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To think it’s unprofessional that the interviewers didn’t apologise for being 15 mins late?

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TalkNerdyToMe · 24/09/2024 13:09

I had an interview scheduled for 11am today via MS Teams. I joined the meeting at 10.55am and was placed in the waiting room, but no-one admitted me until 11.15am. I sent a message to the Executive Assistant to check if they could see if I was waiting, and I also called, but didn’t receive any communication from them.

I understand things can run behind schedule, but I felt it was quite unprofessional not to acknowledge the delay, especially as I was left waiting for a while. Am I overreacting, or is it reasonable to except at least an apology in situations like this?

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TalkNerdyToMe · 25/09/2024 14:18

GertieN · 25/09/2024 14:04

Did you apply direct or through a recruitment tagency? Ask the agent what the employer is like, if they have recruited for them before etc, and at second interview ask lots about culture and staff turnover and why the role is vacant.

id definitely have apologised profusely if I was so late with no explanation

Applied directly through them, no agency involvement. It’s a new role at this organisation…. The second interview involves a pre-task and then the interview with the same two that were there yesterday and the CEO. So bad about no apology. It’s turned me right off

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TalkNerdyToMe · 25/09/2024 14:20

PoshMonkey · 25/09/2024 14:11

Are you going to turn up 15 minutes late and not apologise?

I'd be tempted.... Wink

Haha, this crossed my mind. Shame how it doesn’t work both ways isn’t it. I’m sure I’d be out of the running on the basis of that alone if I did the same…

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TalkNerdyToMe · 25/09/2024 14:21

TorroFerney · 25/09/2024 14:11

Did they say thank you for waiting. For those of us who say sorry for existing that’s usually the advice. But if not that was rude and suggests they don’t value the time of people less senior. And I say this as someone senior.

Nothing at all! They just began the interview!

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MoreOfADogPerson · 25/09/2024 14:25

TalkNerdyToMe · 25/09/2024 14:21

Nothing at all! They just began the interview!

I wonder if there was a scheduling miscommunication and they weren't scheduled to start until 11.15 but the EA had sent it to you for 11? Seems odd to not acknowledge the delay.

waterfalls123 · 25/09/2024 16:53

I'd take the second interview and ask at the end of it as part of your questions to them how do they prioritise time management in the organisation 😂

WhatIsThisTomFoolery24 · 25/09/2024 17:27

It is rude and unprofessional. Believe me when I say, it tells you everything you need to know about the company & the people you will be working for & it's not good! If they don't care they've kept you waiting, they won't care if your pay check is late etc.

OopsyDaisie · 25/09/2024 17:34

I thought you had an interview with ME as I had one on Teams today at 11am and couldn't login on the link the recruiter had sent! I contacted him, asked for the applicant's email and sent a new link (the whole thing took 15min).
I DID pologise though, more than once, I would never have considered not to!
I am conscious that person's time is valuable and I wasted it, although not on purpose.
Not having heard an apology is a red flag from that company, or potential future manager/colleague who was interviewing you

PoshMonkey · 25/09/2024 19:28

Must admit, whenever I have had something duff happen in an interview like this it has generally followed that the boss, job or company is 5hite. It's almost like the signs were there at the outset. I contracted a lot so saw it all. One interviewer answered his phone several times, another was an hour late (I kid you not!), another one telling me not to try and read my CV (while it was upside down on his desk, etc. etc.

Are you going to do the second interview?

I'd be inclined to turn it down and not give a reason. If pushed, I would say you don't think it's a good fit.

DadJoke · 25/09/2024 19:34

It's fairly rude to be late, it's very rude not to apologize.

SweetSakura · 25/09/2024 19:52

MoreOfADogPerson · 25/09/2024 14:25

I wonder if there was a scheduling miscommunication and they weren't scheduled to start until 11.15 but the EA had sent it to you for 11? Seems odd to not acknowledge the delay.

This is the one thing I wonder too

LlynTegid · 25/09/2024 20:09

Do you really need the job? If not, I suggest declining and telling them why, in very clear terms.

Modern technology means there is no excuse for not letting people know.

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