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The Irony.. PM's donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

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JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’

The Prime Minister signalled he could continue to accept hospitality gifts from donors.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/keir-starmer-prime-minister-gcses-mps-government-b2618505.html

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llamali · 25/09/2024 17:02

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 16:14

Or they could pay for it themselves or hire dresses, others have and it was fine

Plus more sustainable

If the people donating know it might go on party frocks then that's fine

SmileyHappyPeopleInTheSun · 25/09/2024 17:03

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2024 09:23

Yes, however Ofqual said that loads of state school kids were learning in schools with inadequate facilities and didn’t even have teachers so if they gave special consideration to the RAAC kids then they’d need to justify not giving special consideration to all the kids disadvantaged by the various deficits in state schools.

And I guess I can see their point.

If only there were the same number of threads about those issues as the VAT one….

I'm surprised the RAAC isn't more in the news - it's still badly affecting DN old school and outside of them managing the problem there seems to be no solutions for them.

Teacher shortage I've mentioned how bad it's been for my DC and have been accused of scaremongering or outright lying. Thankfully it looks like they have finally managed some stability at least for last child's Y11. Other schools are now being badly affected and one hitting regional news with 60 + classes - this school there wasn't a peep when it was like that for my DC in couple of their subjects.

The shear number of VAT on private education threads is staggering - I'm not keen on it personally but much more worried and impacted by loss of winter fuel payments for recently bereaved parent.

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 08:42

PM suggests £20,000 donation was for ‘son to study for GCSEs’ | The Independent

Sorry if there are other threads, but I did search and nothing came up.

“My boy, 16, was in the middle of his GCSEs. I made him a promise, a promise that he would be able to get to his school, do his exams, without being disturbed,” he told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme.

“But if you’re a 16-year-old trying to do your GCSEs and it’s your one chance in life – I promised him we would move somewhere, get out of the house and go somewhere where he could be peacefully studying.

So its OK for the PM to be worried about his child's "one chance" GCSE year being disturbed ...but he's not so worried about other people's children feeling stressed during their GCSEs by introducing the private school VAT during an academic school year.

I don't have a child in private school doing their GCSEs. And I know that there are lots of people who support the VAT and those who don't.

But I think there is a midline where lots of people on both sides of the fence agree making this change during an academic year is not fair on the kids in key exam years...and I am one of them because not all parents have a Lord Alli to step in to ensure their child's "one chance" GCSE year is not being disturbed.

For Voting:

Unreasonable - I am with Keir and I am not really bothered with other people's children's "one chance" school year being interrupted.

Not Unreasonable - I agree Labour should not interrupt the academic school year and introduce the VAT in September 2025.

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:04

llamali · 25/09/2024 17:02

If the people donating know it might go on party frocks then that's fine

I don't think it has done Starmer any favours actually. He's seen as a hypocrite and public opinion has dropped

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:05

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

A shame when politicians put in poor policy to make it hard for some doing GSCEs

nietzscheanvibe · 25/09/2024 17:15

TealTraybake · 25/09/2024 09:27

Would all those parents carping about being happy with the VAT on education, be happy to increase their taxes to improve all state schools. No. Thought not.

No. Thought not.

Erm... yes!

And to improve the NHS. And social care. Etc, etc, etc...

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:27

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 16:43

I do not. KS is a rich man and his wife comes from a wealthy family.

But not all politicians have the same background.

If it is a genuine work requirement to have different clothes, there should either be a clothing allowance or acceptance of donations. The latter is less costly to the taxpayer and there could be conditions placed around what is allowed e.g. donations from British firms only, only 1 outfit accepted per firm per year etc

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:29

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:27

But not all politicians have the same background.

If it is a genuine work requirement to have different clothes, there should either be a clothing allowance or acceptance of donations. The latter is less costly to the taxpayer and there could be conditions placed around what is allowed e.g. donations from British firms only, only 1 outfit accepted per firm per year etc

Why would you need different clothes to be PM?

A few suits and no one will care or notice, like any other well paid job

HRTQueen · 25/09/2024 17:37

oh we have not had a private school VAT thread for all of what two days

this isn't new, Labour made it clear a while ago and schools have had a long time to prepare

not all the VAT has to be passed on to parents, like state school private schools have to manage on a tighter budget

JustSpeechless · 25/09/2024 17:52

89redballoons · 25/09/2024 16:40

That isn't what I said, though, as you know.

Nope don’t know - please could you be explicit in how I was normalising.

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Putting · 25/09/2024 17:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 17:29

Why would you need different clothes to be PM?

A few suits and no one will care or notice, like any other well paid job

You may have a very different job to me, but I certainly don’t have a wardrobe with appropriate formal evening outfits.

Day to day workwear, yes.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:00

Putting · 25/09/2024 17:54

You may have a very different job to me, but I certainly don’t have a wardrobe with appropriate formal evening outfits.

Day to day workwear, yes.

But not all politicians have the same background.

Your post said politicians. Starmer is the politician, his wife is not.

If you did mean dresses not suits for the spouse then they can be hired. It's wasteful to need a new formal dress to wear only once.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 18:07

Boomer55 · 25/09/2024 17:04

He did what most of us do. The best we can for our kids. 🤷‍♀️

no. He took stuff from someone else to do it when he is a rich man and could afford to do it himself

Putting · 25/09/2024 18:09

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:00

But not all politicians have the same background.

