At work I have just been given a bonus for 10 years employment. Everyone gets one after 10 years. I have had one year off in that time on maternity. After returning from maternity 3 years ago I have had a lot of passive aggressive comments made on a daily basis from one colleague. I do just smile and get on with my work but today it’s really got to me. Everyone said congratulations on the ten years and their comment was “I didn’t realise the company counted maternity leave too. I thought it was just active time worked” Aibu and just over thinking this? It’s just I can’t image the same comment being said to our manager who has also been off on maternity.