance towards rent and possibly the childcare bill being lowered.

With a young family the difference in these sorts of incomes really aren’t that vast.

Those on lower incomes assume people on £100k must have twice as much money as them but they don’t.

LiftyLift · 28/09/2024 07:33

Inslopia · 27/09/2024 16:13

DH and I are reasonably high earners, him £70k and me £60k, plus £20k bonus that goes straight to savings and holidays.

That’s a pretty big bonus vs salary ratio. Intrigued as to what industry or are you just both young starting out?

DH senior in public sector in IT. Me many years service in financial services. The bonus has been built up over many years.

OrdsallChord · 28/09/2024 07:50

Inslopia · 27/09/2024 10:58

Oh my god, it's like people living on £50k per year in/ near London don't exist 😂 You do realise the average salary in London is significantly less than £100k? You don't have to believe me, its fine

I know loads that do but loads aren’t paying todays mortgage & childcare costs.

Exactly.

There are loads of threads on here where people pipe up well we only have a household income of 40k or whatever and we live comfortably in London, but neglect to mention that they bought their first property in 2006/are in SH/had parental help for a deposit either in cash or years of free rent.

There are indeed millions of people in London living on low and medium incomes. The number who are doing it whilst fully exposed to the full 2024 cost of housing is much lower, not least because many people have been forced out for that reason.

SunriseMonsters · 28/09/2024 10:24

Completelyjo · 28/09/2024 06:47

Monthly take home for £100k with student loans and 5% pension £5,041.04

  • 15 funded hours at 3years

Monthly take home for a couple earning 50k between them with one 30k and one 20k salary, same pension plan and student loans £3,424.64
+£170.2 in child benefit every 4 weeks

  • tax free childcare
  • 30 funded hours childcare from 9 months
  • some element of universal credit or housing allowance towards rent and possibly the childcare bill being lowered.

With a young family the difference in these sorts of incomes really aren’t that vast.

Those on lower incomes assume people on £100k must have twice as much money as them but they don’t.

Exactly. People earning low incomes pay so little if any tax that they often have no comprehension of how much of a higher salary is paid in tax.

Due to the cliff edges in the tax system I calculated that a lone parent with two children in childcare has to earn over £150k to have the same net income after tax and childcare + benefits as a couple both earning average UK salary. The penalisation of single parents is beyond ridiculous. This is the only developed country that levies taxation on an individual not household basis and it is enormously discriminatory against women.

MattBerningerstrophywife · 28/09/2024 10:48

I had started a post stating “Another thing is that many lower earners are propped up with other benefits and don’t pay a lot of tax so they assume that someone on 3 their salary actually comes out with 3 net income”..: but then some of you have worded it much better than me.

i’m horrified when I look at my take home salary: the amount I take home is twice as much as I pay in tax/ni

JaninaDuszejko · 28/09/2024 11:13

This is the only developed country that levies taxation on an individual not household basis and it is enormously discriminatory against women.

It's far more discriminatory for a woman's income as having to be taxed at a far higher rate than a man's which is what happens if you tax a couple together. A lot of women would step out of paid work altogether in that case because a higher taxation rate plus the cost of childcare in the UK would make it not worth working.

The issue for single mothers is that absent fathers do not pay their fair share of the cost of bringing up children. But yes, getting rid of the stupid cliff edges on various tax bands would make a massive difference. But that affects people on at the £60-80K band as well as they lose child benefit and those on very low incomes when they lose the entitlement to vatious benefits, not just high earners.

OrdsallChord · 28/09/2024 11:16

Yep, people often miss that there are cliff edges and bottlenecks spread out at various points over our tax system. It could be reduction in free childcare entitlement at 100k, it could be loss of free school meals, or lots of things inbetween. The principle is the same and it all needs fixing.

WickerMam · 28/09/2024 11:51

"No money left at the end of the month" means different things to different people also.

I might moan about being skint the week before pay day (not out loud - before i get accused of being tone deaf). But, that's with a large pension payment, money going into various long and short term savings pots at the start of the month, mortgage overpayment, etc.

What is left, I normally spend - but the important things are prioritised first.

So some people might say they have nothing let after "essential bills" but view e.g. kids uni savings, or school fees as essential rather than optional.

JaninaDuszejko · 28/09/2024 12:14

i’m horrified when I look at my take home salary: the amount I take home is twice as much as I pay in tax/ni

That's pretty standard though, tax is just split up differently at different levels. Low income families pay lower direct taxes but higher (as a percentage of income) indirect taxes, high earners pay higher direct taxes (split into high income, low NI) but low indirect taxes. But most people pay about 1/3 of their gross income in taxes. There are only two certainties in life, death and taxes.

Sibilantseamstress · 28/09/2024 15:04

My husband pays over 58% of his gross pay in tax and NI. That’s not even counting what he pays in VAT.

I think this explains some of the mystery that is astonishing some posters. Doubling your gross pay doesn’t double your spending power. A big chunk of the extra get’s taken off you and put into the pot to pay for shared infrastructure and services, and redistributed to people who don’t have enough to get by.

The UK is a relatively poorer nation than it was 20 years ago. Every income bracket is feeling the squeeze.