Your post said politicians. Starmer is the politician, his wife is not.

If you did mean dresses not suits for the spouse then they can be hired. It's wasteful to need a new formal dress to wear only once.

I was thinking of politicians and their plus ones generally, not just KS and his wife.

I actually don’t know how many formal outfits the average MP / minister would need. But if it’s a lot, and they’re photographed a lot, it could mean that even hiring outfits (assuming they’re a standard shape and size) gets expensive quickly. I think it anyone needs non-standard clothing for work it shouldn’t come out of their personal income.

godmum56 · 25/09/2024 18:11

Putting · 25/09/2024 18:09

I was thinking of politicians and their plus ones generally, not just KS and his wife.

I actually don’t know how many formal outfits the average MP / minister would need. But if it’s a lot, and they’re photographed a lot, it could mean that even hiring outfits (assuming they’re a standard shape and size) gets expensive quickly. I think it anyone needs non-standard clothing for work it shouldn’t come out of their personal income.

what is this thing about needing different clothes every time?

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:31

Butterflyfern · 25/09/2024 09:11

Why are there constant threads on here ATM trying to paint the Keir as Boris Johnson?

Is it disgruntled Tory voters sulking or something more organised by a Comms team linked somehow to Tory Party support?

Comms people, desperate to justify their roles in the post election landscape I think.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 18:34

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:31

Comms people, desperate to justify their roles in the post election landscape I think.

Nice try but you might like to look again at the numbers - loads are irritated, you can see it in commentary, media and polls

As for comms people - assuming you are a Labour supporter your party might want some better ones

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:49

You assume incorrectly.
I was responding to a specific post regarding the daily anti-government threads, not commenting on this particular topic.

HRTQueen · 25/09/2024 18:50

Apart from some private school parents that I know most do not give it a second thought about VAT on school fees

its just not on the vast majority of peoples radar

And it certainly wasn’t an issue for Labour at the election

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 19:00

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 18:49

You assume incorrectly.
I was responding to a specific post regarding the daily anti-government threads, not commenting on this particular topic.

Why would mn be one of the only places not to have threads about the current party in power?

Of course people start threads about them, and talk about them on other sites and below the line commentary

Ratherubbish · 25/09/2024 19:03

Are donations taxed?

Katypp · 25/09/2024 19:08

SnapdragonToadflax · 25/09/2024 08:58

It's a false equivalence.

All this ridiculous media coverage about donations to Labour, when the Tory government was infamous for its beneficial agreements with rich people. I mean, come on... have people forgotten Boris Johnson existed? The man lives his entire life funded by other people.

But the point for many is the hypocrisy.
Labour's constant carping about donors and freebies when they were opposition makes me cut them no slack whatsoever now.
Starmer, Rayner etc al would not have accepted this reason from a Tory so there is no reason it is any more acceptable because it's Labour's excuse.
The fact the Tories may have been worse is irrelevant in this context. If you set yourself up to be beyond reproach, you haven't take the consequences when you fail.
Are you saying that Labour can do whatever they like up to when they are 'as bad as the Tories' and that's OK? Because that's the logical conclusion to your argument?

Fangirl79 · 25/09/2024 20:38

Putting · 25/09/2024 18:09

I was thinking of politicians and their plus ones generally, not just KS and his wife.

I actually don’t know how many formal outfits the average MP / minister would need. But if it’s a lot, and they’re photographed a lot, it could mean that even hiring outfits (assuming they’re a standard shape and size) gets expensive quickly. I think it anyone needs non-standard clothing for work it shouldn’t come out of their personal income.

I think it is a lot. Look at events like COP 26, G7/G8/G20 summits, No10 receptions, Diplomatic receptions, state visits hosted by UK, Remembrance Day, Coronation, Guildhall banquets, all attended by PM and cabinet plus spouses (and opposition party leaders). Sam Cam's outfits were reported. So were Carrie J's and Akshata M's. Where they are representing the Govt or the UK I don't expect them to pay personally. No reason they couldn't be hired, but since they are props for the representative and Diplomatic work of government, they should be funded by the state, not individuals or private donors- or at least they should be tax-deductable. Day to day wardrobes and clothes for spouses doing their own thing are another matter, and party political activity such as party conference wear should not be state funded imo. I'm not suggesting kitchen suppers for political friends and personal chums should have any subsidy at all.
Most jobs don't require a working wardrobe of evening wear, but some do.

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 21:05

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 19:00

Why would mn be one of the only places not to have threads about the current party in power?

Of course people start threads about them, and talk about them on other sites and below the line commentary

I haven't suggested that there shouldn't be threads but as a daily MN reader, I can assure you that the frequency and tone of the current slew is remarkable. I have therefore chosen to remark upon it.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2024 21:31

Domino20 · 25/09/2024 21:05

I haven't suggested that there shouldn't be threads but as a daily MN reader, I can assure you that the frequency and tone of the current slew is remarkable. I have therefore chosen to remark upon it.

Not really. Did you miss all the daily threads about the last gov?

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