2012 - diagnosed with PCOS after a year of no periods, several trips to the GP and a reluctant referral for an Ultrasound. Official advice from the Dr, 'you're fat, lose weight, no we won't offer any help or medication'.
2014 - finally got pregnant after 3 years of TTC and no help other than 'you're fat, lose weight.....'
At 28 weeks pregnant, was diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes and put on insulin.
Went to 6 week postnatal and asked about diabetes, was told it was pregnancy specific, no further testing or treatment needed.
2015 - 2024 - multiple trips to the GP, infrequent periods, painful when they happen, can't lose weight, tired.... 'you're fat, lose weight, till you do that we can't investigate further'.
August 2024 - buy myself a freestyle Libre Glucose monitor and within a few hours my phone is sending me 'seek medical advice' messages because my blood sugar levels were very very high. Call 111 to see if they can get me somewhere for a diabetes test, they send me straight to A&E. 5 hours in A&E and I have a big bag of insulin, metformin, testing kit and other assorted paraphernalia and an ongoing referral to the Diabetes clinic. The blood tests show I've had Diabetes for a while. I'm guessing probably since 2014.
So yeah, dismissed and ignored is an accurate description.